Deepika Mathur (దీపిక మాధుర్)

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Deepika Mathur (దీపిక మాధుర్)
4. Why do females expose their body parts like breast, hips, cleavage, waxy legs and thigh on the name of fashion? What is the main motto behind it?

I can't write about all other women. I can write about my self. I do it sometime just becuz all the other girls are doing it. Its the psychology or something I guess. Even men have some sought of these so called "psychologies". For eg. say now a days every young dude wants to keep a beard like Virat Kohli. I find it personally annoying but I know girls who really find it sexy. Most of the time I have these nightmares that every one in India will have these stupid beards and then I just think about how will I feel when some one with a Beard will kiss me with those hairs poking in my nose or face or whatever place he is kissing me. Ewwww.

But its a personal choice. It is supposed to be a personal choice. Similarly exposing or not exposing is suppose to be a personal choice. But its not really that personal. I am just following blindly what others are doing. It might be stupid or not. I can't judge that.

Btw, people always see those "EXPOSED" parts but they never bother about the difficulties we have to face for being able to expose those parts. I mean, try waxing your legs or BEARDS :). You will know how we feel.

4. ఆడవాళ్లు ఫ్యాషన్ పేరుతో రొమ్ము, తుంటి, చీలిక, మైనపు కాళ్లు, తొడ వంటి శరీర భాగాలను ఎందుకు బయటపెడతారు? దీని వెనుక ఉన్న ప్రధాన నినాదం ఏమిటి?

మిగతా స్త్రీల గురించి నేను రాయలేను. నేను నా గురించి వ్రాయగలను. మిగతా అమ్మాయిలందరూ దీన్ని చేస్తున్నారు కాబట్టి నేను ఎప్పుడైనా చేస్తాను. ఇది మనస్తత్వశాస్త్రం లేదా నేను ఊహిస్తున్నది. పురుషులు కూడా "మనస్తత్వశాస్త్రం" అని పిలవబడే వాటిని కొంత కోరుతున్నారు. ఉదా. ఈ రోజుల్లో ప్రతి యువకుడు విరాట్ కోహ్లిలా గడ్డం పెట్టుకోవాలని కోరుకుంటాడు. నాకు ఇది వ్యక్తిగతంగా చికాకు కలిగించేదిగా ఉంది కానీ నిజంగా సెక్సీగా భావించే అమ్మాయిలు నాకు తెలుసు. భారతదేశంలోని ప్రతి ఒక్కరికీ ఇలాంటి తెలివితక్కువ గడ్డాలు ఉంటాయని నాకు చాలాసార్లు పీడకలలు వస్తుంటాయి, ఆపై గడ్డం ఉన్న ఎవరైనా నా ముక్కు లేదా ముఖం లేదా అతను ఏ ప్రదేశంలోనైనా ఆ వెంట్రుకలతో నన్ను ముద్దుపెట్టుకున్నప్పుడు నేను ఎలా భావిస్తాను అని ఆలోచిస్తాను. నన్ను ముద్దుపెట్టుకుంటున్నాడు. Ewwww.

కానీ అది వ్యక్తిగత ఎంపిక. ఇది వ్యక్తిగత ఎంపికగా భావించబడుతుంది. అదేవిధంగా బహిర్గతం చేయడం లేదా బహిర్గతం చేయకపోవడం అనేది వ్యక్తిగత ఎంపిక. కానీ అది నిజంగా వ్యక్తిగతమైనది కాదు. ఇతరులు ఏమి చేస్తున్నారో నేను గుడ్డిగా అనుసరిస్తున్నాను. ఇది మూర్ఖత్వం లేదా కాకపోవచ్చు. నేను దానిని తీర్పు చెప్పలేను.

Btw, వ్యక్తులు ఎల్లప్పుడూ ఆ "బహిర్గతమైన" భాగాలను చూస్తారు కానీ ఆ భాగాలను బహిర్గతం చేయడం కోసం మనం ఎదుర్కొనే ఇబ్బందుల గురించి వారు ఎప్పుడూ బాధపడరు. నా ఉద్దేశ్యం, మీ కాళ్లకు లేదా గడ్డాలకు వ్యాక్సింగ్ చేయడానికి ప్రయత్నించండి :). మేము ఎలా భావిస్తున్నామో మీకు తెలుస్తుంది.
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6. What's something you've never told anyone?
Thanks for asking this question. I wanted to tell this to someone but wasn’t sure how to tell this. I find it difficult to discuss it with any one. I am not sure why. I am being stupid I know. But I still don’t know how to tell this. So I am getting this off my chest without being anonymous.

Cut the story short, I was late from a birthday party and I was alone. It was dark in the night and I was shit scared to walk alone. Even my own shadow was making me sh** my pants. I was just a teenager. Then there were few stray dogs. They were really making me uncomfortable.

I was still a good kilometer away from my hostel. Suddenly I noticed a shadow following me. I tried to increase my pace. The shadow started moving fast and now I can see that there was this guy who was following me really fast. I wasn’t sure what his intentions were, but they weren’t good. I was so scared I started dialing something on my phone. That’s when he got hold of me and started touching me.

Even though I was scared, I found something inside me telling me to wake up and do something. It made me angry and that’s when I decided enough was enough. I gathered all my strength and slapped him hard on his face. My phone fell down on the ground. I am sure he felt all the stars in the universe circling around his eyes because he was looking up in the sky for a good 5 seconds.

I wasn’t scared any more. I decided to do something bad, Tit for Tat!!!. I grab hold of his balls on his pants and with another hand I grabbed his neck. Then I told him to keep his hormones in check. I then pushed him away and spanked him two or three times on his back and A$$. He fell down on the ground and came out of his journey of the milky way. He realized what has happened and he started running away. I got hold of a stone and hurled it in his direction. Not sure where the stone went cuz it never hit him.

My heart was pounding and my blood pressure was rising. I realized that I have actually sexually assaulted a guy. I was scared, angry, ashamed, happy and I am not sure how I felt that time. It took me full 5 minutes to recollect my thoughts and then I started running till I reached my hostel.

6. మీరు ఎవరికీ చెప్పని విషయం ఏమిటి?

ఈ ప్రశ్న అడిగినందుకు ధన్యవాదాలు. నేను ఈ విషయాన్ని ఎవరికైనా చెప్పాలనుకున్నాను కానీ ఎలా చెప్పాలో తెలియలేదు. ఎవరితోనైనా చర్చించడం నాకు కష్టంగా ఉంది. ఎందుకో నాకు తెలియదు. నేను తెలివితక్కువవాడిని అని నాకు తెలుసు. కానీ ఈ విషయం ఎలా చెప్పాలో నాకు ఇంకా తెలియదు. కాబట్టి నేను అనామకంగా లేకుండా నా ఛాతీ నుండి దీన్ని పొందుతున్నాను.


కథను క్లుప్తంగా తగ్గించండి, నేను పుట్టినరోజు పార్టీకి ఆలస్యంగా వచ్చాను మరియు నేను ఒంటరిగా ఉన్నాను. రాత్రి చీకటిగా ఉండడంతో ఒంటరిగా నడవాలంటే భయంగా ఉంది. నా స్వంత నీడ కూడా నన్ను నా ప్యాంటుగా మార్చింది. నేను యువకుడిని. అప్పుడు కొన్ని వీధి కుక్కలు ఉన్నాయి. అవి నాకు నిజంగా అసౌకర్యాన్ని కలిగించాయి.


నేను నా హాస్టల్ నుండి ఇంకా మంచి కిలోమీటరు దూరంలో ఉన్నాను. అకస్మాత్తుగా ఒక నీడ నన్ను వెంబడించడం గమనించాను. నేను నా వేగాన్ని పెంచడానికి ప్రయత్నించాను. నీడ వేగంగా కదలడం ప్రారంభించింది మరియు ఇప్పుడు నన్ను చాలా వేగంగా అనుసరిస్తున్న వ్యక్తి ఉన్నట్లు నేను చూడగలిగాను. అతని ఉద్దేశాలు ఏమిటో నాకు ఖచ్చితంగా తెలియదు, కానీ అవి మంచివి కావు. నేను చాలా భయపడి నా ఫోన్‌లో ఏదో డయల్ చేయడం ప్రారంభించాను. అప్పుడే నన్ను పట్టుకుని తాకడం మొదలుపెట్టాడు.


నేను భయపడుతున్నా, నిద్రలేచి ఏదో ఒకటి చేయమని నాలో ఏదో ఒక విషయం చెప్పబడింది. ఇది నాకు కోపం తెప్పించింది మరియు నేను చాలని నిర్ణయించుకున్నాను. నా శక్తినంతా కూడదీసుకుని అతని ముఖం మీద బలంగా కొట్టాను. నా ఫోన్ నేలమీద పడింది. అతను 5 సెకన్ల పాటు ఆకాశంలోకి చూస్తున్నందున విశ్వంలోని నక్షత్రాలన్నీ తన కళ్ల చుట్టూ తిరుగుతున్నాయని నేను ఖచ్చితంగా అనుకుంటున్నాను.


నేను ఇక భయపడలేదు. నేను ఏదైనా చెడు చేయాలని నిర్ణయించుకున్నాను, Tit for Tat!!!. నేను అతని ప్యాంటు మీద అతని బాల్స్ పట్టుకుని, మరో చేత్తో అతని మెడ పట్టుకున్నాను. అప్పుడు నేను అతని హార్మోన్లను అదుపులో ఉంచుకోమని చెప్పాను. నేను అతనిని దూరంగా నెట్టివేసి, అతని వీపుపై రెండు లేదా మూడు సార్లు కొట్టాను మరియు A$$. అతను నేలమీద పడి, క్షీరసాగర ప్రయాణం నుండి బయటకు వచ్చాడు. ఏం జరిగిందో గ్రహించి పారిపోవడం మొదలుపెట్టాడు. నేను ఒక రాయిని పట్టుకుని అతని వైపు విసిరాను. రాయి ఎక్కడికి వెళ్లిందో ఖచ్చితంగా తెలియదు, ఎందుకంటే అది అతనికి ఎప్పుడూ తగలలేదు.


నా గుండె దడదడలాడుతోంది మరియు నా రక్తపోటు పెరుగుతోంది. నేను నిజంగా ఒక వ్యక్తిపై లైంగిక వేధింపులకు పాల్పడ్డానని గ్రహించాను. నేను భయపడ్డాను, కోపంగా, సిగ్గుగా, సంతోషంగా ఉన్నాను మరియు ఆ సమయంలో నేను ఎలా భావించానో నాకు తెలియదు. నా ఆలోచనలు గుర్తుకు తెచ్చుకోవడానికి నాకు పూర్తి 5 నిమిషాలు పట్టింది మరియు నేను నా హాస్టల్ చేరే వరకు పరుగు ప్రారంభించాను.


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7. What is the best love story people can come up with in two sentences?

She wanted to cry. He had her tears in his eyes.
She smiled at him when he said that he wanted to be the smile on her lips.

She was nervous and scared as he moved forward to give her the first kiss. He hugged her instead and that’s when she said she really loves him.

She calls him daily, exactly after half an hour after he leaves for office. She just wants to know if he had reached safely.

One of the famous DDLJ Scene "Raj agar wo tujh se pyar krti hai to palat kr jarur dekhegi. Palat!!!!" and then both of them smiles.

They decided they will always be in touch. They indeed stayed in touch, that too without smartphones or computers. 

"If you truly love me, you will jump off this building right now", she said in real anger, and walked away. That’s when she heard a loud thud. She was naked in front of him but she was not ready, as if she wanted to dig a hole deep in the ground and hide herself somewhere there. He noticed, and covered her with his shirt. Now she knew she was ready.

7. రెండు వాక్యాలలో ప్రజలు రూపొందించగల ఉత్తమ ప్రేమకథ ఏది?


ఆమెకు ఏడవాలనిపించింది. అతని కళ్లలో ఆమె నీళ్ళు తిరిగాయి.

అతను తన పెదవులపై చిరునవ్వులా ఉండాలని కోరుకుంటున్నానని చెప్పినప్పుడు ఆమె అతనిని చూసి నవ్వింది.


అతను ఆమెకు మొదటి ముద్దు ఇవ్వడానికి ముందుకు సాగినప్పుడు ఆమె భయం మరియు భయంతో ఉంది. అతను బదులుగా ఆమెను కౌగిలించుకున్నాడు మరియు ఆమె తనను నిజంగా ప్రేమిస్తున్నట్లు చెప్పింది.


అతను ఆఫీసుకి వెళ్ళిన అరగంట తర్వాత ఆమె రోజూ అతనికి ఫోన్ చేస్తుంది. అతను క్షేమంగా చేరుకున్నాడో లేదో తెలుసుకోవాలనుకుంటోంది.


ప్రసిద్ధ DDLJ సీన్‌లో ఒకటి "రాజ్ అగర్ వో తుఝ్ సే ప్యార్ కృతి హై తో పాలత్ kr జరుర్ దేఖేగీ. పలాట్!!!!" ఆపై ఇద్దరూ నవ్వారు.


వారు ఎల్లప్పుడూ టచ్‌లో ఉండాలని నిర్ణయించుకున్నారు. వారు నిజంగా టచ్‌లో ఉన్నారు, అది కూడా స్మార్ట్‌ఫోన్‌లు లేదా కంప్యూటర్‌లు లేకుండా, "నువ్వు నన్ను నిజంగా ప్రేమిస్తుంటే, ఇప్పుడే ఈ భవనంపై నుండి దూకుతావు", అని ఆమె నిజమైన కోపంతో చెప్పి వెళ్ళిపోయింది. అంతలోనే ఆమెకు పెద్ద చప్పుడు వినిపించింది. ఆమె అతని ముందు నగ్నంగా ఉంది, కానీ ఆమె సిద్ధంగా లేదు, ఆమె భూమిని లోతుగా త్రవ్వి, అక్కడ ఎక్కడో దాక్కోవాలనుకుంది. అతను గమనించి, ఆమెను తన చొక్కాతో కప్పాడు. ఇప్పుడు ఆమె సిద్ధంగా ఉందని తెలిసింది.


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8. Why do so many teenage girls like to wear tight clothes that show off their curves?

Simply because I can. I just love wearing them. It makes me feel powerful in front of the guys watching me with their wide open eyes. Yeah I kind of find it a bit satisfying. I know I have some power over them and I can make them do a lot of things I want.
Its also about how the different fabrics feel on your skin. But that’s just another reason for wearing them.
The most important reason is to get attention and look good.

8. చాలా మంది టీనేజ్ అమ్మాయిలు తమ వంపులను చూపించే బిగుతు దుస్తులను ఎందుకు ధరించడానికి ఇష్టపడుతున్నారు?


నేను చేయగలను ఎందుకంటే. వాటిని ధరించడం నాకు చాలా ఇష్టం. వారి విశాలమైన కళ్లతో నన్ను చూస్తున్న అబ్బాయిల ముందు ఇది నాకు శక్తివంతమైన అనుభూతిని కలిగిస్తుంది. అవును నాకు కొంత సంతృప్తికరంగా అనిపిస్తోంది. వారిపై నాకు కొంత అధికారం ఉందని నాకు తెలుసు మరియు నేను వారికి కావలసిన చాలా పనులను చేయగలను.


ఇది మీ చర్మంపై వివిధ బట్టలు ఎలా అనుభూతి చెందుతాయి అనే దాని గురించి కూడా. కానీ వాటిని ధరించడానికి ఇది మరొక కారణం. చాలా ముఖ్యమైన కారణం దృష్టిని ఆకర్షించడం మరియు అందంగా కనిపించడం.



9. What is your most embarrassing moment with your partner?

Oranges. There were many actually. But I always try to forget such moments and then they become hard to recall. But this one, my first one, will always remain in my mind.
It was the first time I was going nude in front of any one. He was my class mate. I thought I loved him. He made sure of that. One fine day, when there was no one in his house, he decided to do it. It wasn’t like I didn’t knew what I was getting into. But Still I was nervous. Plus there were thousands of thoughts going through my mind. What if he doesn't like me? What if he is not the right guy? What if he makes fun of my body in front of his friends? What if this and that and all such stupid questions were going thru. my mind. And he was undressing me.
As soon as he removed my bra and looked at my breasts, he laughed. I was shocked. I covered myself with my top and asked him what happened? He said, your boobs looks like oranges!!!!
I thought WTF and I slapped him.
Don’t ask what happened next. None of your business.

9. మీ భాగస్వామితో మీకు అత్యంత ఇబ్బందికరమైన క్షణం ఏమిటి?

నారింజలు.


నిజానికి చాలా ఉన్నాయి. కానీ నేను ఎప్పుడూ అలాంటి క్షణాలను మరచిపోవడానికి ప్రయత్నిస్తాను, ఆపై వాటిని గుర్తుకు తెచ్చుకోవడం కష్టం. కానీ ఇది, నా మొదటిది, నా మనసులో ఎప్పుడూ నిలిచి ఉంటుంది.


నేను ఎవరి ముందు నగ్నంగా కనిపించడం అదే మొదటిసారి. అతను నా క్లాస్ మేట్. నేను అతనిని ప్రేమిస్తున్నానని అనుకున్నాను. అని నిర్ధారించుకున్నాడు. ఒక మంచి రోజు, తన ఇంట్లో ఎవరూ లేని సమయంలో, అతను దీన్ని చేయాలని నిర్ణయించుకున్నాడు. నేను ఏమి చేస్తున్నానో నాకు తెలియనట్లు కాదు. కానీ నేను ఇంకా ఉద్విగ్నంగా ఉన్నాను. దానికి తోడు నా మదిలో వేలకొద్దీ ఆలోచనలు మెదులుతూ ఉండేవి. అతను నన్ను ఇష్టపడకపోతే? అతను సరైన వ్యక్తి కాకపోతే? అతను తన స్నేహితుల ముందు నా శరీరాన్ని ఎగతాళి చేస్తే? ఇది మరియు అది మరియు అన్ని తెలివితక్కువ ప్రశ్నలు త్రూ వెళుతుంటే. నా మెదడు. మరియు అతను నన్ను బట్టలు విప్పుతున్నాడు.


వెంటనే నా బ్రా తీసేసి నా స్తనాల వైపు చూసి నవ్వాడు. నేను ఆశ్చర్యపోయాను. నేను నా టాప్ తో కప్పుకుని, ఏమి జరిగింది అని అడిగాను. అతను చెప్పాడు, నీ వక్షోజాలు నారింజ పండులా కనిపిస్తున్నాయి!!!!


నేను WTF అనుకున్నాను మరియు నేను అతనిని చెంపదెబ్బ కొట్టాను. తర్వాత ఏమైందని అడగవద్దు. నీకు సంబందం లేని విషయం.


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9. Have you ever accidentally flashed someone?
A Lot of times. Sometimes I didn’t even realized that I was flashing till my friends told me about it. So I guess there were a lot of times when no one told me and still my goods were on display.
But I cringe every time I remember this one particular incident where I was caught on camera flashing accidentally.
It was wedding night of one of my cousin. I was still a teenager and I was dressed to kill in a tight golden Choli (Blouse) with front buttons and Saree. The blouse was very tight as it had a bra in built. So I decided not to wear a bra as the blouse was already so tight.
I have a photo of that day but I cant post it. Its too embarrassing. I was dressed in saree and dancing on the stage with all my cousins and friends. Like always, I was just enjoying myself forgetting about everything and dancing non stop. I never realized when the bottom three (out of 5) buttons of the blouse gave up. My breasts were out in the open and bouncing as I was jumping up and down while dancing. I do remember feeling a but relaxed for few seconds and contact of air on my skin for those few seconds but I never cared. I was just posing for the camera who was suddenly giving me a lot of attention capturing my every move in HD.
Suddenly, one of my cousin sister pulled me up, slapped me and covered me. That’s when I realized what was going on. I felt I should have died then and there.

9. మీరు ఎప్పుడైనా అనుకోకుండా ఎవరినైనా ఫ్లాష్ చేశారా?


చాలాసార్లు. కొన్నిసార్లు నా స్నేహితులు దాని గురించి నాకు చెప్పే వరకు నేను మెరుస్తున్నానని కూడా గ్రహించలేదు. కాబట్టి నాకు ఎవరూ చెప్పని సందర్భాలు చాలా ఉన్నాయని నేను ఊహిస్తున్నాను మరియు ఇప్పటికీ నా వస్తువులు ప్రదర్శనలో ఉన్నాయి.


కానీ నేను అనుకోకుండా ఫ్లాషింగ్ కెమెరాలో చిక్కుకున్న ఈ ఒక ప్రత్యేక సంఘటన గుర్తుకు వచ్చిన ప్రతిసారీ నాకు భయం వేస్తుంది.


అది నా బంధువు ఒకరి పెళ్లి రాత్రి. నేను ఇంకా యుక్తవయస్సులో ఉన్నాను మరియు నేను ముందు బటన్లు మరియు చీరతో బిగుతుగా ఉండే బంగారు రంగు చోళీ (బ్లౌజ్) ధరించి ఉన్నాను. బ్లౌజ్‌కి బ్రా ఇన్ బిల్ట్‌గా ఉండటంతో చాలా టైట్‌గా ఉంది. అప్పటికే బ్లౌజ్ చాలా టైట్ గా ఉండడంతో బ్రా వేసుకోకూడదని నిర్ణయించుకున్నాను.


నా దగ్గర ఆ రోజు ఫోటో ఉంది కానీ నేను దానిని పోస్ట్ చేయలేను. ఇది చాలా ఇబ్బందికరంగా ఉంది. నేను చీర కట్టుకుని, నా బంధువులు మరియు స్నేహితులతో కలిసి వేదికపై డ్యాన్స్ చేశాను. ఎప్పటిలాగే, నేను ప్రతిదీ మరచిపోయి నాన్ స్టాప్ గా డ్యాన్స్ చేస్తూ ఆనందించాను. బ్లౌజ్ యొక్క దిగువ మూడు (5లో) బటన్‌లు ఎప్పుడు విడిచిపెట్టాయో నేను ఎప్పుడూ గ్రహించలేదు. నేను డ్యాన్స్ చేస్తున్నప్పుడు పైకి క్రిందికి దూకుతున్నప్పుడు నా స్తనాలు బహిరంగంగా మరియు బౌన్స్ అవుతున్నాయి. నేను కొన్ని సెకన్ల పాటు రిలాక్స్‌గా ఉన్నట్లు మరియు ఆ కొన్ని సెకన్ల పాటు నా చర్మంపై గాలి తాకినట్లు నాకు గుర్తుంది కానీ నేను ఎప్పుడూ పట్టించుకోలేదు. నేను కెమెరా కోసం పోజులిచ్చాను, అతను అకస్మాత్తుగా నా ప్రతి కదలికను HDలో బంధిస్తూ నాకు చాలా శ్రద్ధ ఇచ్చాడు.


అకస్మాత్తుగా, నా కజిన్ సోదరి ఒకరు నన్ను పైకి లాగి, నన్ను చెంపదెబ్బ కొట్టి, కప్పి ఉంచారు. అప్పుడే ఏం జరుగుతుందో నాకు అర్థమైంది. నేను అక్కడే చనిపోయాను అని అనిపించింది.

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11. What is the darkest secret of your life which makes you cry often?
So after writing this answer it won’t be a secret any more. But I am not scared. The people who really matter to me already know about this. So its not like its a big secret or something. But its dark and made me realize that its not easy to trust any one. Forget about any one, its not easy to trust yourself sometimes.

There was a Maths professor, (lets call him Mr. X) , whom we friends used to go for studies for, something like tuition, at his home. 40 something, he was married, handsome and smart. Girls, including me, used to casually talk about him. Most of the time he overheard us but at the look of it, he too enjoyed the attention. But I was never serious about it. I just thought its all about “being cool”. Gradually, he started taking special interest in me. My friends realized it but I didn’t. They tried to make fun of me but I thought it was all a part of “being cool”. One day, I didn’t know that it was an off day for the tuition due to some event in the city. I reached on time for the tuition and was sitting in the class, alone, waiting for everyone. After few minutes Mr. X arrives and sees me waiting alone. He approached me and started talking about me. He told me today was an off day and started talking about my personal life. At the beginning it was all normal stuff. But then we started talking about what we talk about him. I realized he too was alone at home. But I wasn’t scared. I kind of trusted him. Also there was this stupid mindset of “being cool”.

The talk started getting personal. He started complimenting me and making me feel special. Suddenly one thing led to another and he started kissing me and touching me. I felt so hollow. I felt that I was being pulled into a dark hole. But it felt good too. Feeling good was making me feel the guilt more and more. Tears were rolling down my eyes. My mind was fighting a war with my body. He did a lot of things to me and I was just a life less body there. I was scared and I just cant describe the feelings. Everything encouraged him more and more. He started becoming aggressive and I started losing my clothes and control over myself. In the heat of the moment, he thought I was participating and was thanking me. He was complimenting each and very part of my body with his sweet talk. I was just a teenager but I still knew that it was wrong. I tried to move my hand to push him away but it was as if a ton of weights were tied to my hands and I wasn’t able to lift them up. I can still remember the smell and the wetness of all that which makes me sick to my stomach sometimes.

After leaving his house, I felt terrible. But I also felt “Being Cool”. That was stupid. I kept this thing to myself for a long time and we (Mr. X and Me) had this kind of encounter 4 more times in 6 months. Once He sent me few pics which we have taken. I was angry and scared but he promised he will not misuse them and no one will know. But I was getting more and more nervous. My behavior changed a lot. I started keeping to myself. I rarely talked or stayed at home during day time. I started spending my day time with my friends in hostel. Sometimes, for hours, I just kept staring at fan. One of my hostel friend realized what was happening. She even caught me in an awkward condition in her room without clothes. She started encouraging me to talk about what was going on. I cried. I cried a lot and told her about everything. First thing she did was to took me to a hospital. She had a friend whose mother was a Nurse. She got me all checked up. She made me feel very comfortable and made me realize that it was not my fault. But I kept on telling her that it was my fault. Realizing my condition, she then told me its okay to make mistakes. Its not end of the world. She also told me to trust my parents and talk about it with them. I promised her that it won’t happen again. My parents cared a lot about me. They handled the situation very calmly. They too made me feel really comfortable. They explained a lot of thing.

I, for the last time, went to my professor Mr. X. I just said two sentences to him that time. “Sorry Sir. It won’t happen again”. By the looks on his face, I felt that he was feeling guilty too. He said sorry to me and asked me if I need anything. I just shook my head to say no. We never saw each other after that day.

Edit: Thank you guys for 1K up votes. That’s my first. The overall experience has been very supportive and encouraging.

Though I have got people asking me some really stupid things like my size, what is the thinnest condom in market (sic lol) etc etc but I know how to deal with them. And please guys, Don’t ask for my pics or my Facebook account. I seriously don’t have an active Facebook account. Trust me on that

Edit 2: Just wanted to let you guys know that I never blamed Mr. X for anything. In fact not even my friends or my Family did. There was nothing illegal about the relationship. I am not sure of that though. But nevertheless, I don’t blame him and now I don’t even blame myself. I have blamed myself enough for it, cried enough for the mistake and had been punished enough for it. No more.

Not sure if I should say this, but Mr. X contacted me on Quora. He apologized again and asked about me. He told me, that he was searching for me on Social Media (facebook). I have not replied to him yet. I have never been active on Facebook just because of him.

Edit 3: This is me.

11. మిమ్మల్ని తరచుగా ఏడ్చే మీ జీవితంలోని చీకటి రహస్యం ఏమిటి?

కాబట్టి ఈ సమాధానం రాసిన తర్వాత అది రహస్యంగా ఉండదు. కానీ నాకు భయం లేదు. నాకు నిజంగా ముఖ్యమైన వ్యక్తులకు దీని గురించి ఇప్పటికే తెలుసు. కాబట్టి ఇది పెద్ద రహస్యం లేదా ఏదో వంటిది కాదు. కానీ అది చీకటిగా ఉంది మరియు ఎవరినీ విశ్వసించడం అంత సులభం కాదని నాకు అర్థమైంది. ఏదైనా ఒకదాని గురించి మరచిపోండి, కొన్నిసార్లు మిమ్మల్ని మీరు విశ్వసించడం అంత సులభం కాదు.


ఒక మ్యాథ్స్ ప్రొఫెసర్ ఉన్నాడు, (అతన్ని మిస్టర్ ఎక్స్ అని పిలుద్దాం) , అతని ఇంటి వద్ద మేం స్నేహితులు చదువుల కోసం వెళ్లేవాళ్ళం. 40 ఏదో, అతను వివాహం చేసుకున్నాడు, అందమైనవాడు మరియు తెలివైనవాడు. నాతో సహా అమ్మాయిలు అతని గురించి మామూలుగా మాట్లాడేవారు. చాలా సార్లు అతను మా మాట వింటాడు కానీ అది చూసి, అతను కూడా శ్రద్ధను ఆస్వాదించాడు. కానీ నేనెప్పుడూ దాని గురించి సీరియస్‌గా ఉండలేదు. నేను కేవలం "చల్లగా ఉండటం" గురించి అనుకున్నాను. క్రమంగా, అతను నాపై ప్రత్యేక శ్రద్ధ చూపడం ప్రారంభించాడు. నా స్నేహితులు గ్రహించారు కానీ నేను గ్రహించలేదు. వారు నన్ను ఎగతాళి చేయడానికి ప్రయత్నించారు, కానీ అది "కూల్‌గా ఉండటం"లో ఒక భాగమని నేను అనుకున్నాను. ఓ రోజు సిటీలో ఏదో ఈవెంట్ వల్ల ట్యూషన్ కి ఆఫ్ డే అని తెలియలేదు. నేను ట్యూషన్‌కి సమయానికి చేరుకున్నాను మరియు క్లాస్‌లో ఒంటరిగా కూర్చుని అందరి కోసం ఎదురు చూస్తున్నాను. కొన్ని నిమిషాల తర్వాత Mr. X వచ్చి నేను ఒంటరిగా వేచి చూస్తున్నాడు. అతను నా దగ్గరికి వచ్చి నా గురించి మాట్లాడటం మొదలుపెట్టాడు. ఈరోజు ఆఫ్ డే అని చెప్పి నా వ్యక్తిగత జీవితం గురించి మాట్లాడటం మొదలుపెట్టాడు. మొదట్లో అన్నీ మామూలు విషయాలే. కానీ అప్పుడు మేము అతని గురించి మాట్లాడటం ప్రారంభించాము. అతను కూడా ఇంట్లో ఒంటరిగా ఉన్నాడని నేను గ్రహించాను. కానీ నేను భయపడలేదు. నేను అతనిని ఒక రకంగా నమ్మాను. "కూల్‌గా ఉండటం" అనే తెలివితక్కువ మనస్తత్వం కూడా ఉంది.


టాక్ వ్యక్తిగతంగా ప్రారంభమైంది. అతను నన్ను అభినందించడం మరియు నన్ను ప్రత్యేకంగా భావించడం ప్రారంభించాడు. అకస్మాత్తుగా ఒక విషయం మరొకదానికి దారితీసింది మరియు అతను నన్ను ముద్దుపెట్టుకోవడం మరియు నన్ను తాకడం ప్రారంభించాడు. నాకు చాలా బోలుగా అనిపించింది. నన్ను చీకటి రంధ్రంలోకి లాగుతున్నట్లు అనిపించింది. కానీ అది కూడా బాగానే అనిపించింది. మంచి అనుభూతి నాకు మరింత అపరాధ భావన కలిగించేది. నా కళ్లలో నీళ్లు తిరుగుతున్నాయి. నా మనసు నా శరీరంతో యుద్ధం చేస్తోంది. అతను నాకు చాలా పనులు చేశాడు మరియు నేను అక్కడ ప్రాణం లేని శరీరాన్ని మాత్రమే. నేను భయపడ్డాను మరియు నేను భావాలను వివరించలేను. అంతా అతన్ని మరింత ప్రోత్సహించారు. అతను దూకుడుగా మారడం ప్రారంభించాడు మరియు నేను నా బట్టలు మరియు నాపై నియంత్రణ కోల్పోవడం ప్రారంభించాను. క్షణకాలం వేడిలో, అతను నేను పాల్గొంటున్నానని భావించి, నాకు కృతజ్ఞతలు తెలుపుతున్నాడు. అతను తన మధురమైన మాటలతో నా శరీరంలోని ప్రతి భాగాన్ని మెచ్చుకున్నాడు. నేను యుక్తవయసులో ఉన్నాను, కానీ అది తప్పు అని నాకు ఇంకా తెలుసు. నేను అతనిని దూరంగా నెట్టడానికి నా చేతిని తరలించడానికి ప్రయత్నించాను, కానీ నా చేతులకు టన్ను బరువులు కట్టబడినట్లు మరియు నేను వాటిని పైకి ఎత్తలేకపోయాను. కొన్నిసార్లు నా కడుపుకు అనారోగ్యం కలిగించే వాసన మరియు తడిని నేను ఇప్పటికీ గుర్తుంచుకుంటాను.


అతని ఇంటిని విడిచిపెట్టిన తర్వాత, నాకు భయంకరంగా అనిపించింది. కానీ నాకు కూడా "బీయింగ్ కూల్" అనిపించింది. అది స్టుపిడ్. నేను ఈ విషయాన్ని చాలా కాలం పాటు నాలో ఉంచుకున్నాను మరియు మేము (Mr. X మరియు నేను) 6 నెలల్లో మరో 4 సార్లు ఈ రకమైన ఎన్‌కౌంటర్‌ను ఎదుర్కొన్నాము. ఒకసారి అతను మేము తీసిన కొన్ని చిత్రాలను నాకు పంపాడు. నేను కోపంగా మరియు భయపడ్డాను కాని అతను వాటిని దుర్వినియోగం చేయనని మరియు ఎవరికీ తెలియదని వాగ్దానం చేశాడు. కానీ నేను మరింత ఉద్విగ్నతకు గురయ్యాను. నా ప్రవర్తనలో చాలా మార్పు వచ్చింది. నేను నాలో ఉంచుకోవడం ప్రారంభించాను. నేను పగటిపూట చాలా అరుదుగా మాట్లాడాను లేదా ఇంట్లోనే ఉంటాను. నేను హాస్టల్‌లో నా స్నేహితులతో నా రోజు సమయాన్ని గడపడం ప్రారంభించాను. కొన్నిసార్లు, గంటల తరబడి, నేను ఫ్యాన్ వైపు చూస్తూ ఉండిపోయాను. నా హాస్టల్ స్నేహితుల్లో ఒకరు ఏమి జరుగుతుందో గ్రహించారు. ఆమె తన గదిలో బట్టలు లేకుండా ఇబ్బందికరమైన స్థితిలో నన్ను పట్టుకుంది. ఏమి జరుగుతుందో దాని గురించి మాట్లాడమని ఆమె నన్ను ప్రోత్సహించడం ప్రారంభించింది. నేను ఏడ్చాను. నేను చాలా ఏడ్చాను మరియు ఆమె గురించి ప్రతిదీ చెప్పాను. ఆమె చేసిన మొదటి పని నన్ను ఆసుపత్రికి తీసుకెళ్లడం. ఆమెకు ఒక స్నేహితుడు ఉన్నాడు, అతని తల్లి నర్సు. ఆమె నన్ను అన్నింటినీ తనిఖీ చేసింది. ఆమె నాకు చాలా సౌకర్యంగా అనిపించింది మరియు అది నా తప్పు కాదని నాకు అర్థమయ్యేలా చేసింది. కానీ అది నా తప్పే అని ఆమెకు చెబుతూనే ఉన్నాను. నా పరిస్థితిని గ్రహించి, తప్పులు చేయడం సరే అని చెప్పింది. ఇది ప్రపంచం అంతం కాదు. నా తల్లిదండ్రులను నమ్మి వారితో మాట్లాడమని కూడా చెప్పింది. మళ్లీ అలా జరగదని నేను ఆమెకు వాగ్దానం చేశాను. నా తల్లిదండ్రులు నా గురించి చాలా శ్రద్ధ వహించారు. వారు చాలా ప్రశాంతంగా పరిస్థితిని ఎదుర్కొన్నారు. అవి కూడా నాకు చాలా సుఖంగా అనిపించాయి. వారు చాలా విషయాలు వివరించారు.


నేను, చివరిసారిగా, నా ప్రొఫెసర్ Mr. X వద్దకు వెళ్లాను. ఆ సమయంలో నేను ఆయనకు రెండు వాక్యాలు చెప్పాను. “క్షమించండి సార్. ఇది మళ్ళీ జరగదు." అతని మొహం చూస్తుంటే తను కూడా గిల్టీగా ఫీలవుతున్నట్లు అనిపించింది. అతను నన్ను క్షమించండి మరియు ఏదైనా అవసరమా అని అడిగాడు. నేను వద్దు అని తల ఊపాను. ఆ రోజు తర్వాత మేము ఒకరినొకరు చూడలేదు.


సవరించండి: 1K అధిక ఓట్లను సాధించినందుకు ధన్యవాదాలు. అది నా మొదటిది. మొత్తం అనుభవం చాలా మద్దతుగా మరియు ప్రోత్సాహకరంగా ఉంది.


నా పరిమాణం, మార్కెట్‌లో అత్యంత సన్నగా ఉండే కండోమ్ ఏది (sic lol) మొదలైనవి వంటి కొన్ని నిజంగా తెలివితక్కువ విషయాలు నన్ను అడిగే వ్యక్తులు వచ్చినప్పటికీ, వాటిని ఎలా ఎదుర్కోవాలో నాకు తెలుసు. మరియు దయచేసి అబ్బాయిలు, నా ఫోటోలు లేదా నా Facebook ఖాతా కోసం అడగవద్దు. నాకు యాక్టివ్ ఫేస్‌బుక్ ఖాతా లేదు. దానిపై నన్ను నమ్మండి


ఎడిట్ 2: నేను మిస్టర్ Xని దేనికీ నిందించలేదని మీకు తెలియజేయాలనుకుంటున్నాను. నిజానికి నా స్నేహితులు లేదా నా కుటుంబం కూడా చేయలేదు. సంబంధంలో చట్టవిరుద్ధం ఏమీ లేదు. అయితే నాకు అది ఖచ్చితంగా తెలియదు. అయినప్పటికీ, నేను అతనిని నిందించను మరియు ఇప్పుడు నన్ను నేను నిందించను. దానికి నన్ను నేను తగినంతగా నిందించుకున్నాను, తప్పుకు తగినంత ఏడ్చాను మరియు దానికి తగిన శిక్ష అనుభవించాను. ఇక లేదు.


నేను దీన్ని చెప్పాలా వద్దా అని ఖచ్చితంగా తెలియదు, కానీ Mr. X Quoraలో నన్ను సంప్రదించారు. మళ్లీ క్షమాపణలు చెప్పి నా గురించి అడిగాడు. అతను నా కోసం సోషల్ మీడియాలో (ఫేస్బుక్) వెతుకుతున్నాడని చెప్పాడు. నేను అతనికి ఇంకా సమాధానం ఇవ్వలేదు. ఆయన వల్లే నేను ఎప్పుడూ ఫేస్‌బుక్‌లో యాక్టివ్‌గా లేను.


సవరణ 3: ఇది నేను.



12. What is your wildest experience in Bangalore that you haven’t told anyone?

Banglore is a bad place for girls in night. Especially if you drink. Well, just my opinion. Not a generalized remark. I once went to a bar with my friends. I made sure not to drink anything. Even if that was water. But the things people were doing in that night club, made me vomit.

I saw some people inhaling something. Girls were drinking as if that was the last day on earth. Wherever there was a place to sit, I found couples driking, kissing, fondling, exposing, exchanging saliva and what not. I even saw a lot of dark corners were girls were getting sex with guys. Few of them even with more then one. The sheer sight of all this made me vomit without even drinking a sip of water.

12. బెంగుళూరులో మీరు ఎవరికీ చెప్పని భయంకరమైన అనుభవం ఏమిటి?


రాత్రిపూట అమ్మాయిలకు బెంగళూరు చెడ్డ ప్రదేశం. ముఖ్యంగా మీరు తాగితే. బాగా, నా అభిప్రాయం మాత్రమే. సాధారణీకరించిన వ్యాఖ్య కాదు. నేను ఒకసారి నా స్నేహితులతో కలిసి బార్‌కి వెళ్లాను. ఏమీ తాగకుండా చూసుకున్నాను. అది నీరే అయినా. కానీ ఆ నైట్‌క్లబ్‌లో మనుషులు చేస్తున్న పనులు నాకు వాంతి పుట్టించాయి.


కొంతమంది ఏదో పీల్చడం చూశాను. అదే భూమిపై చివరి రోజు అన్నట్లుగా అమ్మాయిలు తాగుతున్నారు. కూర్చోవడానికి స్థలం ఉన్న ప్రతిచోటా, జంటలు తాగడం, ముద్దులు పెట్టుకోవడం, ముద్దులు పెట్టుకోవడం, బహిర్గతం చేయడం, లాలాజలం మార్చుకోవడం మరియు ఏమి చేయకూడదు. అమ్మాయిలు అబ్బాయిలతో లైంగిక సంబంధం పెట్టుకోవడం చాలా చీకటి మూలలను కూడా నేను చూశాను. వాటిలో కొన్ని మాత్రమే ఒకటి కంటే ఎక్కువ. ఇదంతా చూసిన నాకు చిటపట నీళ్లు కూడా తాగకుండా వాంతులు వచ్చాయి.


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13. Should you wear skirts without underwear?
I did it. Many times. Not for any sexual reason.
I live in a humid city. In summer time and in the beginning of the rainy season, the humidity is unbearable.  Last summer the temperature was unbearable. It caused a lot of sweating and itching at all the wrong places.

I went to see a doctor and she told me to keep it clean, wear cotton panties, bath two times a day. I was like “HELLO….. I always keep it clean and right now its only cotton which is touching me THERE and I certainly wash and bath two times a day. 
She told me that I sweat a lot. Its okay to sweat. She gave me a cream or something.
I realized that it was no good and it was embarrassing. So for few days I decided to not to wear the damn panties and wear skirts for the airflow. I took extra care while wearing skirts. It was a relief of a lifetime I tell you. So whenever the SUN god wants, he makes me go without my underwear in skirts. :)
Nothing naughty about it.

13. మీరు లోదుస్తులు లేకుండా స్కర్టులు ధరించాలా?

నేను చేసాను. చాలా సార్లు. ఏ లైంగిక కారణాల వల్ల కాదు. నేను తేమతో కూడిన నగరంలో నివసిస్తున్నాను. వేసవి కాలం మరియు వర్షాకాలం ప్రారంభంలో, తేమ భరించలేనిది. గత వేసవిలో ఉష్ణోగ్రతలు భరించలేనంతగా ఉన్నాయి. ఇది అన్ని తప్పు ప్రదేశాలలో చాలా చెమట మరియు దురదను కలిగించింది.


నేను డాక్టర్ దగ్గరకు వెళ్లాను, శుభ్రంగా ఉంచుకోవాలని, కాటన్ ప్యాంటీ వేసుకోవాలని, రోజుకు రెండుసార్లు స్నానం చేయాలని చెప్పింది. నేను “హలో….. నేను దానిని ఎప్పుడూ శుభ్రంగా ఉంచుతాను మరియు ప్రస్తుతం అక్కడ ఉన్న కాటన్ మాత్రమే నన్ను తాకుతోంది మరియు నేను ఖచ్చితంగా రోజుకు రెండు సార్లు కడిగి స్నానం చేస్తున్నాను.


నాకు చాలా చెమట పడుతుందని ఆమె చెప్పింది. చెమట పట్టినా ఫర్వాలేదు. ఆమె నాకు క్రీమ్ లేదా మరేదైనా ఇచ్చింది. ఇది మంచిది కాదని మరియు ఇబ్బందికరంగా ఉందని నేను గ్రహించాను. కావున కొన్ని రోజులు నేను డ్యామ్ ప్యాంటీని ధరించకూడదని మరియు గాలి ప్రవాహం కోసం స్కర్టులు ధరించకూడదని నిర్ణయించుకున్నాను. స్కర్టులు వేసుకునేటప్పుడు చాలా జాగ్రత్తలు తీసుకున్నాను. ఇది జీవితకాల ఉపశమనం అని నేను మీకు చెప్తున్నాను. కాబట్టి సూర్య దేవుడు కోరుకున్నప్పుడల్లా, స్కర్టులలో నా లోదుస్తులు లేకుండా నన్ను వెళ్లేలా చేస్తాడు. :) . దాని గురించి కొంటెగా ఏమీ లేదు.


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16. How did you know that you need to start wearing a bra?
Funny question. I only started wearing them after I saw them in Advertisements and realized its way cooler to wear bra then to wear a Sameej (Chemise).

In India, girls usually start wearing Sameej since a very early age. Here is what a Sameej looks like. Its not this glamorous. But it covers the basics.

Plus they are not V neck shaped. At least mine wasn't. But I remember when I was 12 or 13, I saw ads of bra in local papers. Those were the days of white ones. Now we have plenty of colors to choose from.

16. మీరు బ్రా ధరించడం ప్రారంభించాలని మీకు ఎలా తెలుసు?
తమాషా ప్రశ్న. నేను వాటిని అడ్వర్టైజ్‌మెంట్‌లలో చూసిన తర్వాత మాత్రమే వాటిని ధరించడం ప్రారంభించాను మరియు సమీజ్ (కెమిస్) ధరించడం వల్ల బ్రా ధరించడం మరింత చల్లగా ఉంటుందని తెలుసుకున్నాను.
భారతదేశంలో, అమ్మాయిలు సాధారణంగా చాలా చిన్న వయస్సు నుండి సమీజ్ ధరించడం ప్రారంభిస్తారు. సమీజ్ ఎలా కనిపిస్తుందో ఇక్కడ ఉంది. ఇది గ్లామరస్ కాదు. కానీ ఇది ప్రాథమికాలను కవర్ చేస్తుంది.
అదనంగా, అవి V మెడ ఆకారంలో లేవు. కనీసం నాది కాదు. కానీ నాకు 12 లేదా 13 సంవత్సరాల వయస్సులో, నేను స్థానిక పేపర్లలో బ్రా యొక్క ప్రకటనలను చూశాను. అవి తెల్లవారి రోజులు. ఇప్పుడు మనం ఎంచుకోవడానికి చాలా రంగులు ఉన్నాయి.
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18. What is your most embarrassing moment at school?
A lot, Another common thing of embarrassment for girls in school are the days when it rains heavily. We had a white shirt and brown skirt as uniforms. It was the month of July and it was raining cats and dogs. There was no place to hide as every corner was full. I was waiting for my ride back home and I was fully wet, without any inners.
As soon as I realized why boys where staring at me, I just hugged my bag to my chest tightly till my ride arrived.

18. పాఠశాలలో మీకు అత్యంత ఇబ్బందికరమైన క్షణం ఏమిటి?

ఓ లాట్. స్కూల్ డేస్ చాలా ఇబ్బందికరమైనవి.

పాఠశాలలో ఆడపిల్లలకు ఇబ్బంది కలిగించే మరో సాధారణ విషయం ఏమిటంటే భారీ వర్షాలు కురుస్తున్న రోజులు. మాకు యూనిఫారాలుగా తెల్లటి చొక్కా మరియు బ్రౌన్ స్కర్ట్ ఉన్నాయి. అది జులై నెల కావడంతో ఎడతెరిపి లేకుండా వర్షం కురిసింది. ప్రతి మూల నిండిపోవడంతో దాక్కోవడానికి చోటు లేదు. నేను ఇంటికి తిరిగి వెళ్లడానికి వేచి ఉన్నాను మరియు లోపలి భాగం లేకుండా పూర్తిగా తడిగా ఉన్నాను. అబ్బాయిలు నన్ను ఎందుకు తదేకంగా చూస్తున్నారని నేను గ్రహించిన వెంటనే, నా రైడ్ వచ్చే వరకు నేను నా బ్యాగ్‌ని నా ఛాతీకి గట్టిగా కౌగిలించుకున్నాను.

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19. What is your most embarrassing moment with your crush?
So this was the same crush who had the Orange incident with me. It wasn’t that embarrassing as the embarrassment faced by 63 other people on quora. But again it was embarrassing for me. Embarrassment is a strange word if you think about it. It has your ass on the line barr baar. :)

Any ways I am slim girl. My body doesn’t store a lot of fat. No matter how much I eat, I do not gain much weight. But that means that whenever I am hungry, I become a monster. I eat like its my last day on earth. Nothing matters to me when I am eating. Sometimes I feel like eating everything at once to satisfy my hunger. Though I eat less, but I try to eat it fast.

Now this one day at school, when I was having my lunch with my friends, my crush, the same Orange guy, came to me for asking me out on a movie. To my embarrassment, I had a mouth full of sandwich in my mouth. I was so hungry that day and I was eating like a monster. That’s when I realized that its almost impossible to swallow a sandwich no matter what.

Back to the incident, he kept staring at me and I kept staring at him for like eternity as my mouth was chewing and chewing and chewing. My friends started giggling and slowly they started laughing. The orange guy blurted out some curses and walked away while I was still chewing. Needless to say it was embarrassing to be caught like that.

19. మీ క్రష్‌తో మీకు అత్యంత ఇబ్బందికరమైన క్షణం ఏమిటి?

కాబట్టి నాతో ఆరెంజ్ సంఘటన జరిగిన అదే క్రష్. కోరాలో మరో 63 మంది వ్యక్తులు ఎదుర్కొన్న ఇబ్బందికి ఇది అంత ఇబ్బందికరం కాదు. కానీ మళ్లీ నాకు ఇబ్బందిగా అనిపించింది. తలచుకుంటే ఇబ్బంది అనే వింత పదం. ఇది లైన్ బార్ బార్‌లో మీ గాడిదను కలిగి ఉంది. :)


ఎలాగైనా నేను స్లిమ్ గర్ల్‌ని. నా శరీరం చాలా కొవ్వును నిల్వ చేయదు. ఎంత తిన్నా బరువు పెరగడం లేదు. కానీ నాకు ఆకలిగా ఉన్నప్పుడల్లా నేను రాక్షసుడిని అవుతాను. నేను భూమిపై నా చివరి రోజులా తింటాను. నేను తినేటప్పుడు నాకు ఏమీ పట్టింపు లేదు. ఒక్కోసారి ఆకలి తీర్చుకోవడానికి అన్నీ ఒకేసారి తినాలనిపిస్తుంది. నేను తక్కువ తిన్నా, వేగంగా తినడానికి ప్రయత్నిస్తాను.


ఇప్పుడు ఈ ఒక రోజు స్కూల్లో, నేను నా స్నేహితులతో కలిసి భోజనం చేస్తున్నప్పుడు, నా క్రష్, అదే ఆరెంజ్ వ్యక్తి, నన్ను సినిమా కోసం బయటకు అడగడానికి నా దగ్గరకు వచ్చాడు. నా ఇబ్బందికి, నా నోటిలో శాండ్‌విచ్ నోరు ఉంది. ఆ రోజు నాకు చాలా ఆకలిగా ఉంది మరియు నేను రాక్షసంగా తింటున్నాను. శాండ్‌విచ్‌ను మింగడం దాదాపు అసాధ్యం అని నేను గ్రహించాను.


సంఘటనకు తిరిగి, అతను నన్ను చూస్తూనే ఉన్నాడు మరియు నా నోరు నమలడం మరియు నమలడం మరియు నమలడం వలన నేను శాశ్వతంగా అతని వైపు చూస్తూ ఉండిపోయాను. నా స్నేహితులు ముసిముసిగా నవ్వడం మొదలుపెట్టారు మరియు నెమ్మదిగా నవ్వడం ప్రారంభించారు. నారింజ రంగులో ఉన్న వ్యక్తి కొన్ని శాపాలను అస్పష్టం చేశాడు మరియు నేను నమలడంలోనే దూరంగా వెళ్ళిపోయాడు. అలా పట్టుకోవడం ఇబ్బందిగా ఉందని వేరే చెప్పనవసరం లేదు.


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20. Why don't Indian girls feel awkward wearing tight jeans?
Sometimes I do feel awkward wearing tight jeans. If you go to market and bring a tight fit jeans which is not of your size, it will surely make you feel uncomfortable and awkward. Same is true for men too. But I am sure, for men like you, no one will notice and every one will notice a girl feeling awkward in an ill fitting jeans.

20. భారతీయ అమ్మాయిలు టైట్ జీన్స్ ధరించడం ఎందుకు ఇబ్బందికరంగా అనిపించదు?

కొన్నిసార్లు నేను టైట్ జీన్స్ వేసుకోవడం ఇబ్బందిగా అనిపిస్తుంది. మీరు మార్కెట్‌కి వెళ్లి మీ సైజులో లేని టైట్ ఫిట్ జీన్స్‌ని తీసుకువస్తే, అది మీకు అసౌకర్యంగా మరియు ఇబ్బందికరంగా అనిపిస్తుంది. పురుషులకు కూడా అదే వర్తిస్తుంది. కానీ నేను ఖచ్చితంగా అనుకుంటున్నాను, మీలాంటి పురుషుల కోసం, ఎవరూ గమనించలేరు మరియు ప్రతి ఒక్కరూ ఒక అమ్మాయి సరిగ్గా సరిపోని జీన్స్‌లో ఇబ్బందికరంగా ఉన్నట్లు గమనించవచ్చు.

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22. How does a first kiss feel?
“First kiss is special” - That’s the common belief here on quora which I can say by reading so many answers.
Some of them were excited, some had naughty guilt, some were insecure with racing heart, some where confused. I had a similar experience. In fact it was very much similar to one of the answers on the Quora.
Imagine your first kiss watching DDLJ Morning show, Maratha Mandir. I was sure we will have some naughty fun when he asked me out for movie on Sunday morning. We were still in junior college. “Why Morning?” I thought. Who the hell watches morning show? But I had a huge crush on him. So I couldn’t say no. I never said yes. I just smiled at him. As we entered the cinema hall, there was a decent 20 odd people in the queue for the movie. I was shocked to see him take me to DDLJ. I mean who watches DDLJ in theaters? It is an old movie. Probably even older then me :). But nevertheless, we went in with popcorn and water bottles.

Just as the movie started and the lights went off, he touched me. He took my hand in his hand and pretended to watch the movie. I had already submitted myself to him. His perfume was intoxicating. I was just feeling awesome. The privacy of theater which was far from our house made me carefree. He took his hand, wrapped around my shoulder and started playing with my cheeks. The chairs were not very comfortable, so it was a bit difficult to adjust. Within no time he was kissing me. I always dreamed of being shy and sharmili type during my first kiss but nothing of that sought happened. I was kissing him back. I don’t know how I learned to kiss, but it all felt perfect. Though it was tasteless, the feeling was hot. I felt warm and hot all over my body, specially the parts where he was touching. I was sweating, from everywhere. I was pulling him more and more towards me and he used all his strength to keep his seat occupied. He forced himself out of the kiss and my tong was still out trying to get to him couple of time. Couple of guys saw us and started shouting “A chor chor” (Meaning “leave her leave her”). That’s when I realized where I was and I started blushing.
And that’s how the movie started….. :)

22. మొదటి ముద్దు ఎలా అనిపిస్తుంది?

“మొదటి ముద్దు ప్రత్యేకమైనది” - ఇది quoraపై ఇక్కడ ఉన్న సాధారణ నమ్మకం, నేను చాలా సమాధానాలను చదవడం ద్వారా చెప్పగలను.

వారిలో కొందరు ఉత్సాహంగా ఉన్నారు, కొందరికి కొంటె అపరాధం ఉంది, మరికొందరు రేసింగ్ హార్ట్‌తో అసురక్షితంగా ఉన్నారు, మరికొందరు గందరగోళంలో ఉన్నారు. నాకూ ఇలాంటి అనుభవం ఎదురైంది. వాస్తవానికి ఇది Quoraలోని సమాధానాలలో ఒకదానితో సమానంగా ఉంది.

మీ మొదటి ముద్దు DDLJ మార్నింగ్ షో, మరాఠా మందిర్ చూస్తున్నట్లు ఊహించుకోండి. ఆదివారం ఉదయం అతను నన్ను సినిమా కోసం బయటకు అడిగినప్పుడు మనం కొంత కొంటె వినోదాన్ని పొందుతామని నేను ఖచ్చితంగా అనుకున్నాను. మేం ఇంకా జూనియర్ కాలేజీలోనే ఉన్నాం. "ఉదయం ఎందుకు?" నేను అనుకున్నాను. మార్నింగ్ షో ఎవరు చూస్తారు? కానీ నాకు అతనిపై విపరీతమైన ప్రేమ ఉంది. అందుకే నో చెప్పలేకపోయాను. నేను ఎప్పుడూ అవును అని చెప్పలేదు. నేను అతనిని చూసి నవ్వాను. మేము సినిమా హాలులోకి ప్రవేశించేటప్పటికి, సినిమా కోసం క్యూలో 20 మంది బేసి వ్యక్తులు ఉన్నారు. అతను నన్ను DDLJకి తీసుకెళ్లడం చూసి నేను ఆశ్చర్యపోయాను. అంటే థియేటర్లలో DDLJని ఎవరు చూస్తారు? అది పాత సినిమా. బహుశా నాకంటే పెద్దవాడేమో :). అయితే, మేము పాప్‌కార్న్ మరియు వాటర్ బాటిళ్లతో లోపలికి వెళ్ళాము.


సినిమా స్టార్ట్ అయ్యి లైట్లు ఆర్పివేయగానే నన్ను హత్తుకున్నాడు. నా చేతిని తన చేతిలోకి తీసుకుని సినిమా చూస్తున్నట్టు నటించాడు. నేను అప్పటికే అతనికి సమర్పించుకున్నాను. అతని పరిమళం మత్తుగా ఉంది. నేను అద్భుతంగా భావిస్తున్నాను. మా ఇంటికి దూరంగా ఉన్న థియేటర్ ప్రైవసీ నన్ను పట్టించుకోకుండా చేసింది. తన చెయ్యి పట్టుకుని నా భుజానికి చుట్టి నా బుగ్గలతో ఆడుకోవడం మొదలుపెట్టాడు. కుర్చీలు అంత సౌకర్యంగా లేవు కాబట్టి సర్దుకోవడం కాస్త కష్టమే. కొద్దిసేపటికే అతను నన్ను ముద్దుపెట్టుకున్నాడు. నా మొదటి ముద్దు సమయంలో నేను ఎప్పుడూ సిగ్గుపడాలని మరియు షర్మిలి రకంగా ఉండాలని కలలు కన్నాను కానీ కోరింది ఏమీ జరగలేదు. నేను అతనిని తిరిగి ముద్దుపెట్టుకున్నాను. నేను ముద్దులు ఎలా నేర్చుకున్నానో నాకు తెలియదు, కానీ అంతా పర్ఫెక్ట్‌గా అనిపించింది. అది రుచిగా లేకపోయినా, అనుభూతి వేడిగా ఉంది. నా శరీరమంతా వెచ్చగా మరియు వేడిగా అనిపించింది, ప్రత్యేకంగా అతను తాకిన భాగాలు. నాకు ఎక్కడెక్కడి నుంచో చెమటలు పట్టాయి. నేను అతనిని మరింతగా నా వైపుకు లాగుతున్నాను మరియు అతను తన సీటును ఆక్రమించుకోవడానికి తన శక్తిని ఉపయోగించాడు. అతను ముద్దు నుండి తనను తాను బలవంతంగా బయటకు తీశాడు మరియు నా టోంగ్ అతనిని రెండుసార్లు పొందడానికి ప్రయత్నిస్తున్నాడు. ఒక జంట మమ్మల్ని చూసి, "ఏ చోర్ చోర్" (అంటే "ఆమెను వదిలేయండి" అని) అరవడం ప్రారంభించారు. అప్పుడే నేనెక్కడున్నానో అర్థమై నా మొహం మొహం చాటేసింది.


సినిమా అలా మొదలైంది... :)

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23. What is the most embarrassing thing you have ever done in front of your sister?
Hmmm,  I am a girl in my twenties. I have a cousin . She is more of a friend than a sister to me. We aren’t really close but still a friendship and sisterhood made me think that we were really close.
So this happened when we were attending a marriage function of a cousin. We were allotted same room in the hotel (more of a bhavan than hotel). There were lot of functions during this marriage and we were always too lazy to get ready on time. I was just a teenager that time. It was all going very hectic and we were really late for the dinner function. I decided to get changed but my sister too was there. I thought it was okay to change my clothes in front of her.
As I started undressing, she too started changing her clothes. But somehow my trousers got stuck to my panties and as I was pulling my trousers down, my panties got stuck with them and they too were pulled down. Just as I was struggling to get them back up, my sister turned towards me and saw me in my no-clothes mode. She just shouted “OMG Deepika. Just wear some chaddi stupid!!!”, and slapped me on my um… YOU KNOW WHERE.
Its the way she shouted that made me feel really embarrassing in front of her. I never expected her to react this way. I was really okay with being nude in front of her as she was my sister and a friend. She might not have seen me in my birthday suit ever, but I was sure she might have seen her friends or others and even if she haven’t, I thought, it will be OKAY to be nude in front of her. Lucky for me I kept myself CLEAN. 

23. మీ సోదరి ముందు మీరు చేసిన అత్యంత అవమానకరమైన పని ఏమిటి?

మ్మ్. నేను ఇరవై ఏళ్ల అమ్మాయిని. నాకు ఒక బంధువు ఉన్నాడు. ఆమె నాకు సోదరి కంటే ఎక్కువ స్నేహితురాలు. మేము నిజంగా సన్నిహితంగా లేము, కానీ ఇప్పటికీ స్నేహం మరియు సోదరీమణులు మేము నిజంగా సన్నిహితంగా ఉన్నామని నాకు అనిపించింది.

మేము ఒక బంధువు వివాహ కార్యక్రమానికి హాజరైనప్పుడు ఇది జరిగింది. మాకు హోటల్‌లో ఒకే గది కేటాయించబడింది (హోటల్ కంటే భవన్ ఎక్కువ). ఈ వివాహం సందర్భంగా చాలా ఫంక్షన్‌లు ఉన్నాయి మరియు మేము ఎల్లప్పుడూ సమయానికి సిద్ధంగా ఉండటానికి చాలా బద్ధకంగా ఉన్నాము. ఆ సమయంలో నేను యువకుడిని. అంతా చాలా హడావిడిగా జరుగుతోంది మరియు మేము డిన్నర్ ఫంక్షన్‌కి నిజంగా ఆలస్యం అయ్యాము. నేను మారాలని నిర్ణయించుకున్నాను కాని నా సోదరి కూడా అక్కడే ఉంది. ఆవిడ ముందు బట్టలు మార్చుకుంటే సరి అనుకున్నాను.

నేను బట్టలు విప్పడం మొదలుపెట్టగానే ఆమె కూడా బట్టలు మార్చుకోవడం మొదలుపెట్టింది. కానీ ఎలాగో నా ప్యాంటీ ప్యాంటీకి తగిలింది, నేను ప్యాంటీని కిందకి లాగుతుండగా, నా ప్యాంటీ వాటితో ఇరుక్కుపోయింది మరియు అవి కూడా క్రిందికి లాగబడ్డాయి. నేను వాటిని వెనక్కి తీసుకురావడానికి చాలా కష్టపడుతుండగా, మా సోదరి నా వైపు తిరిగి, నా బట్టలు లేని మోడ్‌లో నన్ను చూసింది. ఆమె కేవలం “OMG దీపికా. జస్ట్ చడ్డీ స్టుపిడ్ !!!”, మరియు నా ఉమ్ మీద చెంపదెబ్బ కొట్టారు… ఎక్కడున్నారో మీకు తెలుసు.

ఆమె అరిచిన తీరు నాకు ఆమె ముందు చాలా ఇబ్బందిగా అనిపించింది. ఆమె ఈ విధంగా స్పందిస్తుందని నేను ఊహించలేదు. ఆమె నా సోదరి మరియు స్నేహితురాలు అయినందున నేను ఆమె ముందు నగ్నంగా ఉండటం నిజంగా సమ్మతమే. ఆమె నన్ను నా పుట్టినరోజు సూట్‌లో ఎప్పుడూ చూసి ఉండకపోవచ్చు, కానీ ఆమె తన స్నేహితులను లేదా ఇతరులను చూసి ఉండవచ్చని నేను ఖచ్చితంగా అనుకుంటున్నాను మరియు ఆమె చూడకపోయినప్పటికీ, ఆమె ముందు నగ్నంగా ఉండటం సరేనని నేను అనుకున్నాను. నా అదృష్టం ఏమిటంటే నేను నన్ను శుభ్రంగా ఉంచుకున్నాను.

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25. What is your most embarrassing moment in front of the whole class or in front of your teacher?
So this is a true incident which I think I have mentioned earlier as well. It was a teachers day celebration in our school when I was in 11th. So a part of the celebration was for the senior students to teach the junior students for half an hour or so. I was selected to teach the class of 10th Standard and the subject was Maths (Yeah Maths :( ).
The dress code was to wear a Saree. Not that I don’t love wearing a Saree, but I hated it that day. I was wearing a pink Saree with a perfect matching. We were having a good time. Every one was dressed to kill, specially my crush who was dressed in a black suit. I was so into him.
So as my class begun, I was really struggling with Maths. All the students, specially boys, were not only laughing but passing funny comments on my poor mathematical skills. I was so nervous.
That is when something really embarrassing happened. I was holding a fat Maths book in my hand which I was not able to hold it properly and it slipped out of my hands. I was so nervous, I just forgot where I was and bent down to pickup the book. My Pallu came off my shoulders and my blouse revealed a lot of me. Almost something like this
The embarrassment continued as I was so nervous, I was not able to realize what was going on until guys started cheering “WOW” and all the words you can think off. They cheered and whistled and I somehow managed to cover myself with my book and turned around to get my Pallu straight. I realized how I have given a good show to the boys and how I will be the target of embarrassment in the coming days in school.
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25. మొత్తం తరగతి ముందు లేదా మీ టీచర్ ముందు మీకు అత్యంత ఇబ్బందికరమైన క్షణం ఏమిటి?


కనుక ఇది నేను ఇంతకు ముందు కూడా చెప్పాను అనుకునే ఒక యదార్థ సంఘటన. నేను 11వ తరగతి చదువుతున్నప్పుడు మా స్కూల్లో టీచర్స్ డే వేడుక. కాబట్టి సెలబ్రేషన్‌లో భాగంగా సీనియర్ విద్యార్థులు జూనియర్ విద్యార్థులకు అరగంట లేదా అంతకంటే ఎక్కువ సమయం బోధించడం. నేను 10వ తరగతికి బోధించడానికి ఎంపికయ్యాను మరియు సబ్జెక్ట్ గణితం (అవును గణితం :( ).

చీర కట్టుకోవాలనేది డ్రెస్ కోడ్. చీర కట్టుకోవడం నాకు ఇష్టం లేదని కాదు, ఆ రోజు నేను దానిని అసహ్యించుకున్నాను. నేను పర్ఫెక్ట్ మ్యాచింగ్‌తో పింక్ చీర కట్టుకున్నాను. మేము మంచి సమయం గడిపాము. ప్రతి ఒక్కరూ చంపడానికి దుస్తులు ధరించారు, ప్రత్యేకంగా నల్ల సూట్ ధరించి ఉన్న నా క్రష్. నేను అతని పట్ల చాలా ఇష్టపడ్డాను. కాబట్టి నా తరగతి ప్రారంభమైనప్పుడు, నేను నిజంగా మ్యాథ్స్‌తో పోరాడుతున్నాను. విద్యార్థులందరూ, ప్రత్యేకంగా అబ్బాయిలు, నవ్వడం మాత్రమే కాదు, నా పేలవమైన గణిత నైపుణ్యాలపై తమాషా వ్యాఖ్యానాలు చేశారు. నేను చాలా ఉద్విగ్నంగా ఉన్నాను.

అలాంటప్పుడు నిజంగా అవమానకరమైన విషయం జరిగింది. సరిగ్గా పట్టుకోలేక లావుగా ఉన్న మ్యాథ్స్ పుస్తకాన్ని చేతిలో పట్టుకుని నా చేతుల్లోంచి జారిపోయింది. నేను చాలా భయాందోళనకు గురయ్యాను, నేను ఎక్కడ ఉన్నానో మర్చిపోయాను మరియు పుస్తకాన్ని పికప్ చేయడానికి వంగిపోయాను. నా పల్లు నా భుజాలపై నుండి వచ్చింది మరియు నా బ్లౌజ్ నా గురించి చాలా వెల్లడించింది. దాదాపు ఇలాంటిదే

నేను చాలా భయాందోళనకు గురైనందున ఇబ్బంది కొనసాగింది, అబ్బాయిలు "వావ్" అని ఉత్సాహపరిచే వరకు మరియు మీరు ఆలోచించగల అన్ని పదాలను నేను గ్రహించలేకపోయాను. వారు ఉత్సాహంగా ఈలలు వేశారు మరియు నేను ఎలాగోలా నా పుస్తకంతో కప్పుకుని, నా పల్లును సూటిగా పొందడానికి తిరిగాను. నేను అబ్బాయిలకు ఎలా మంచి ప్రదర్శన ఇచ్చానో, రాబోయే రోజుల్లో స్కూల్‌లో ఎలా ఇబ్బంది పడతానో గ్రహించాను.

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26. How can I keep my boyfriend’s insatiable sex drive satisfied?
When I first fall in love and when we crossed a line, I realized that my BF has this insatiable sex drive which was really difficult for me to manage.
But as the life progressed and I had other BFs, I realized that all BFs have this insatiable sex drive.  You just have to learn to say NO

26. నా బాయ్‌ఫ్రెండ్ యొక్క అసంతృప్త సెక్స్ డ్రైవ్‌ను నేను ఎలా సంతృప్తికరంగా ఉంచగలను?

నేను మొదట ప్రేమలో పడినప్పుడు మరియు మేము ఒక గీతను దాటినప్పుడు, నా BFలో ఈ తృప్తి చెందని సెక్స్ డ్రైవ్ ఉందని నేను గ్రహించాను, ఇది నాకు నిర్వహించడం చాలా కష్టం.

కానీ జీవితం పురోగమిస్తున్నప్పుడు మరియు నాకు ఇతర BFలు ఉన్నందున, అన్ని BFలు ఈ తృప్తి చెందని సెక్స్ డ్రైవ్‌ని కలిగి ఉన్నారని నేను గ్రహించాను. మీరు NO చెప్పడం నేర్చుకోవాలి

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27. What do you say to your partner after sex?
Maja Aaya? (Had fun?)
Bus? (Now is it okay?)
I need to get shower
Go Clean yourself
Dont Touch me
Thankyou
Brush Kyu nahi kiya (Why havent you brushed)
Shave kar ke kiya Karo (Shave your beard before you fk me)
Sometimes I cry.
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27. సెక్స్ తర్వాత మీ భాగస్వామికి మీరు ఏమి చెబుతారు?

మజా ఆయా? (ఆనందించాను?)

బస్సా? (ఇప్పుడు ఓకేనా?)

నేను స్నానం చేయాలి

వెళ్లి మిమ్మల్ని మీరు శుభ్రం చేసుకోండి

నన్ను తాకవద్దు

ధన్యవాదాలు

బ్రష్ క్యు నహీ కియా (మీరు ఎందుకు బ్రష్ చేయలేదు)

షేవ్ కర్ కే కియా కరో (నాకు ముందు మీ గడ్డం షేవ్ చేయండి)

కొన్నిసార్లు నేను ఏడుస్తాను.

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28. Have you, or anyone you know personally, ever got into a sexual relationship with a teacher?

Yes I did. It was dark. Read my answers for the whole thing.

28. మీరు లేదా మీకు వ్యక్తిగతంగా తెలిసిన ఎవరైనా ఉపాధ్యాయుడితో ఎప్పుడైనా లైంగిక సంబంధం పెట్టుకున్నారా?

అవును నేను చేశాను. చీకటిగా ఉంది. మొత్తానికి నా సమాధానాలు చదవండి. మిమ్మల్ని తరచుగా ఏడ్చే మీ జీవితంలోని చీకటి రహస్యం ఏమిటి అనేదానికి దీపికా మాధుర్ సమాధానం?

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29. Are females aware of the fact that males get turned on by seeing their armpits while wearing sleeveless tops?

Yes. I used to have a friend of mine who liked it a lot. He used to collect such pics and once I saw his collection and asked him what is it with that. He was embarrassed but he told me that he likes it. I was really laughing my guts out and suddenly he asked me if I will show my armpits to him. I thought he was stupid and desperate. I felt it was gross. But when he insisted, I, just had some pity on him and raised my hand. His expressions on the face were priceless. I felt as if I had some special power in me which really tamed this guy and I can get any thing from him. This feeling of power alone was enough to make me excited.

After that I started wearing a lot of sleeveless dresses just for him. Actually I had no crush on him. I had no feelings for him. I just wanted to feel this superiority of me over him. So I used to give him a good show. He loved it too. Was it stupid of me to do so? 
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29. స్లీవ్ లెస్ టాప్స్ వేసుకున్నప్పుడు మగవారు తమ చంకలను చూసి ఆన్ అవుతారనే విషయం ఆడవారికి తెలుసా?


అవును. నాకు ఒక స్నేహితుడు ఉండేవాడు, అతను దానిని చాలా ఇష్టపడేవాడు. అతను అలాంటి చిత్రాలను సేకరించేవాడు మరియు ఒకసారి నేను అతని సేకరణను చూసి దానితో ఏమి ఉంది అని అడిగాను. తను సిగ్గు పడ్డాడు కానీ తనకి ఇష్టమని చెప్పాడు. నేను నిజంగానే ధైర్యం చేసి నవ్వుతున్నాను మరియు అకస్మాత్తుగా అతను నా చంకలు అతనికి చూపిస్తావా అని అడిగాను. అతను తెలివితక్కువవాడు మరియు నిరాశకు గురయ్యాడని నేను అనుకున్నాను. అది స్థూలంగా అనిపించింది. కానీ అతను పట్టుబట్టడంతో, నేను, అతనిపై కొంచెం జాలిపడి నా చేయి పైకెత్తాను. అతని ముఖంలో భావాలు వెలకట్టలేనివి. ఈ వ్యక్తిని నిజంగా మచ్చిక చేసుకున్న నాలో ఏదో ప్రత్యేక శక్తి ఉన్నట్లు నేను భావించాను మరియు నేను అతని నుండి ఏదైనా పొందగలను. ఈ శక్తి భావం ఒక్కటే నన్ను ఉత్తేజపరచడానికి సరిపోతుంది.


ఆ తర్వాత అతని కోసమే చాలా స్లీవ్ లెస్ డ్రెస్సులు వేసుకోవడం మొదలుపెట్టాను. నిజానికి అతనిపై నాకు ఎలాంటి క్రష్ లేదు. అతని పట్ల నాకు ఎలాంటి భావాలు లేవు. నేను అతని కంటే నాకు ఈ ఉన్నతమైన అనుభూతిని పొందాలనుకున్నాను. కాబట్టి నేను అతనికి మంచి ప్రదర్శన ఇచ్చాను. అతనికి కూడా నచ్చింది.


నేను అలా చేయడం మూర్ఖత్వమా? దయచేసి వ్యాఖ్యానించండి మరియు నాకు తెలియజేయండి. సవరణ: ఇదిగో నేను


30. Do girls get sexually excited by watching a naked man?
No. Lol. really. Sometimes I find it really funny. Its not like I see naked man a lot. For me to be sexually excited, its more about the whole package than the body itself. First and foremost the package should smell good.
I got a lot of messages after I answered one of the questions on Quora. It made me a bit famous for couple of days and I started getting lot of messages. One of my “FAN”, got a bit more friendlier with me and started sending me a lot of messages. Suddenly one day, I got a message from him and when I opened his message, there was a pic of him in it. NUDE. I was shocked. It felt disgusting and it also felt funny. I mean what was he thinking? lol. I told him I will report him to Quora guys and all. But I never felt excited. I mean not a least bit. I just wanted to slap him hard and fast.
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30. నగ్నంగా ఉన్న వ్యక్తిని చూడటం ద్వారా అమ్మాయిలు లైంగికంగా ఉత్సాహంగా ఉంటారా?


నం. లాల్. నిజంగా. కొన్నిసార్లు నేను నిజంగా ఫన్నీగా భావిస్తాను. నేను నగ్నంగా ఉన్న మనిషిని ఎక్కువగా చూసేది కాదు. నేను లైంగికంగా ఉత్సాహంగా ఉండాలంటే, అది శరీరం కంటే మొత్తం ప్యాకేజీ గురించి ఎక్కువ. అన్నింటిలో మొదటిది, ప్యాకేజీ మంచి వాసన కలిగి ఉండాలి.


నేను Quoraలో ఒక ప్రశ్నకు సమాధానం ఇచ్చిన తర్వాత నాకు చాలా సందేశాలు వచ్చాయి. ఇది రెండు రోజులుగా నాకు కొంత ప్రసిద్ధి చెందింది మరియు నాకు చాలా సందేశాలు రావడం ప్రారంభించాయి. నా "FAN"లో ఒకరు, నాతో కొంచెం స్నేహపూర్వకంగా ఉండి, నాకు చాలా సందేశాలు పంపడం ప్రారంభించారు. అకస్మాత్తుగా ఒక రోజు, అతని నుండి నాకు మెసేజ్ వచ్చింది మరియు నేను అతని సందేశాన్ని తెరిచి చూస్తే, అందులో అతని ఫోటో ఉంది. నగ్నంగా. నేను ఆశ్చర్యపోయాను. ఇది అసహ్యంగా అనిపించింది మరియు ఫన్నీగా కూడా అనిపించింది. నా ఉద్దేశ్యం అతను ఏమి ఆలోచిస్తున్నాడు? LOL. నేను అతనిని Quora అబ్బాయిలు మరియు అందరికీ రిపోర్ట్ చేస్తానని చెప్పాను. కానీ నేనెప్పుడూ ఉత్సాహంగా అనిపించలేదు. నా ఉద్దేశ్యం కనీసం కాదు. నేను అతనిని గట్టిగా మరియు వేగంగా కొట్టాలని అనుకున్నాను.

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31. How long an average healthy man should stand during sex?
I don't get it? Why do you need to stand? You can do it very well by sitting or lying on top of her.
But if you insist on standing, half and hour is more then enough.
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31. సెక్స్ సమయంలో సగటు ఆరోగ్యవంతమైన మనిషి ఎంతసేపు నిలబడాలి?

నాకు అర్థం కాలేదా? ఎందుకు నిలబడాలి? ఆమె పైన కూర్చోవడం లేదా పడుకోవడం ద్వారా మీరు దీన్ని బాగా చేయవచ్చు. కానీ మీరు నిలబడాలని పట్టుబట్టినట్లయితే, అరగంట ఎక్కువ సమయం సరిపోతుంది.

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32. Do girls change dresses like boys do in their hostel, and are their breasts and bras visible to their roommates?
Curiosity at its dirtiest best!!! Salute for this question.
When I used to change clothes, which I did daily, atleast twice, I also used to change my inners. So yes, most of the times my breasts were available to be seen, to my roommates, if they wanted to.
I don't think they ever watched or took any interest in them other then the first few days. They probably just wanted to compare them with their owns.
I know that cuz that's what I used do.
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32. అమ్మాయిలు తమ హాస్టల్‌లో అబ్బాయిల మాదిరిగానే డ్రెస్‌లు మార్చుకుంటారా మరియు వారి రొమ్ములు మరియు బ్రాలు వారి రూమ్‌మేట్‌లకు కనిపిస్తాయా?


క్యూరియాసిటీ దాని డర్టీయెస్ట్ బెస్ట్!!! ఈ ప్రశ్నకు వందనం.


నేను రోజూ బట్టలు మార్చుకునేటప్పుడు, కనీసం రెండుసార్లు, నేను కూడా నా అంతరంగాన్ని మార్చుకునేవాడిని. కాబట్టి అవును, చాలా సార్లు నా రొమ్ములు నా రూమ్‌మేట్‌లకు, వారు కావాలనుకుంటే చూడటానికి అందుబాటులో ఉంటాయి.


మొదటి కొన్ని రోజుల తర్వాత వారు ఎప్పుడూ చూడలేదని లేదా వాటిపై ఆసక్తి చూపలేదని నేను అనుకోను. వారు బహుశా వాటిని వారి స్వంత వాటితో పోల్చాలని కోరుకున్నారు. నేను చేసేది అదే అని నాకు తెలుసు.

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33.What are your sex experiences that you regret?
There are many. To start with is I never did any self pleasure before the actual pleasure.
Next is allowing my teacher to make love with me, and enjoying it.
Next is allowing a stupid to enter my wrong hole.
One very stupid experience which I regret is doing unprotected sex. It made me loose my sleep for months. Thankfully, nothing happened. But take my words guys, that's the worst mistake you can make.
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33. మీరు చింతిస్తున్న మీ సెక్స్ అనుభవాలు ఏమిటి?

అక్కడ చాలా ఉన్నాయి. అసలు ఆనందానికి ముందు నేనెప్పుడూ స్వీయ ఆనందాన్ని పొందలేదు. తదుపరిది నాతో ప్రేమలో ఉండటానికి నా గురువును అనుమతించడం మరియు ఆనందించడం. తదుపరిది నా తప్పు రంధ్రంలోకి ప్రవేశించడానికి ఒక మూర్ఖుడిని అనుమతించడం.

అసురక్షిత సెక్స్ చేయడం గురించి నేను చింతిస్తున్న చాలా తెలివితక్కువ అనుభవం. ఇది నాకు నెలల తరబడి నిద్ర పోకుండా చేసింది. అదృష్టవశాత్తూ, ఏమీ జరగలేదు. అయితే నా మాటలను తీసుకోండి అబ్బాయిలు, అది మీరు చేసే చెత్త తప్పు.

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34. What is the longest time you've had sex and how many people were there?
We were two people and we made love for around 2 hours which included foreplay and kissing. Then again we never used a clock :
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34. మీరు సెక్స్‌లో ఎక్కువ సమయం గడిపారు మరియు ఎంత మంది వ్యక్తులు ఉన్నారు?

మేము ఇద్దరు వ్యక్తులము మరియు మేము సుమారు 2 గంటల పాటు ప్రేమించాము, ఇందులో ఫోర్‌ప్లే మరియు ముద్దులు ఉన్నాయి. మళ్లీ మేము గడియారాన్ని ఉపయోగించలేదు:

35. What's the most awkward way someone has tried to hit on you?
By sending me a photo of his err emm small pen**%
Lol funny and akward
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36. Who has had sex with their own teacher?
I did. you can read about it in my previous answers. I felt very guilty
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36. వారి స్వంత గురువుతో ఎవరు సెక్స్ చేసారు?

నేను చేశాను. మీరు నా మునుపటి సమాధానాలలో దాని గురించి చదువుకోవచ్చు. నాకు చాలా గిల్టీ అనిపించింది



39. Is being seen nude by the opposite sex exciting or embarrassing for you?
It will certainly be embarrassing for me for 99% of the Men in people in the world. But I am a bit confused as someone close to me, told me, that I love getting embarrassed. Its my THING and I do stupid things to get embarrassed.
Any ways back to the percentage count. There are lucky few, like may be 1%, who I want them to see me nude. :)

39. వ్యతిరేక లింగానికి చెందిన వారు నగ్నంగా కనిపించడం మీకు ఉత్సాహంగా లేదా ఇబ్బందికరంగా ఉందా?

ప్రపంచంలోని 99% మంది పురుషులకు ఇది ఖచ్చితంగా నాకు ఇబ్బందిగా ఉంటుంది. కానీ నేను ఇబ్బంది పడడం నాకు చాలా ఇష్టం అని నాకు దగ్గరగా ఉన్న వ్యక్తి చెప్పడంతో నేను కొంచెం గందరగోళంగా ఉన్నాను. ఇది నా విషయం మరియు నేను ఇబ్బంది పడటానికి తెలివితక్కువ పనులు చేస్తాను.

శాతాల గణనకు ఏవైనా మార్గాలు. 1% మంది అదృష్టవంతులు ఉన్నారు, వారు నన్ను నగ్నంగా చూడాలని నేను కోరుకుంటున్నాను. :)

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43. Do you always wear matching bra and panties like as a set?
LOL No. Not always.
But I generally tend to match things up. Matching is our birth right.
But frankly speaking, Its not always possible for us to do matching in India. Many reasons for the same.
In my current lifestyle, I hardly can think of spending my time in matching my under wears.
With office work and house work, the matching of my under wears is the last thing on my mind.
No one is gonna see. So why bother.
I do face a fixed place in my wardrobe to keep all my under wears but I am a bit clumsy in that. So at the time of wearing them, if I don’t get my matching bra or panties, I wear whatever I get in my hand.
Till a few years back, there was no concept of fancy colorful matching under wears in India. Only after the boom of online industries, we are now free to choose and buy matching bra and panties. But some of us are still following our old habits.

43. మీరు ఎల్లప్పుడూ మ్యాచింగ్ బ్రా మరియు ప్యాంటీలను సెట్‌గా ధరిస్తారా?

LOL నం. ఎల్లప్పుడూ కాదు. కానీ నేను సాధారణంగా విషయాలను సరిపోల్చడానికి ఇష్టపడతాను. సరిపోలడం మన జన్మ హక్కు. కానీ స్పష్టంగా చెప్పాలంటే, భారతదేశంలో మ్యాచింగ్ చేయడం మాకు ఎల్లప్పుడూ సాధ్యం కాదు. అదే అనేక కారణాలు.


నా ప్రస్తుత జీవనశైలిలో, నా అండర్ వేర్‌లను సరిపోల్చడంలో నా సమయాన్ని వెచ్చించడం గురించి నేను ఆలోచించలేను.

ఆఫీసు పని మరియు ఇంటి పనితో, నా అండర్ వేర్‌ల మ్యాచింగ్ నా మనస్సులో చివరి విషయం.

ఎవరూ చూడరు. అలాంటప్పుడు ఎందుకు బాధపడతావు.

నా అండర్ వేర్‌లన్నింటినీ ఉంచడానికి నేను నా వార్డ్‌రోబ్‌లో ఒక స్థిరమైన స్థలాన్ని ఎదుర్కొంటాను, కానీ నేను దానిలో కొంచెం వికృతంగా ఉన్నాను. కాబట్టి వాటిని ధరించే సమయంలో, నా మ్యాచింగ్ బ్రా లేదా ప్యాంటీని పొందకపోతే, నా చేతికి ఏది దొరికితే అది ధరిస్తాను.

కొన్ని సంవత్సరాల క్రితం వరకు, భారతదేశంలో ఫ్యాన్సీ కలర్‌ఫుల్ మ్యాచింగ్ అండర్ వేర్ అనే కాన్సెప్ట్ లేదు. ఆన్‌లైన్ పరిశ్రమల విజృంభణ తర్వాత మాత్రమే, మేము ఇప్పుడు మ్యాచింగ్ బ్రా మరియు ప్యాంటీలను ఎంచుకోవచ్చు మరియు కొనుగోలు చేయవచ్చు. కానీ మనలో కొందరు ఇప్పటికీ మన పాత అలవాట్లను అనుసరిస్తున్నారు.

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45. How do you feel about wearing a bikini at the beach?
To be true, wearing Bikini made me feel really awkward at first. For Indian women, wearing a bikini means wearing under wears. (Probably someone has mentioned it already). So wearing an UNDERWEAR and roaming on beach, is not what comes easy for us (Indian girls).
Once when I was in college, we (with my friends) went to Goa for a small vacation. We saw lot of non Indian girls in bikini enjoying the beach which made me really jealous. But than, I felt that my body is not right for a bikini. I am a very slim girl. No matter what I eat (I am a really voracious eater), I don’t gain much weight. I always feared that if people saw me in bikini they will call me anorexic. So I never had the confidence of wearing a bikini. Though the thought of wearing a bikini always excited me.
On my last day of the vacation, I met with few girls. They were from North India and they were all in Bikini. They were there for shooting of some TV Commercial of Lays.
I thought that this is the best chance to be in Bikini. So we all girls decided to purchase and wear a bikini. But we promised we wont take pics so that no one from our home will come to know about it. But I should never have trusted my friends on that. They took several pics of me.
Anyways coming back to the answer, after wearing this small piece of clothes which barely hides your modesty, it really felt a bit strange and uncomfortable at first. But than I noticed, no one cared. They were all having fun on the beach. There were few guys who were watching us and clicking our pics on their smart phones, but they were always there. Plus they were having a lot of choices. So they were not particularly watching me. So I was okay with it. I thought, heck with them. I can’t spoil my vacation for few strangers. I just ignored them and had fun on the beach. The fabric of my first bikini was really soft. So it was really comfortable.
Now whenever I got to Goa, I never hesitate to wear a bikini.
Here - Me in Bikini.
Now its your turn to comment as to how You feel when you see me in bikini? :)
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45. బీచ్‌లో బికినీ ధరించడం గురించి మీకు ఎలా అనిపిస్తుంది?

నిజం చెప్పాలంటే, బికినీ ధరించడం నాకు మొదట చాలా ఇబ్బందిగా అనిపించింది. భారతీయ మహిళలు బికినీ ధరించడం అంటే అండర్ వేర్ ధరించడం. (బహుశా ఎవరో ఇప్పటికే ప్రస్తావించారు). కాబట్టి అండర్‌వేర్ ధరించి బీచ్‌లో తిరగడం మనకు (భారతీయ అమ్మాయిలకు) అంత తేలికైన విషయం కాదు.


నేను కాలేజీలో ఉన్నప్పుడు ఒకసారి, మేము (నా స్నేహితులతో) చిన్న సెలవులకు గోవా వెళ్ళాము. చాలా మంది భారతీయేతర అమ్మాయిలు బికినీలో బీచ్‌ని ఎంజాయ్ చేయడం చూశాం, ఇది నాకు నిజంగా అసూయ కలిగించింది. కానీ, బికినీకి నా శరీరం సరిగ్గా సరిపోదని భావించాను. నేను చాలా స్లిమ్ గా ఉండే అమ్మాయిని. నేను ఏమి తిన్నా (నేను నిజంగా విపరీతమైన తినేవాడిని), నేను పెద్దగా బరువు పెరగను. ప్రజలు నన్ను బికినీలో చూస్తే వారు నన్ను అనోరెక్సిక్ అని పిలుస్తారని నేను ఎప్పుడూ భయపడ్డాను. కాబట్టి నాకు బికినీ ధరించే విశ్వాసం ఎప్పుడూ లేదు. బికినీ ధరించాలనే ఆలోచన నన్ను ఎప్పుడూ ఉత్తేజపరిచినప్పటికీ.

సెలవులో నా చివరి రోజు, నేను కొంతమంది అమ్మాయిలను కలిశాను. నార్త్ ఇండియా నుంచి వచ్చిన వారంతా బికినీలో ఉన్నారు. వారు కొన్ని టీవీ కమర్షియల్ ఆఫ్ లేస్ షూటింగ్ కోసం అక్కడ ఉన్నారు.

బికినీలో నటించడానికి ఇదే బెస్ట్ ఛాన్స్ అని అనుకున్నాను. కాబట్టి మేము అందరం అమ్మాయిలు బికినీని కొనుగోలు చేసి ధరించాలని నిర్ణయించుకున్నాము. కానీ మా ఇంట్లో ఎవరికీ తెలియకుండా జగన్ తీసుకోబోమని హామీ ఇచ్చాం. కానీ నేను నా స్నేహితులను ఎప్పుడూ నమ్మకూడదు. వారు నా నుండి అనేక చిత్రాలను తీశారు.

ఏమైనప్పటికీ సమాధానానికి తిరిగి వస్తున్నప్పుడు, మీ నమ్రతను దాచిపెట్టే ఈ చిన్న బట్టను ధరించిన తర్వాత, అది మొదట కొంచెం వింతగా మరియు అసౌకర్యంగా అనిపించింది. కానీ నేను గమనించిన దానికంటే ఎవరూ పట్టించుకోలేదు. వారంతా బీచ్‌లో సరదాగా గడిపారు. మనల్ని గమనిస్తూ, తమ స్మార్ట్ ఫోన్‌లలో మా చిత్రాలను క్లిక్ చేసే వ్యక్తులు చాలా తక్కువ మంది ఉన్నారు, కానీ వారు ఎల్లప్పుడూ అక్కడే ఉంటారు. అదనంగా, వారికి చాలా ఎంపికలు ఉన్నాయి. కాబట్టి వారు నన్ను ప్రత్యేకంగా చూడలేదు. కాబట్టి నేను దానికి ఓకే అయ్యాను. నేను వారితో హెక్ అనుకున్నాను. కొంతమంది అపరిచితుల కోసం నేను నా సెలవులను పాడు చేయలేను. నేను వాటిని పట్టించుకోకుండా బీచ్‌లో సరదాగా గడిపాను. నా మొదటి బికినీ ఫాబ్రిక్ నిజంగా మృదువైనది. కనుక ఇది నిజంగా సౌకర్యంగా ఉంది. ఇప్పుడు నేను గోవాకు వచ్చినప్పుడల్లా బికినీ ధరించడానికి వెనుకాడను.

ఇక్కడ - బికినీలో నేను. ఇప్పుడు మీరు నన్ను బికినీలో చూసినప్పుడు మీకు ఎలా అనిపిస్తుందో వ్యాఖ్యానించడం మీ వంతు? :)



46. Could Karna have killed Arjuna if Lord Krishna was not on Arjuna's side?
I don’t think so. May be or may not be. Both of them were great warriors. Both had a lot of weapons. Once Arjun defeated Karna in a fight and Karna himself had praised Arjun. Arjun humbled Karna many times like in Draupadi Swayamwar, Virata War, Killing of Jaydrat etc.
Arjuna was the only human who had obtained celestial weapons from the Devas for full 5 years. He was the only warrior who possessed all personal weapons of Devas including Lord Shiva’s Pashupatastra, Indra’s Thunderbolt etc. There was no warrior including Bhishma, Drona & Karna who could match Arjuna in knowledge of celestial weapons.

Extract : Virata Parva: Go-harana Parva: Section XLIX
Karna too had divine weapons which made him very powerful.
So its difficult to decide who could have killed whom.
Now the question comes with a bigger IF, the absence of Lord Krishna!!!
These are all conditional speculations. No one know what could have happened.
If we really want to compare Karna and Arjun, we will have to strip them of their all the super powers and all their sins and good deeds and their boons and curses and their friends etc. Only than we can truly compare the two great warriors.
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47. I'm opening my first boutique. Where should I purchase my wholesale clothing items from?
If yo u want to purchase good quality material at the best price, you will have to visit Surat. No other alternative to Surat. First hand experience of how textile is made from thread to Dress. Huge market.
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48. How many modern Hindus practice the Kamasutra as a set of instructions on how to have sexual intercourse?
None of my partners did. Neither do I. So I don’t think there are even a percentage of Indians, let alone Hindu, who follow these instructions.
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49. What are the perks of having intercourse with you?
There are no perks. On the other hand, you will have to suffer a lot.
You will have to sometimes make me breakfast.
You will have to help me with my shopping. No need to pay. I can pay. But you have to pretend that you are not getting bored while I take ridiculously long time to shop for things as simple as an eyeliner.
You will have to Drive me around the town
You will have to occasionally satisfy my taste buds by different foods in the best of the restaurants in the town
You should not complaint about my snoring (NO ONE ALIVE have EVER complained about it).
You Should not snore.
You should be clean and you should smell good.
You should never ever say to your friends that I am crazy
You will have to be prepared to fulfill my crazy demands.
You will have to correctly choose a dress for me every morning
I will never say Sorry and I am always right.
You will have to pamper me at least for a month to get to see or touch anything bellow my neck.
Ok I have many things in mind but I am tired.
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50. Have you ever swapped sex for something?
Yes. I did. But I swapped sex for a feeling and not for something. I wanted his support, I wanted his love. I wanted him. So, I swapped sex for him
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51. Who is the cricketer who taught us to never give up?
He is a phenomenon. He is like a lightening strike. He is quick. He is extraordinary.
He was one of the few which made Cricket popular in his country and other parts of the world. He taught people how to fly. He taught people how to field. He was voted as the Wisden Cricketers of the Year in 1999.
He was a good hockey player. He represented his country at hockey, and was chosen as part of the 1992 Olympic Games squad to go to Barcelona; however, the squad did not qualify to go to the tournament. He was also called up for trials to play in the 1996 Olympics but was ruled out by a hamstring injury.
Lucky for us, he started playing cricket after hockey. Any guesses?
We are talking about the charismatic Jonathan Neil "Jonty" Rhodes (born 27 July 1969).

He is commonly regarded as the greatest fielder in the modern era of cricket.
Rhodes was born in Pietermaritzburg, Natal Province, South Africa. Whilst being noted for his quick running as a right-handed batsman, he was especially noted for his fielding, particularly catching, ground fielding, and throwing from his most common position of backward point.
Rhodes shot to fame after South Africa's fifth game of the World Cup, against Pakistan on the 8 March 1992 at the Brisbane Cricket Ground. South Africa batted first, scoring 211 off 50 overs. Pakistan's innings was reduced to 36 overs because of rain interruptions, with the target revised from 212 to 194 runs. Inzamam-ul-Haq and Pakistan captain Imran Khan resumed the innings when play was restarted. With the score at 135/2 Inzamam, who was at the time on 48, set off for a run but was turned back by Khan. The ball had rolled out towards Rhodes who ran in from backward point, gathered the ball and raced the retreating Inzamam to the wicket. Rhodes, with ball in hand, dived full length to break the stumps and effect the run out. The run out, the subject of a famous photograph, is still considered one of the more spectacular feats of that World Cup and the defining moment of Rhodes' career

On 14 November 1993 Rhodes took a world record of five catches, to achieve the most dismissals by a fielder (other than a wicketkeeper) against the West Indies at Brabourne Stadium, Mumbai.

As per Cricinfo's report in 2005, since 1999 World Cup, Jonty Rhodes had ninth highest number of run out dismissals in ODI cricket with the third highest success rate
Rhodes retired from Test cricket in 2001 and from ODI in 2003. He worked as an account executive in Standard Bank and was also involved in bank's cricket sponsorship
Jonty Rhodes is the fielding coach for South African cricket team. He is also the fielding coach of Mumbai Indians
In 2013, South African Tourism appointed Jonty Rhodes as their brand ambassador for India
Jonty Rhodes named his daughter 'India' who was born in Mumbai on April 25, 2015
In 1999, Jonty Rhodes was voted as one of the 'Wisden Cricketers of the Year'.
In 2004, Jonty Rhodes was voted 29th in the Top 100 Great South Africans.

The 47 year old South African played 52 test matches and 245 ODIs throughout his career with an average of 35 in each format.

At one stage in his career, Jonty had more endorsements than any other team-sports player in South Africa.
In SABC3's Great South Africans television series, he was voted 29th in the Top 100 South Africans.
He still plays an important role in the game as the fielding coach of South Africa and also the IPL franchise, Mumbai Indians.
He was the reason of popularity of cricket in South Africa. He was the reason why the fielding is given so much importance today. In any given match he played, he almost saved 10 to 12 runs just because of his fielding.
Even the greats like Sachin Tendulkar, Lara, Rahul Dravid etc admired his reflexes and fielding abilities. I have seen many such grates with their jaws dropped in awe watching this “small package” doing wonders in air.
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HQ) History taught to students is very different from what really happened. How can we change the course textbooks to include the best of Indian history?
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52. When was it or what was the situation that really hurt you very much when you had intercourse?
Whenever you do intercourse without your wish, its painful. This goes for both Man and Woman. If you are not READY enough for an intercourse, it will hurt you bad. Unfortunately, in India, this happens a lot. Specially with Couples. Sometimes, just to avoid debates or just to keep him/her happy, you have to do such painful sex.

53. How many Indian state capitals have you visited? What are they?
Let see, I have traveled and Visited Following Capitals
Maharashtra (Mumbai) - Lived there
Gujarat (Gandhinagar) - Lived there
Karnatka (Benglore) - Lived there too
Andra Pradesh and Telangana (Hyedrabad) - Spent two months
Madhya Pradesh (Bhopal) - Lived there too in childhool
Chattisgarh (raipur) - Visited at relatives
Delhi (Delhi) - Visited a lot
Rajasthan (Jaipur) - Visited a lot
Kerala (Tiruvananthpuram) - For backwaters and cochin
Tamilnadu (Chennai) - For Official Visit
Goa (Panjim) - With Friends who took my bikini pics there which I shared here in my other answers :)

54. What is your most embarrassing bathroom experience?
Have yo u ever seen something so beautifully ugly that you have forgotten everything and just raised a ruckus?
Ain’t this so ugly? What would happen if you were taking a shower and as you reach out for body wash and you find this guy, enjoying watching you naked?
I will tell you what I did!!!!.
I went to this friends wedding and we all were like 300 guests staying at a hotel near Jaipur in Rajasthan. This hotel was near to a hilly region. It was beautiful and clean and surrounded by beautiful forest and hills. I was around 19.
It was a beautiful chilling winter morning and at 9 in the morning when I decided its time I pickup my lazy bones and drag my beautiful a$$ to the washroom for a hot shower. I took my kit and clothes and went inside the washroom, dropped my clothes and started taking a shower. The water was warm and soothing. I just closed my eyes and decided to let the water wash off my laziness.
With my eyes still closed I reached out for my soap. The next moment, I heard my self screaming and running out of the washroom and my room, into the hall way, crying and scared shit.
With my heart beating at a rate of 140+, I realized I was stark naked and every one around was running towards me. My cousin, she took a bedsheet and wrapped it around me, but not before everyone getting a eye full of me. They all were actually concerned as to what went wrong and I was so embarrassed but still scared. I told them what happened and one of the teenage boy, from the other party (grooms Family) went in and came out with this green monster of the thing in his hand, teasing me. I gave him a death stare and he ran away.
Every one was laughing and I just ran right into where I belonged - in the washroom. I just closed the door and let the water again wash off my sweating.
My heart resumed the normal beating and I realized what just happened. “Oh Shit”, I said to myself.
This time, I carefully examined the wall looking for any other such insect peeping on me. Satisfied that there were none, I resumed my shower. I took my towel, wrapped it around myself and just when I was about to wear my undies, I saw a giant of a Spider, hanging right in front of me.
I had never seen such a thing in my Life. With his ugly big legs he was about to eat me alive. I just screamed again and ran out in to my room. This time I managed not to get out of my room in the hallway. I managed to have that small white towel around me but my scream was enough to gather attention and again a lot of people came running into my room. I am a tall girl. The towel looks really small on me. (I realized it when I got some alone time and decided how much of me was exposed. It wasnt a good sight for me :()
The men in the crowd decided to go in to check what was it. The first one who went in came running back out as he was too scared of the shit. But one of the teenager, again went in and I heard a noise of his boot hitting the ground.
“Its dead”, he announced and came back out. The girls in the crowd were laughing at me. “At least she has a towel now!!!”, those and similar other words made me a laughing stock that day.
Well, everything went fine after that. I was planning to wear a beautiful chania choli that day to get the most of the attention. But I decided to stick with a simple jeans t-shirt that day.
Damn Bugs.
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55. What is your most embarrassing moment in middle school?
When I was young in my middle school, I used to go to school in a rickshaw.
This is how a rikshaw looks like. The greedy rikshaw driver in those days used to fill around 10 to 12 girls in a single trip to make more profit per trip.
If you have seen me (search for my pics in my profile), you will notice that I have long legs.
My uniform in those days was something like this.
Also, my pickup stop was the last in the route to our school. So I always used to sit on the window.
Due to crowded rikshaw, almost every time, I had to keep my legs outside. The school skirt barely used to cover my knees. Especially while sitting uncomfortably on the door side of the rikshaw, the skirt raised up really dangerously. I always tried my best to avoid up skirt moments but wasn't always successful. Many loafers and pervert men used to follow my rikshaw making suggestive gestures at me. The rikshaw driver always used to laugh at me. That was really embarrassing, specially during rainy days.
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56. What is the syllabus for ENTC first semester at Pune university?
Syllabus for all the branches are same for first two semester in Pune university.
It will include
The first sem will include subjects like
Maths 1
Civil
Engineering Drawing (Though there will be no exam for the same. Exam will be taken during Sem 2.)
Applie Science (Physics and Chemistry)
Fundamentals of Programming languages
Electrical
Manufacturing Practices (Only Termwork)
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57. Have you ever had sex with a complete stranger, and if so, what's your story?
I once met this totally hot dude at a marriage function. His name was Mr. Y. (Can’t write his real name). When we first met, the chemical reaction was quick. I was still in my late teenage. As always, I was dressed to kill. He was like 5 years elder to me. As it was a marriage function, everyone was dressed to their best.
When I met this guy, he smelt really good. May be it was his perfume. His shoes where shining and his trousers were made up of really expensive fabric. He looked like a perfect man to me. He caught me staring at him and he approached me. Before we knew anything about each other, he was inside me. We went to a vacant room on the top of the marriage hall to do our really silly thing.
But to my surprise, Mr. Y. was not as perfect as his clothes were. He was kind of rude and really strange. He had really strange habits and demands. Within few minutes in bed, he started making really strange demands. When the things were going out of my hands, I just told him that we are not here to do exercise.
My “prince charming” was turning into my worst nightmare. He made me do really strange things and sucked all the life out of me that night. I just went to sleep then and there. When i woke up, he was gone. I was still naked and the door was wide open. I was furious. How could he leave me alone and naked?
I quickly got dressed and went back to my room. I was sharing my room with one of my cousin sister. Just when I was changing my clothes to my night gown, my sister just screamed and asked me what’s wrong with me? I was shocked and asked her what happened? She told me to look at my back in a mirror. That’s when I noticed that the b***ta*d had drawn some cartoons on my back. He even wrote his name and marked an arrow towards my bottom stating “Mr. Y was here”. It was heartbreaking and embarrassing. I told my cousin that I lost a bet and asked her to help me get rid of it. Clearly she understood what had really happened and also noticed my tears.

Lesson Learnt : Never Judge any one based on their looks

EDIT 1: Just wanted to make one thing clear. All that glitters is not gold. Even I had the same thought - of using him for a night and dump him. I wasn’t going to have a long lasting relationship or anything with him. Cuz I was aware he is way beyond my reach. So in reality, I was just using him and he was using me. We understood that. What just pissed me off was what he did after we used each other. I am clearing this up because I don’t need pity from anyone.

58. Is it still rape if my boyfriend thought I wanted it?
Technically Yes It is. You mentioned that you were not interested. You said NO. But he still forced it - physically or emotionally. Without clear consent from someone able to give consent, it is rape.

But than there is still a thin line between non consensual sex between couples and rape. That thin line can be easily crossed without even being noticed by one of the partner.

Lets draw that line here for you. From your comments, it appears though, that you guys have established some kind of protocol among yourself which defines sex and everything. This unsaid protocol is not something which you have sat down and discussed. Its just something which you have developed while you spent time together. Something like “play hard to get” as he mentioned.
According to him, he acted within the range of this protocol. Or at least, it appears you think he has. You went ahead with it just to make him feel good and because you love him.
But your questions is what to do now?
Well, you have to ask yourself few questions first. Do you feel insecure because of this one incident? Is it becoming a habit or kind of a regular incident? Are you threatened when he is in mood of having sex? If the answers to above questions are NO than you have to actually sit down with him and decide upon a protocol, something like a signal, which will avoid such situations. If that signal is raised, NO SEX. Come what may. You can’t joke around it, you can’t play with it. Its a legal binding.
Now there is one more side to this problem!!!
Have you ever done that to him? You might not have realized it and he might not have mentioned it, but is it possible that you have treated him in a similar fashion?
Think about it. Relationships are tricky things to maintain. Only LOVE cannot sustain it. Love involves being selfless. Relationships are not selfless.
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59. Is it OK to sleep with a man who is engaged?
It is not okay. Especially if the man has kids. Forget about anything Moral or Immoral about it. You yourself will feel a lot of darkness inside yourself whenever you see his family. This comes from a girl who has gone through this phase and done that. It took a lot of time for me to forgive myself. It took me away from my life. The pleasure is there. But the satisfaction is momentarily.
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60. At what time Indian girls come to omegle?

I come to omegle only after its 1 in night. My fav. interest is India and no I don’t always go there to have sex chat. :) And my boyfriend knows it. Now the ultimate question is - why I do it when I have a bf? Well, he has a job which makes him travel a lot and we live in together.
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61. Have you been slut shamed by others?

Yes. Sadly yes.

NOTE : This answer is a repeat of my earlier answer but this one fits here too.

I once met this totally hot dude at a Marriage function. His name was Mr. Y. (Cant write his real names). When we met, the chemical reaction was quick. I was still in my late teenage. As always, I was dressed to kill. He was like 5 years elder to me. As it was a marriage function, every one was dressed to their best.When I met this guy, he smelt really good. May be it was his perfume. His shoes where shining and his trousers were made up of really expensive fabric. He looked like a perfect Man to me. He caught me staring at him and he approached me. Before we knew anything about each other, he was inside me. We went to an empty room on the top of the marriage hall to do our really silly thing.But to my surprise, Mr. Y. was not as perfect as his clothes were. He was kind of rude and really strange. He had really strange habits and demand. Within few minutes in bed, he started making really strange demands. When the things were going out of my hands, I just told him that we are not here to do exercise.

My “prince charming” was turning into my worst nightmare. He made me do really strange things and sucked all the life out of me that night. I just went to sleep then and there. When i woke up, he was gone. I was still naked and the door was wide open. I was furious. How could he leave me alone and naked?I quickly got dressed and went back to my room. I was sharing my room with one of my cousin sister. Just when I was changing my clothes to my night gown, my sister just screamed and asked me what’s wrong with me? I was shocked and asked her what happened? She told me to look my back into the mirror. That’s when I noticed that the b***ta*d has drawn some cartoons on my back. He even wrote his name and marked an arrow towards my bottom stating “Mr. Y was Here”. It was heartbreaking and embarrassing. I told my cousin that I lost a bet and asked her to help me get rid of it. Clearly she understood what had really happened and also noticed my tears.

Lesson Learnt : Never Judge any one based on their Looks

EDIT 1: Just wanted to make one thing clear. All that glitters is not gold. Even I had the same thought - of using him for a night and dump him. I wasn’t going to have a long lasting relationship or anything with him. Cuz I was aware he is way beyond my reach. So in reality, I was just using him and he was using me. We understood that. What just pissed me off was what he did after we used each other. I am clearing this up because I don’t need pity from any one as I am not a typical week Indian girl who belongs behind Ghoongat of a Saree. I have spent most of my childhood in cities of US and than I spent my teenage life in India. That taught me what power I hold on Men and how to use it.
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62. How do you react when your girlfriend tells you that she has been molested as a child? How can I make her feel better without making her feel helpless or at fault? Can I do anything so that she simply is never reminded of it?

Me being a girl here who was KIND OF molested and not as a child but as a teenager, I just wanted to give two cents of my own to this questions.

There are, very very very rarely, few moments where I feel I need pity for that.

But most of the time, I don’t want any pity. I don’t want any kind of financial support ever. I don’t need any kind of support, just because of that incident. I want your support because you are my guy, because of your love towards me and not because of any kind of pity you have for me. I can handle your hate and handle your disgust but I cant tolerate you thinking that I am week and I need pity.

I actually wanted to write more about it but than I read answer by Samanwita (Tupur) Kar and I actually have nothing more to say than what she had already said. Thank you Samanwita.

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63. What's the weirdest kiss you've ever had?

Well First thing first I am straight and so is my friend.
It was just that weird moment that she kissed me in a very weird way.
She was just too happy after she received her report card where she passed (which she was not expecting). I was there.

She just jumped, screamed, got hold of me and kissed me on my cheeks.

Till now I haven't mentioned why it was a weird kiss.

The kiss she gave me was very wet. So wet that I can still feel the sticky spit on my cheeks. it has been almost like 4 to 5 years ago.

WOW that was so weird. I just pushed her aside, pulled her back and hugged her tight in a way that it becomes impossible for her to kiss me again. I also wanted to calm her down. I was worried she might have a heart attack or something.

So guys do comment. Up votes are not needed but are appreciated.
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64. How crazy is your mother?

My mother is a super crazy friend of mine. She is best I can have.

I realized how good she is at being a mother when I, along with my friend, told her about my relation ship with my married maths teacher who was like 30 some years elder to me. I told her that it was a mistake and I would not do it. I also told her how depressed I am for the same reason for last few days. I just kept telling her how Sorry I was and begged for her forgiveness. I also told her how I went to a hospital and get myself checked up and that I was medically okay.

She kept super calm. I was scared that it might be the calm before a storm. But it wasn’t. She just hugged me and said nothing to worry. She than just asked me if I was angry at the professor? Seeing her calm and cool mood gave me a lot of strength. I said “No”. I told her that it was my fault. She asked me not to worry and asked me if I am in love with him? I said NO. She than asked me if I want to have any kind of revenge from him. I said No.

She than asked me to do one thing which really gave me a lot of strength. She told me that I have punished myself enough for the mistake and now there is no need to feel bad about it. She asked me to go the professor one last time and tell him that its over. She asked my friend to accompany along with me while she waited outside. I was so scared when I went to him to say that it was over. But no one can imagine the kind of relief I had when I said “Its over” to him. His guilt on his face really really made me forget my guilt. Human beings, in that matter, are really selfish creatures. They, sometimes, gain strange satisfaction in watching others suffer.

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65. Would you continue sleeping with your partner if you learned that they sleep with other people?

Why not? If that’s his past and he is now committed to you, whats wrong? I mean, I don’t find anything wrong with it. The condition should be, he/she must be honest. Honest about everything and there should be trust among partners. Even if he hides his previous affairs but is committed to me right now, I would gladly have him as my partner.

My partner knows that I have had previous relationships, but he accepts me as it is. I have told him everything before we started dating and he was okay with it.

Though he had no previous affairs or anything of that sort (Oh yes he was a virgin), it would have not mattered to me if it was the other way round.

Heck I wouldn’t have even cared a damn about anything of his past if he is caring enough in present. So yes, I would sleep with him, even I came to know about his past affairs.

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66. What was your most embarrassing fashion choice?

Wearing a really Deep neck Cholis or Top is really embarrassing when someone is continuously staring down at you and you can’t do nothing. Specially in your school class. Something Like this.

Read more about it here
Deepika Mathur's answer to What is your most embarrassing moment in front of the whole class or in front of your teacher?

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67. What bothers you most about sex?
Smell.

Yeah, the smell of genital fluids, smell of spit after it dries down, smell of breath when we, rarely, do it without brushing, smell of Sweating,(rarely but yet, sometimes) smell of his under wears (ewww), smell of his/her perfume (most of the time its good but sometimes I just dont like the smell), etc etc.
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68. What if Karna had not been abandoned by Kunti and had been raised alongside the Pandavas?

I think that the Karna did whatever he did mostly out of his jealousy towards Arjuna. Somewhere in Mahabharta its also mentioned that he will give Daan till he defeats his enemy (referring indirectly to Arjun). The point is, he made daan (gifts and donations) because he was jealous of Arjun. Now I am not talking about whether his jealousy towards Arjun was right or wrong. That is beyond the scope of this answer. Just hear out my point.

Emotions like jealousy, embarrassments, anger etc can make people do really disturbing things. I believe not much would have changed if Kunti had not abandoned Karna. He would have still been jealous of Arjuna and who knows? He would have still fought against pandvas in the Mahabharata war. So nothing would have changed. Remember how one of the Kauravas fought against Kauravas in the Mahabharata. Similar thing would have happened with Karna as well.
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69. Is Indian society getting Westernized or modernized?

Now a days we are more inclined towards the east than the west.

Other than our language we are totally influenced by East.

From morning to night we spend time with Chinese plastics mobiles and clothes made out of Chinese machines etc.

Half of our computers are made up of Chinese.

Its like where ever I see I find Chinese items being used.

Still people ask why we are getting westernized or modernized?

We are in fact getting more and more Chinese. They even export stickers which has “Ban Chinese items”. What is the western culture here? Everything is Chinese.

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70. What is the weirdest/best thing a food deliverer has ever experienced?

This was when I was at home and a change here is that I was not the one who was delivering the food but it was someone else. This guy was though elder to me, was still very slim and tall and had this weird smile which I can still remember because of the timing of his smile.

As I answered the door bell, I was in to my Paijama and T-Shirt. I was alone at house and hungry and was too lazy to cook. I had my pocket money enough to order a small pizza from the nearby Dominos store.

As I answered the door bell, I had my mobile phone in my hand. As I opened the door, there was this guy in blue Dominos uniform which was really loose to him. It seemed as if two such guys could have gone into that uniform. As he handed over the pizza, tissues, ketchup and my drink to me, it became difficult for me to handle everything and that’s when I lost my grip on my phone. Lucky me that there was a door mat on the door and the phone fell right on it.

With all those food items in my small hands, I bent forward to pickup my phone. The very same moment, he too decided to bend forward and pickup my phone. Our heads almost collided and we both paused for a moment.

Now in that one moment, I was able to see right from the top of his loose shirt to his bottoms. His slim chest with only bones was all very clearly visible to me. I paused for one more moment and tried to check into his eyes if he had seen me watching his chest or not. That’s when I realized he was busy watching down my t-shirt with his mouth open. That moment was really really weird. I quickly covered my top, grabbed my phone and gave him an angry look. This exact moment, that delivery guy brought the most weirdest of the smiles I have ever seen. Ewwww!!! What more can I say?

Up votes are not necessary but are appreciated. All the comments will be replied!!! Please suggest any corrections. Have fun.

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71. How do you cope with sexual violence and living in a culture that constantly sexualizes women?

Its unimaginable to have a culture which doesn’t sexualizes women (If at all that is a word). I am not sure which culture you had in mind while asking this question, but I will talk about Indian culture.

By what I have seen, spending my time in two countries and having enough physical partners, I can say that most of the modern and ancient civilization all considered women as a sexual object.

The so called modern day culture treats a women like just a tool for making money. A trend that is developing in entertainment media today is the objectification of women in society. Specifically in movies, music videos, music, and television, there is strong focus on women as sexual objects rather than women.

The issue is especially prevalent because the more the media uses sexual content regarding women, the more viewers seem to buy into them. This media action is allowed to proceed because sex sells and this objectification of women is what society has proven they want to see in entertainment media.

How is it that a society that has supposedly moved so far in terms of women’s rights still conforms to such an archaic view point of women as sexual objects? Whether you are a politician, model or die-hard suffragette it seems in some people’s eyes we are all subject to consistent sexualization. Women on twitter are belligerently chastised for appearance, weight and everything else that makes them into objects rather than intelligent human beings. I see a girl on a giant hording of a car battery advertisement, wearing skimpy clothes. This advertisement is actually brilliant. A car battery hording will never grab your attention. But A girl will surely do that. Once they have their attention, they can convey their message within seconds. That is brilliant use of a girl as an object. But is it appropriate?

Its possible that Media and twitter are not the true face of the society. Society as a whole, functions differently than what it appears on the face. I can talk about my experiences.

Its really disgusting to see people staring at you on the street if you are wearing a sleeveless top. But now I am used to it. I am not supposed to get used to it. But there is nothing I can do. Now this is not the case only in India. I have seen that happen even in west. People turn their heads if they see something usually different than what they are used to see regularly.

I have met people who befriends me just because I am a girl. They really don’t care how I act, respond, behave or treat them. All they care is how I look. The words they spoke are sweet but their deeds are bitter.

Not every one is like that. My current partner accepts me for what I am and had never treated me as a sexual object. I have had consensual sex with him agreed. But I also had sex with him, sometimes, without me really wanting to do it. But that is something what is expected from a girl in India. I knew it was wrong and I could have said no. I knew he would have respected that and stopped it. But I still allowed him to move ahead. In beginning it felt really bad. But I kept mum. Now it feels that it doesn’t matter to me. If he wants it, I have to give it to him. That’s the point I am really scared off. I sometimes think as to why I do that. Why don’t I say no to him? But there is no answer. “Its OKAY” is all I here myself say. Am I being treated as an object here? Is this a sexual violence which I should stop and fight against? What am I supposed to do? Whom should I blame? No one but me. Or may be the culture.

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72. What is the most embarrassing moment of your life?

Repeat of my earlier answers:

Have yo u ever seen something so beautifully ugly that you have forgotten everything and just raised a ruckus?


Ain’t this so ugly? What would happen if you were taking a shower and as you reach out for body wash and you find this guy, enjoying watching you naked?

I will tell you what I did!!!!.

I went to this friends wedding and we all were like 300 guests staying at a hotel near Jaipur in Rajasthan. This hotel was near to a hilly region. It was beautiful and clean and surrounded by beautiful forest and hills. I was around 19.

It was a beautiful chilling winter morning and at 9 in the morning when I decided its time I pickup my lazy bones and drag my beautiful a$$ to the washroom for a hot shower. I took my kit and clothes and went inside the washroom, dropped my clothes and started taking a shower. The water was warm and soothing. I just closed my eyes and decided to let the water wash off my laziness.

With my eyes still closed I reached out for my soap. The next moment, I heard my self screaming and running out of the washroom and my room, into the hall way, crying and scared shit.

With my heart beating at a rate of 140+, I realized I was stark naked and every one around was running towards me. My cousin, she took a bedsheet and wrapped it around me, but not before everyone getting a eye full of me. They all were actually concerned as to what went wrong and I was so embarrassed but still scared. I told them what happened and one of the teenage boy, from the other party (grooms Family) went in and came out with this green monster of the thing in his hand, teasing me. I gave him a death stare and he ran away.

Every one was laughing and I just ran right into where I belonged - in the washroom. I just closed the door and let the water again wash off my sweating.

My heart resumed the normal beating and I realized what just happened. “Oh Shit”, I said to myself.

This time, I carefully examined the wall looking for any other such insect peeping on me. Satisfied that there were none, I resumed my shower. I took my towel, wrapped it around myself and just when I was about to wear my undies, I saw a giant of a Spider, hanging right in front of me.

I had never seen such a thing in my Life. With his ugly big legs he was about to eat me alive. I just screamed again and ran out in to my room. This time I managed not to get out of my room in the hallway. I managed to have that small white towel around me but my scream was enough to gather attention and again a lot of people came running into my room. I am a tall girl. The towel looks really small on me. (I realized it when I got some alone time and decided how much of me was exposed. It wasnt a good sight for me :()

The men in the crowd decided to go in to check what was it. The first one who went in came running back out as he was too scared of the shit. But one of the teenager, again went in and I heard a noise of his boot hitting the ground.

“Its dead”, he announced and came back out. The girls in the crowd were laughing at me. “At least she has a towel now!!!”, those and similar other words made me a laughing stock that day.

Well, everything went fine after that. I was planning to wear a beautiful chania choli that day to get the most of the attention. But I decided to stick with a simple jeans t-shirt that day.

Damn Bugs.
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73. How can I convey my suggestions, or ideas to improve India as a whole? To whom do I convey these ideas? Can I check whether the ideas are implemented or not, and how?

Go to Join this mass movement together and let us build our New India

In the bottom of the website there are few links. All are good links.

Important ones are

Create Your Cause and Vote for Citizen Cause.

Here you can create your causes and also vote for citizen causes.

Now create your cause and get votes. Top voted causes are undertaken and monitored by Narendra Modi himself.

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74. What was your most awkward or embarrassing "Truth or Dare" experience?

This game was one of the extreme ragging which was considered as SAFE in our hostel.

Due to strict ragging rules, senior girls in my college were really scared of using any kind of extreme ragging methods. The ragging tasks were simple, like use hair oil all the time, don’t wear jeans and shirts - only salwar, no open hair style, answer few embarrassing questions etc.

If they sense that the girl is enjoying the ragging, only than they will go for things like Truth and Dare. The rules of the games were simple. Every two truths had to be followed by a Dare unless you choose a dare.

The first truth asked to me was the obvious one. - Are you virgin? I thought I should lie about it. But decided to go with the truth and I answered that I wasn’t a virgin and that I had a boyfriend. All the senior girls were shocked. They were not prepared for it. I was just a fresher in my engineering college. This question was followed by many more questions like how was it, bleeding etc etc. I answered none of it. One of the senior girl got hold of the situation and announced that its time for a dare.

The dare they gave me was to show my non-virgin vagina to everyone. I was shocked and embarrassed. I was not prepared for it. I went to a strict mode and I firmly said NO. She said either do it or we will use force. I thought about it for a second and decided that I was ready for the force so I said NO, come what may. Seniors tried their best to get me to do the dare, but I was a rock they were not able to move. So they decided to change the dare. The dare was to not wear bra for three days under my salwar. The whole thing was a bit awkward and a bit out of my comfort zone, but I said yes to it.

After that day, I got a lot of new friends in the senior circuit. :)
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75. Ever had sex while you were in school?

Yes. I did. School days were fun.

It was the first time I was going nude in front of any one. He was my class mate. I thought I loved him. He made sure of that. One fine day, when there was no one in his house, he decided to do it. It wasn’t like I didn’t knew what I was getting into. But Still I was nervous. Plus there were thousands of thoughts going through my mind. What if he doesn't like me? What if he is not the right guy? What if he makes fun of my body in front of his friends? What if this and that and all such stupid questions were going thru. my mind. And he was undressing me.

As soon as he removed my bra and looked at my breasts, he laughed. I was shocked. I covered myself with my top and asked him what happened? He said, your boobs looks like oranges!!!!

I thought WTF and I slapped him.

He just grabbed me near to him and than we did it. It was painful for sure. It made me feel really guilty at first. But the pleasure soon took over the pain and the guilt.

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76. What is the most inappropriate thing your crush did to you?

He called my breasts - Oranges.

School days were fun.

It was the first time I was going nude in front of any one. He was my class mate. I thought I loved him. He made sure of that. One fine day, when there was no one in his house, he decided to do it. It wasn’t like I didn’t knew what I was getting into. But Still I was nervous. Plus there were thousands of thoughts going through my mind. What if he doesn't like me? What if he is not the right guy? What if he makes fun of my body in front of his friends? What if this and that and all such stupid questions were going thru. my mind. And he was undressing me.

As soon as he removed my bra and looked at my breasts, he laughed. I was shocked. I covered myself with my top and asked him what happened? He said, your boobs looks like oranges!!!!

I thought WTF and I slapped him.

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77. What are teachers’ embarrassing moments while wearing a saree?

Yeah well Sarees are dangerous if you don’t know how to carry them.

So this is a true incident which I think I have mentioned earlier as well. It was a teachers day celebration in our school when I was in 11th. So a part of the celebration was for the senior students to teach the junior students for half an hour or so. I was selected to teach the class of 10th Standard and the subject was Maths (Yeah Maths :( ).

Read more about it here

Deepika Mathur's answer to What is your most embarrassing moment in front of the whole class or in front of your teacher?

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78. What was on your mind the very first time you performed oral sex?

OMG Millions of things before I finally took it in my mouth.

Is it dirty? It is safe? It is clean? Am I supposed to do it? It is allowed? Is it legal? Why is it so big fat? Why does he wants me to do that? Will I puke? What if I dont like the taste? What if I am really doing something wrong and I will regret it?What if he pees? What if I bite him? What if I want to swallow only my spit and not anything else? What if he is stupid? What if he cums in my mouth? Why is he doing this to me? Is he selfish? What about me? What will I get in return? I shuld say NO.

Afterwards, it was tasteless and he was clean. Just the feeling was too sensual.

BTW I am not a big fan of it anyways.

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79. How did you fall in love?
I will talk about my current partner.

He is from a small village but works in Mumbai at a big firm. He is smart, witty, caring etc etc etc. I met him when I had some work in his office. He was smitten by my looks that day (that’s what he says). He kept staring at me for enough time to make me uncomfortable. He was assigned as an associate to help me with my case, But he kept staring at me continuously without saying a word.

When I realized his continuous stares, I just went near him and said “Hello!!!! Whats the matter with you?”. His reply was a bit shocking. I expected him to say sorry but instead he said “You are so beautiful, I cant take my eyes off you”. For a moment it made me blush. I was thinking about what should I reply? Punch him or slap him or scold him or what? But I just said “Thank you!! Now can we get back to the work”. he cutely smiled and replied, “Sorry! Yeah! Where were we???”.

He visited me couple of times to my work place for the same case and on the 4th day he asked me out for lunch. The lunches soon converted to dinners and dinners soon converted to night outs on weekends.

We managed to talk a lot about ourselves, love, sex, movies, sports and a lot of useless topics. We got to know each other very well. I told him all about my previous relationships and he took them well. He never overreacted nor did he made me uncomfortable. He was and also made me totally at ease. Only thing which made me a bit uneasy was the fact that he was a virgin and I wasn’t. That’s a big thing in India. Still he was ready to be with me and love me.

So We finally decided that it was time we declare that we are officially dating. Only difficulty was that there was no one to declare to. So we declared it to each other. :). After like 3 to 4 months, we decided to move in. Now live in relationships in India are not easy to come by. Specially for a guy who is from a small village. But again, he had a mature thinking and nature. He gave it a thought and was ready. Its been almost an year now. He is not a virgin any more :).
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HQ) What if India and Pakistan agree to build a road for transportation from India to Pakistan to the UK for trade purposes?
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80. What is the most embarrassing way you have fallen?

Well I didn't fell full flat face down but yeah I hurt myself a bit on my face. It was our school canteen and my crush was there. I was staring at him and walking. I was aware that the gate is coming. Now the gate is made up of full glass and because it was getting cleaned, the “WATCH YOUR HEAD” sticker was removed. Actually, I wasn’t paying much attention to the gate. So it didn’t matter if the sticker was there or not. I was destined to collide with the gate. I had my ice cream in one hand and as I was walking, I felt a sudden pain in my head and a loud “TANNN” noise. I wasn’t sure what happened as I was seeing stars in daylight. After a while I realized that it was me who collided with the glass gate and it was my head banging on the glass that made the noise. Everyone started string at me. Only God knows what they were thinking of me. The sad part was, no one came up for my help.
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81. Who is more powerful, Laxman or Arjuna?

As pointed out by other answers, Laxmanji is Sheshanag Avatar. So he shuld be the most powerful. But thats not how Quora shuld work. Lets break down the question and try to compare their weapons, achievements, skills etc.

Weapons
Laksmanji’s Weapons: Varunastra, Suryastra, Maheshwar, Indrastra, Lakshman Rekha, 

Arjuna’s Weapons: Gandiv, Pashupatastra, 
Vaishnavastra, Brahmastra, Brahmashirsha astra, Anjalika Astra, Sammohana/ Pramohana Astra, Vajra, Indrastra, Brahma Kavach, Sabda Veda Astra, Prajnastra, Sailastra, Jyotiksha Astra, Nagastra, etc etc etc

So clearly Arjuna had an edge over this. But the fact that Laxmanji defeated All three powerful Weapons - Brahmanda Astra, Pashupatastra, and Vaishnavastra - gives him the edge over Arjuna.

Achievements in WAR
Arjunas Achievements: 
He defeated and killed Bhishma - One of the most powerful Warrior of all time.
He defeated and killed Karana - Another one of the most powerful warriors of all times.
He Defeated entire Kauravas many times.
He defeated the seven forms of Lord Shiva.
He defeated Indra during Khandavdahana
Lakshamanji’s Achievements

He defeated and killed Indrajeet - THE MIGHTIEST warrior of all time. Indrajeet was not one of the most powerful, but he was THE MOST POWERFUL mortal man in this universe. 
This alone gives Lakshmanji the edge over the Arjuna.
Indrajit was a Atimaharathi. A warrior capable of fighting 12 Maharathi warriors simultaneously.

Bhishma was Maharathi - A warrior capable of fighting 12 Atirathi class warriors

Though Bishma is equal to 4 maharathi warriors.

Ratings
Arjuna was a Maharathi.
Lakshmanji was equal to 4 maharathi warrior.
So here to Lakshmanji wins the game.

Skills
Arjunas Skills: Special skills of Arjuna:Arjun was a 'Savyasachin',means capable of shooting arrows from both hands.Arjun had Conquered Sleep,and was effective with weapons even in the dark.
Arjun was the only warrior who had obtained the Mighty Pashupatastra from Mahadev.
Arjun had also obtained 'Celestial Vision' from Yama during his quest for weapons.
Arjun had a boon from Ulupi to be invincible in water.
Arjun also knew 'Chakshushi' vidya,by which he could see anywhere, even at large distances. He got this from a Gandharwa for giving him Agneya weapon.
Arjun was among a few warriors who possessed the full knowledge of entering and exiting a Chakravyuh. The others who had the knowledge are Krishna, Drona, Pradyumna, Aniruddha.

Arjun was among the few warriors who knew 'Shabda Vedi' vidya(Ability of an archer hit the target without seeing it, but just by detecting the source of sound).

Not much is mentioned about skill set of Lakshman ji. So I cant talk much about it. So I have to give this point to Arjuna.

Result
So final result speaks -
Lakshmanji-3
Arjuna-1
Winner - Lakshman Ji.
Ram Lakshman Jodi - Pal mei Lanka Todi.
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82. Where can I buy low-cost fabric?
Surat - The Silk city,  Ahemdabad for Cotton, Bhiwandi, Mumbai. 
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83. What is the most sexual thing you have ever done in public?

Sex on the beach any one? Its a common thing. Even in India. Not like full blown sex in full blown public place. But more of like cuddling kissing touching rubbing etc in a less public places like trees around beaches, behind stones, in water etc.

The most sexual thing could be the one time where we were in water in beach in Goa and he took off my bottom and used his fingers to take me to the next level of pleasure.

But later on I realized what a mistake we made due to all the rashes I received there.
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84. What was your favorite moment at the beach?

In India beaches means Goa. Especially for youngsters and newly Weds. Most romantic of the places, clean, safe, bindaas and beautiful … these are some of the adjectives I can think of for Goa beaches.

I am sure, for 90 percent of Indians, their favourite moment on beaches belongs to Goa.

That includes me. Now I have already mentioned this before in my previous answer, that we were a group of girls visiting Goa when we landed on a beach where a shooting of advertisement of lays wafers was going on. The main actor was Saif Ali Khan and there were lots of extras. All of them had beautiful bodies and most of them were in their swimming costumes.

I thought that this is the best chance to be in Bikini. So we all girls decided to purchase and wear a bikini. But we promised we wont take pics so that no one from our home will come to know about it. But I should never have trusted my friends on that. They took several pics of me.

Anyways coming back to the answer, after wearing this small piece of clothes which barely hides your modesty, it really felt a bit strange and uncomfortable at first. But than I noticed, no one cared. They were all having fun on the beach. There were few guys who were watching us and clicking our pics on their smart phones, but they were always there.

Plus they had a lots of choices. So they were not particularly watching me. So I was okay with it. I thought, heck with them. I can’t spoil my vacation for few strangers. I just ignored them and had fun on the beach. The fabric of my first bikini was really soft. So it was really comfortable.

Now whenever I got to Goa, I never hesitate to wear a bikini.Here - Me in Bikini.

Now its your turn to comment as to how You feel when you see me in bikini? :)

https://www.quora.com/What-was-your-favorite-moment-at-the-beach/answer/Deepika-Mathur-12?ch=10&oid=61757977&share=57a284b2&srid=5ChXE&target_type=answer
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85: Women: what is the most exciting sexual thing a guy has ever said to you and how did you respond ?

The most exciting sexual thing a Guy has ever said to me was by my BF.

When we started dating, I used to live alone. Once we were having a candid conversation at my apartment. We started discussing Sex. He was not very comfortable talking about the subject. May be because he was a virgin. I confessed to him that I am not a virgin and I have had more than one partners.

When I confessed this to him, my fingers were crossed and I was very nervous as to how he will react. There were thousands of questions in my mind. I was constantly reading his face and watching his body language. I was (and I am) actually totally into love with him and so I was really worried. But I had to tell the truth before we begin anything. So I did.

He remained calm. He was kind of very cool about it. Even though he was a virgin and I was not, he made me feel so comfortable discussing about it. He never even raised his eyebrows. That made me a bit confused as to what was his motive. Only sex? Was he really this mature? Or does he really loves me so much? Or was he not virgin and was hiding some truth?

The conversation went on fine and then he asked me where is the kitchen? I pointed my finger and asked why? He said that he will prepare special dinner for me tonight. He was so loving and caring that I realized that he is really in love with me and is not bothered about my past. That made me really excited for him (Emotionally and Sexually). I wanted to make this evening special for him but instead he was making this evening very very special for me. He cooked the most amazing Spicy Food which took him like 2 hours to cook.

My response to this sweet gesture of his to me was : I took his virginity that night.

https://www.quora.com/Women-what-is-the-most-exciting-sexual-thing-a-guy-has-ever-said-to-you-and-how-did-you-respond/answer/Deepika-Mathur-12?ch=10&oid=62316605&share=0b3baf1d&srid=5ChXE&target_type=answer

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86. Do women look better in jeans or skirts?

Well you tell me!!!!
For me, I dont like wearing skirts because they are
More costly, Need More washing daily, Cost per meter of clothes is more then jeans, 
Are less Durable, Hard of a lazy girl like me to maintain (Wash daily, dry clean daily etc), Less Comfortable than jeans.

Tight Jeans can exposes your figure but skirts can expose a lot of unwanted things. :)
Creates Problem of choices… (Lot of choices for skirts like Variety of colors, prints, Size (Short long mini micro mini), Designs etc). Less choices in Jeans so easy to choose.

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87. What is the most outrageous incident of molestation or harassment that you have experienced, witnessed, or heard about in India? What did you do, if anything?

This happened to me when we were celebrating the India’s worldcup victory in 2011. The whole Juhu Beach was crowded. I was just a teenager that time. The whole street was jam packed. We were on our way to home on our activa. I was with my cousin sister and she was driving the Activa.

The whole street was crowded by people dancing, celebrating, drinking and enjoying themselves. All I could see were heads and lot of heads. We realized our mistake and were really scared. My cousin sister was wearing a head scarf covering her face and in a jeans and Tshirt. I was wearing something I should have not. I was in my regular Skirt and Top.

The boys were all crazy dancing on road. I realized that they were not allowing any vehicle on road to pass by easily.

If it was a car, they would stop it, climb on it and dance and then let it pass. Two wheeler riders were facing a night mare.

We decided to enter a small turn hoping that the crowd will be less there. We could see that the turn was empty and there was no crowd but to reach that turn, we had to go across the road and pass through an area where boys were really rowdy. I told my sister that is the best worst case scenario which we can handle because if we go straight, it will take us whole night to just cross the main road. We prepared ourselves for the unwanted touches and gestures of the crowd and tried our best to avoid those boys.

But they surrounded us. Right in the middle of the road. Started dancing around us. Touching us, harassing us. Specially me. I covered myself with the bag I had to my chest and pretended as if I can't see anything and it's just a dream and it will be over soon. My sister was brave as she kept driving, But the speed was slow.

I felt hands everywhere. I almost started crying. My cries made them more bold and they started pulling me around and making really filthy gestures. People around were just watching and shouting and encouraging them. The boys demanded to dance with them. I said nothing and kept myself to my body. One even brought his face really close to my face and I could smell the foul liquor. Lucky me that some other guy pulled him off.

My sister kept driving slowly and steadily avoiding hurting any one and I kept praying, with my eyes closed, for that moment to pass by as soon as possible. It felt like a lifetime. But we finally managed to get into the small pavement.

I felt helpless and I could do nothing. I spent many nights repeating the same incident in my head over and over again, trying to figure out what I could have done better. I got no answer. All I got was anger.

https://www.quora.com/What-is-the-most-outrageous-incident-of-molestation-or-harassment-that-you-have-experienced-witnessed-or-heard-about-in-India-What-did-you-do-if-anything/answer/Deepika-Mathur-12?ch=10&oid=62441750&share=15ef6ffc&srid=5ChXE&target_type=answer

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88. When did you realize you're an asshole?

It was late in night. Around 1 AM. I was on my Activa. I was in Pune. The roads of Pune, when I was there, were pathetic and dangerous.

The road was pitch dark. I was really scared. I was going at a speed of around 60 or 70 as the night was chilling. I was driving on Sinhgad Road. It was my regular road so I was very well aware of all the potholes and speed breakers. So I was also aware of a sign board which was on the road some 300 meters away which said “Warning. Drive Slow. Work in Progress”.

Actually, there was some repair work for gutter line or I guess some telephone cable line which was going on, on the road. The Municipal Corporation guys had dug up a big deep hole to repair whatever they were repairing. That repairing work was easily around 2 months old and they were still repairing something. In day time, the traffic used to get really bad because of the unwanted repair work.

Any ways back to the incident where I was around 300 Meter away from that site. I saw a bike which tried to overtake me. I was only able to here the sound of the bike and was able to see its headlight because it was totally dark.

For few minutes, we were riding together. Suddenly, the light disappeared. I was alone on the road again. I wasn’t sure what happened. I never even gave a thought, for few seconds, as to why the headlight disappeared.

After a good 100 meters or so, I realized what actually happened. I now recalled a THUD sound just before the headlight went off.

You all can guess what actually happened. The guy who was driving the bike went right through the warning board and went inside that hole where the repair work was going on. I was shocked.

What should I do? In a split second, I decided to continue on my road and leave the guy there.

But when I reached home, I cried. I cried a lot. I said sorry to God again and again. I could have helped him. I SHOULD have helped him, I was so selfish and a real A$$hole.

How can one person be so selfish as to not to help accident victims? I could have atleast called 100. (100 works in PUNE. I have tried and got help within seconds of calling 10). Even today, that incident reminds me of what a coward I am.

https://www.quora.com/When-did-you-realize-youre-an-asshole/answer/Deepika-Mathur-12?ch=10&oid=62467385&share=b12bef2c&srid=5ChXE&target_type=answer

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89. What was your most embarrassing party experience?

I have been to many parties and had a lot of fun. I love going to parties and I love giving parties. Ever since I have a stable relationship, the frequency has increased. Its not like I only enjoy having a full fledged party with lot of our friends visiting. I am okay with me and him getting a bit drunk and walking back home feeling the earth shaking and moving. (Oh yeah I drink - occasionally).

One of my embarrassing party experience which I have already mentioned in my previous answers was during a wedding where I was dancing wearing a ghagra choli and the choli was so tight that its button gave away and it started hanging down. The Choli had an inbuilt bra to support my breasts. So I wasn’t wearing a bra. The choli not only gave away but also started hanging on one side. I felt kind of a relief as the air touched my bare breasts. I thanked God for turning on the AC as I thought someone had mercy on us girls who were dancing and sweating. A few minutes later my sister realized that I have had a wardrobe malfunctioning and she rushed to the stage and covered me, slapped me and took me to a corner.

That’s when I realized, why the air suddenly turned cold. I was embarrassed as there was a huge crowd watching us dance on stage with all the camera focused on us. I was already dressed to kill and than it was like Undressed to kill.

I rushed to my room to change my clothes and maintained a low profile. But I got lot of stares the whole day. Even if I wasn’t being stared, I felt that people were staring and laughing at me. It was a really really really embarrassing feeling.

The second incident is actually not very embarrassing. This was a small birthday party of a friend in a near by restaurant. It was a regular weekday so there was not much of crowd. I decided to wear a red short dress with a deep neck. The neck was actually deeper then I was comfortable with. A lot of eyes were directly hitting my chest that day as I tried my best to cover myself every now and than. It was clear how embarrassed I was feeling. That was a bad choice of dress I chose that day.
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90. Have you ever been seen naked by someone, apart from your family?

Oh Hell Yes.

Once I was seen Naked by many people while I was attending a marriage function.

I went to this friends wedding and we all were like 300 guests staying at a hotel near Jaipur in Rajasthan. This hotel was near to a hilly region. It was beautiful and clean and surrounded by beautiful forest and hills. I was around 19.

It was a beautiful chilling winter morning and at 9 in the morning when I decided its time I pickup my lazy bones and drag my beautiful a$$ to the washroom for a hot shower. I took my kit and clothes and went inside the washroom, dropped my clothes and started taking a shower. The water was warm and soothing. I just closed my eyes and decided to let the water wash off my laziness.

With my eyes still closed I reached out for my soap. The next moment, I heard my self screaming and running out of the washroom and my room, into the hall way, crying and scared shit.

With my heart beating at a rate of 140+, I realized I was stark naked and every one around was running towards me. My cousin, she took a bedsheet and wrapped it around me, but not before everyone getting a eye full of me. They all were actually concerned as to what went wrong and I was so embarrassed but still scared. I told them what happened and one of the teenage boy, from the other party (grooms Family) went in and came out with this green monster of the thing in his hand, teasing me. I gave him a death stare and he ran away.

Every one was laughing and I just ran right into where I belonged - in the washroom. I just closed the door and let the water again wash off my sweating.

My heart resumed the normal beating and I realized what just happened. “Oh Shit”, I said to myself.

This time, I carefully examined the wall looking for any other such insect peeping on me. Satisfied that there were none, I resumed my shower. I took my towel, wrapped it around myself and just when I was about to wear my undies, I saw a giant of a Spider, hanging right in front of me.

I had never seen such a thing in my Life. With his ugly big legs he was about to eat me alive. I just screamed again and ran out in to my room. This time I managed not to get out of my room in the hallway. I managed to have that small white towel around me but my scream was enough to gather attention and again a lot of people came running into my room. I am a tall girl. The towel looks really small on me. (I realized it when I got some alone time and decided how much of me was exposed. It wasnt a good sight for me :()

The men in the crowd decided to go in to check what was it. The first one who went in came running back out as he was too scared of the shit. But one of the teenager, again went in and I heard a noise of his boot hitting the ground.

“Its dead”, he announced and came back out. The girls in the crowd were laughing at me. “At least she has a towel now!!!”, those and similar other words made me a laughing stock that day.

Second Time I was seen - not fully naked but atleast topless I guess by guest at a wedding function, when I was dancing on stage and a wardrobe malfunction caused my choli to give up and I was not aware of it for full few minutes.

Once My cousin saw me naked. There were lot of functions during this marriage and we were always too lazy to get ready on time. I was just a teenager that time. It was all going very hectic and we were really late for the dinner function. I decided to get changed but my sister too was there. I thought it was okay to change my clothes in front of her.

As I started undressing, she too started changing her clothes. But somehow my trousers got stuck to my panties and as I was pulling my trousers down, my panties got stuck with them and they too were pulled down. Just as I was struggling to get them back up, my sister turned towards me and saw me in my no-clothes mode. She just shouted “OMG Deepika. Just wear some chaddi stupid!!!”, and slapped me on my um… YOU KNOW WHERE.

https://www.quora.com/Have-you-ever-been-seen-naked-by-someone-apart-from-your-family/answer/Deepika-Mathur-12?ch=10&oid=64352294&share=dc603161&srid=5ChXE&target_type=answer

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91. Have you ever tried to take a sexy picture of yourself?

Yes. I am sure many of us have taken sexy pictures of yourself. Even I have done it. I hope you are not expecting me to share it over here.

Now Why do I take naked sexy pics of myself? Simple. Taking a photograph is a way of trying to understand how people see you, who you are and what you look like, and there’s nothing wrong with that. People are specially conscious about how they will look naked or semi naked in front of their partners.

Taking naked photos is fun and sharing it with someone you trust is more fun.
Naked photos are funny. Human bodies are funny and strange in shape and a camera can capture some parts of your body which you might never see
It makes me look and feel awesome. I may have a slim butt but I can arch my back to give it more curves and make it look a tad bit bigger. :)
Its entertaining to look at yourself nude.
It’s empowering. Our naked bodies are so loaded. With shame. With desire. With aspiration.
It’s a beautiful form of intimacy. Ninety nine per cent of the naked photographs I’ve taken in my life are for nobody’s eyes but my own.
They capture memories
This is how I looked like when I was in twenties
If you have help, you can really take lot of good looking pics. But you need to carefully choose your helper :). I do have a good help.

How to take sexy or I should say erotic photo of yourself?

Amp up your erotic features. Makeup, hairdo etc.
Choose what to wear. Wear something sensual, sexy. No need to purchase costly clothes. Basic under wears will do.
Set up the scene. Choose your surroundings. Mostly its your room but even a bathroom can make you look erotic.
Relax, get comfortable. Get into the mood. Use some music.Candles, bath etc can also help
Pose properly. Keep your chin up, make curves, throw your shoulders back.
Tease the camera. Show something, hide something. Lower a bra strap, under wears, remove a piece of clothing, or otherwise show a bit more skin
If possible, retouch the photos. You can retouch them or add different effects to enhance their appeal. Crop out mistakes, cover imperfections with a blemish tool, add different filters, or try black and white for an old-world feel.
For girls, Hard nipples = always better.
KEEP YOUR SOCKS OUT OF THE PHOTO.
Don’t force it. Take many shots. Choose the best one.
I will give you an example of how NOT to take a sexy photo of yourself.

Do let me know if you do it right.

NOTE: Up votes are not needed but are appreciated. All comments are replied with much love.
NOTE and Edit: Added pic to gain some popularity :) Sorry :)
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92. Have you ever been fondled in public?

Unfortunately many times. Once, I even returned the favor by kicking the guy back. I travel a lot using the Local trains in Mumbai. though they are safe for women, as we have a reserved coach for women, but many times, we have to board the Men’s coach. Even then it is quite safe. But sometimes you find some real perverts who care about nothing.

But the one incident which made me really scared was the one at the world cup 2011 celebration on the street.

The whole Juhu Beach was crowded. I was just a teenager that time. The whole street was jam packed. We were on our way to home on our Two-wheeler. I was with my cousin sister and she was driving.

The whole street was crowded by people dancing, celebrating, drinking and enjoying themselves. All I could see were heads and lot of heads. We realized our mistake and were really scared. My cousin sister was wearing a head scarf covering her face and in a jeans and T-shirt. I was wearing something I should not have. I was in my regular Skirt and Top.

The boys were all crazy dancing on road. I realized that they were not allowing any vehicle on road to pass by easily.

If it was a car, they would have stopped it, climbed on it, danced and then let it pass. Two wheeler riders were facing a nightmare.

We decided to enter a small turn hoping that the crowd will be less there. We could see that the turn was empty and there was no crowd but to reach that turn, we had to go across the road and pass through an area where boys were really rowdy. I told my sister that is the best worst case scenario which we can handle because if we go straight, it will take us whole night to just cross the main road. We prepared ourselves for the unwanted touches and gestures of the crowd and tried our best to avoid those boys.

But they surrounded us. Right in the middle of the road. Started dancing around us. Touching us, harassing us. Specially me. I covered myself with the bag I had to my chest and pretended as if I can't see anything and it's just a dream and it will be over soon. My sister was brave as she kept driving, But the speed was slow.

I felt hands everywhere. They started fondling me in public. I almost started crying. My cries made them more bold and they started pulling me around and making really filthy gestures like they wanted to get inside me and they made signs using their fingers. I felt hands on my thighs making bold moves moving upwards. I was so scared to even react that I held my bag even tighter. The guys started getting bolder and bolder. I felt my skirt being raised. I just grabbed it with all my might and tried to kick. They all started laughing as the two wheeler started loosing balance. They shouted “abey pakad… wo gir jayegi gir jayegi” (catch her, she will fall. She will fall), and they grabbed my hand and my back from behind preventing the fall but causing more hands on me everywhere.


All this happened for just a minute or so but felt like an eternity to me.

People around were just watching and shouting and encouraging them. The boys demanded to dance with them. I said nothing and kept myself to my body. One even brought his face really close to my face and I could smell the foul liquor. Lucky me that some other guy pulled him off.

I felt helpless and I could do nothing. I spent many nights repeating the same incident in my head over and over again, trying to figure out what I could have done better. I got no answer. All I got was anger.

Edit 1: I wish there was a crowd of we girls and than there is some guy who is trapped between us. I can only imagine the things I would do to him. Not that I want to do anything to him. its just revenge.

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93. Have you ever done that things which you are not supposed to do?

Oh many a times. I am in my early twenties and I have this habit of getting embarrassed. That’s what I think. That’s the answer I get when I ask myself “Why do you have so many embarrassing incidents in your life?”. There is no other explanation. Is it a some kind of kick or what? I don’t know. But it happens a lot with me.

As a student I was not supposed to have an affair with a Married Teacher. I was fully aware of it. I was mature enough to know that its dark and I am not supposed to do it. Still I went for it. Just to feel cool.

Deepika Mathur's answer to What is the darkest secret of your life which makes you cry often?

Than its been unsaid rule of our society which forbids girls in India to wear Bikinis on Beach. Which again I never obeyed.

Also if you read my answers, you will get to know that I have had many such small incidents which I think I could have easily avoided. One of the stupidest being trusting a stranger just cuz of his looks.

So yes, I have done things which I am not supposed to do.
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94. What's the most embarrassing thing your friend has done in public?

So this happened to me when I, with two of my friends, went to Imagica. It was a one day trip and it was my second visit to Imagica. So I insisted that we will first go to waterpark till afternoon and then we will go to Imagica Rides. I carried one backpack and a small poly thin to carry things around. All three of us went to the changing room to change into our swimsuits. I kept my towels and clothes in the small poly thin and found a locker to keep my wallets and cellphones safe into the backpack. We found an empty chair on the deck to leave our stuff and together we went off to try out the water slides.

The slides were a lot of fun but the park was very packed so we were standing in line for quite a while between trips down and I got tired of waiting standing in the sun. So I decided to rather relax on the lazy chairs and cool off for a while but rest of my friends wanted to try out the wave pool. We agreed to split up and meet back near the chairs at 2.

As I was laying down on my chair, I noticed that there were few people around me checking me out. Most of them were trying to be subtle looking at me out of the corner of their eyes or from behind sunglasses but I can still tell. And a few of them were not being subtle at all. I enjoyed the attention though. The swimsuit was wet but it was big enough to cover a lot of me so I was not worried and it was enough for me to enjoy the attention despite the fact that I knew everyone was picturing me out of my swimsuit.

After a while my stomach started rumbling and so I decided to grab something to eat. I had my food coupons in my poly thin so I decided to go to the bench where I had kept my poly thin. To my surprise, the poly thin was gone. I was shocked. Who in the hell will steal a polythin bag with clothes? Than again, this is India. Damn it. I tried finding a park employee and reporting it but I realized that it will not be of much help. Sighing with frustration at the situation, I decided to find my other two friends for lunch. I told them what happened. They were shocked and asked what was inside the polythene. I said, I lost my Skirt, Top, under wears and food coupons and a sun glass. All were shocked but we have to move on as we have to go to the theme park till 2. Or else we’ll be late. We decided to grab some food after changing the clothes in the changing room. I first went to the locker to get clothes from my back pack. Though I was carrying an extra pair of T-Shirt and skirt, I wasn’t carrying any extra under wears. There was nothing I could have done at that point. The swimsuit was all wet. So I went to the changing room and changed in to just my t-shirt and skirt. It was a horrible feeling at first. Without bra-panties in a theme park surrounded by the summer crowd!!! I started cursing whoever was responsible for the theft.

The tank top which I bought was not the one I would normally wear without a bra though. The neck was pretty low cut and the armholes were a bit big. It was summer time and to avoid the Mumbai Heat, this tank top was the perfect fit. Not a big deal when I am wearing a bra but without one I knew I would have to be a bit extra careful to avoid giving anyone too much of a view. No bending over too much or raising my arms. Otherwise someone will see down the top or get a side-boob view. Also I was worried about the sweating. The skirt, thankfully, was a long one and it was not quiet windy. Though I was afraid about the view from bottom when I was in air on the rides.

Their lunch was delicious if a bit pricy but they we all eat at our fill and decide to digest while in line. The biggest and best roller coaster in the whole park was near us but it had a long queue. We figured we can digest while waiting in line and no longer feel stuffed to bursting by the time we actually make it to the ride.

By the time we made it to the front of the line we’re all having a great time again. The ride had only 2 seats in each row so two of my friends were ahead in the line and they got to ride together while I, with a stranger took the row behind them. The overhead restraints were lowered and the ride started.

The ride was amazing. Easily the best one we have been on so far. But suddenly as the ride slowed down and started coming back to the station I realized, with horror, that my chest have fallen out of my tank top. It must have been during the loops or maybe during one of the dives or something like that. I immediately tried to correct it but realized that with the overhead restraints I can't bend my arm enough to reach my shirt.

Panicking, I eventually managed to squirm my arm around the back of the restraints and got my tank top back in place just as we come into view of the waiting crowds. Red-faced, I looked around but luckily no one noticed my accidental exposure. Not even the guy in the seat next to me.

I considered myself extremely lucky and the rush from almost being caught like that left me feeling giddy as I got off the ride and exited with my friends. We’re all laughing and talking about how awesome the ride was. I was about to tell my friends about my little wardrobe malfunction but I decided to wait till we had a little privacy from the dense crowd.

As we were walking pass the photo kiosk, I got the shock of my life. On the screens there were these pictures of all the riders from the latest train. And there I was in the center of the screen, Mouth wide open in a happy scream with my cleavages hanging almost out of my tank top. I was frozen and didn’t knew what to do. I tried to look for my friends but they were already paying for something on the picture booth, laughing and making faces at each other. I waited outside the booth for them as they took forever to come out of the booth.

While I was waiting my mind started to play tricks on me and I was worried that every person walking past laughing or smiling is secretly laughing at me after seeing my picture.

Finally though my friends emerged from the gift shop both laughing. They had a souvenir bag. I assumed she must have stopped to buy something. I asked about what they bought and they bursts out laughing again. I opened the bag and pulled out a framed picture...The picture from the ride. Not only did they buy the print, they even paid for it to be framed.

I was so humiliated but even though out of my shame I was able to recognize the humor in it. If it had happened to either of my friends I would have been laughing my butt off at the whole situation so I assumed that maybe with time I’ll find it funny too.

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95. Why don't Indian girls walk around the beaches in India wearing bikinis?

I have been to Goa and I have always tried wearing Bikini and I love wearing Bikinis. Not in Goa particularly…but anywhere I can. Sadly, I haven’t been to a lot of places where I can wear bikinis. There is nothing awkward in that. I feel comfortable wearing it, and confident. Perhaps Goa is one of the places were I can be myself. Other places we are condition bound and forced to follow a set of rules - For our own safety.

Now I have already mentioned this before in my previous answer, that we were a group of girls visiting Goa when we landed on a beach where a shooting of advertisement of lays wafers was going on. The main actor was Saif Ali Khan and there were lots of extras. All of them had beautiful bodies and most of them were in their swimming costumes.

I thought that this is the best chance to be in Bikini. So we all girls decided to purchase and wear a bikini. But we promised we wont take pics so that no one from our home will come to know about it. But I should never have trusted my friends on that. They took several pics of me.

Now the ogling eyes of Indian tourists is a big deterrent for the advent of bikinis in Goa. A large number of Indian tourists shamelessly ogle at bare skin that even foreigners are desisting from wearing bikinis in open at Goa beaches. Also after wearing this small piece of clothes which barely hides your modesty, it really felt a bit strange and uncomfortable at first. But than I noticed, no one cared. They were all having fun on the beach. There were few guys who were watching us and clicking our pics on their smart phones, but they were always there.

Plus they had a lots of choices. So they were not particularly watching me. So I was okay with it. I thought, heck with them. I can’t spoil my vacation for few strangers. I just ignored them and had fun on the beach. The fabric of my first bikini was really soft. So it was really comfortable.

Now whenever I got to Goa, I never hesitate to wear a bikini.Here - Me in Bikini.

Now its your turn to comment as to how You feel when you see me in bikini? :)

I failed to mention but I think it was a private beach. I don’t remember exactly cuz the whole trip was arranged by one of my friend.
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96. Do you have a bikini body that you can flaunt?

No I don’t think I have a perfect Bikini body and I cant flaunt about it. But Still I feel very comfortable in Bikinis.
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97. Are women generally aware when they're showing off their cleavage?

By Cleavage, I assume you are talking about my breasts.

No. Not Always at least. I am a thin girl. It's hard for me to get a cleavage unless I wear something really tight. So I am a bit careless about it. I will tell you about one such incident.

This was when I was home alone and feeling lazy, so I decided to order a pizza. The Delivery guy was strange. This guy was though older than me, was still very slim and tall and had this weird smile which I can still remember because of the timing of his smile.

As I answered the door, I had my mobile phone in my hand. As I opened the door, there was this guy in blue Dominos uniform which was really loose on him. It seemed as if two such guys could have fit into the uniform. As he handed over the pizza, tissues, ketchup and drink, it became difficult for me to handle everything and that’s when I lost my grip on my phone. Lucky me that there was a door mat by the door and the phone fell right on it.

With all those food items in my small hands, I bent forward to pickup my phone. The very same moment, he too decided to bend forward and pickup my phone. Our heads almost collided and we both paused for a moment.

Now in that one moment, I was able to see right from the top of his loose shirt to his bottoms. His slim chest with only bones was all very clearly visible to me. I paused for one more moment and tried to check into his eyes if he had seen me watching his chest or not. That’s when I realized he was busy watching down my t-shirt with his mouth open. He was ogling and was amazed seeing my cleavage. The look on his face was priceless and so was the look on my face I guess.

That moment was really, really weird. I quickly covered my top, grabbed my phone and gave him an angry look. This exact moment, that delivery guy had the most weirdest smile I have ever seen. Ewwww!!! What more can I say?

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98. What was your most embarrassing moment while watching 'Game of Thrones'?

Ok. This is not yet another story where my partners, parents or someone caught me watching the nude scenes in Games of Thrones. Its actually something related to blood.

It was a Sunday afternoon as I was watching GOT. My maid was late on Sunday as it was cold lazy day in Mumbai.

Now for one my maid has already seen me in almost every possible wardrobe I have. She has seen me with and without clothes, in towel and even caught me kissing and making out with my BF many a times and she is not really bothered about it any more. But this Sunday it was different.

My bf was not at home and I was watching a Bloody episode of GOT. In the middle of the episode, I got a call from him and we started talking about some romantic things as the weather was really cold and I could have really used his warmth. I was talking to him on my earphone and my eyes were on the screen. My laptop was on my stomach as I was talking on phone. It appeared as if I was watching the episode but actually I was busy talking with my bf.

Now to be very very honest, I rarely rarely touch myself. And even that time I wasn’t doing it. But my hand was, for I don’t know what reason, under my shorts.

My maid, not sure when, came to my room for cleaning and saw me in that position. She than came near to me to see what I was watching and rubbing myself. What she saw on the screen was really horrific. Even I hated that scene but it appeared as if I was getting off watching those bloody scenes. She just screamed and cursed me. I was shocked as to what really happened. She really cursed me for enjoying such scenes. Only after she left the room that I was able to realize what actually happened.

Needless to say, it was really embarrassing.
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99. What is the English translation of the sentence bhagwaan unki atma ko shanti de?

“May his/her Soul Rest in Peace”. I think this Hindi sentence came from the English sentence.
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100. Is a live-in relationship good or bad?

So I am in a Live-in relationship since last 2 years almost. According to Supreme Court in India. “Live-in relationship has become acceptable norm in modern times and it is not a crime”. So that’s clear that we are not doing a crime. Only scary thing is that the apex court has clarified that the children born of parents in a live-in relationship could not be called illegitimate. If a child is born of live-in partners, then, unlike within a marriage, the mother is the natural guardian of the child. However, it also means that the father is not obliged to fulfill any responsibility related to the child. So now it becomes my responsibility to NOT to get pregnant :). Other than that we both still enjoy all the legal rights given to a married couple.

We both have our finances separate. We share all the costs (Other than the Gifts and hotel bills and parties. He pays for them all).

We have hired a good cook and a good maid. So we don’t fight over what to eat and what not to eat. Also our daily dishes and clothes are well taken care of.

Now why we started to live in together - It was just a thought. We decided to do it for no reason. We were having good fun and we were almost living at each others rented house and practically same room. Also we were in love (we are still in love). So we decided that we should save money by having only one home to come to and pay for. That’s how we started living in together. Initially he slept in hall but gradually he shifted to my room. So its all good till now. We share same responsibilities, we share same fun same room same shower same bed same kitchen same contagious flu… basically we share everything we can share. Its been a good last year and we started a new year with lot of fun.

People, society, friends and families have all been very supportive. There were few exceptions but that was expected. Actually, if you carefully notice Indian society in cities, they hardly have any time for raising eyebrows on such matters. People want to share happiness and festivals and they want to support people in their bad times. Other than that, they are not really bothered about what others are doing and weather its wrong or right.

Generally when a new person gets to know that I am in a living in a live-in relationship, he/she, at first, gets a bit surprised but after few minutes, he/she just goes on with the regular business. Till now, we have not faced anything which can block our future because of this relationship.

Only thing bad I can think about this thing is that it makes us a tad bit less responsible than one should be. According to me, at my age, I should have some responsibilities and I should fulfill them. But right now, I feel that I have none and I am just enjoying my life with all the love, sex, booze, parties and friends. Sometimes I feel like I am wasting my time in such pleasures and I should do something about it and that I am becoming more lazy. Such thoughts appear specially after a bad hangover or in a morning which follows an action packed night.

Edit 1: Do not decide to live in with your partner based on my answer. I was lucky to have a guy who is not very dominant and listens to me in everything. He always and ALWAYS accepts my decisions. Same might not be the case with you or your partner. So think about it before taking any decision. Last but not the least - DO NOT GET PREGNANT unless you are Absolutely ready for it.
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101. What was the most embarrassing moment in front of your newly married spouse?

Not sure if my answer counts or not since I am not married. But I live in with my partner. So I will, anyway, answer this question.

This is about a Friday night. We were having a party. Just two of us. We had wine and we watched a good romantic movie and we were all intimate with no clothes on.

We had our fun on bed, our wine was over and the movie was over too, my partner decided to watch another movie. I was feeling sleepy, but he insisted. So I said okay. He opted for a really dark depressing English horror movie. I really hate horror movies. They are more like filthy comedy movies. But not this one. This one was really dark and really scary. Slowly and steadily the story gained my interest and I was always thinking what will happen next. With his hands all over my body, I was still scared of the scary scenes and I was hiding my face every now and than. After like an hour or so in to the movie, I felt like I wanted to go pee. So I asked him to pause the movie till I return from the washroom.

The whole house was dark. Not a single light was on. I was already scared. I somehow managed to reach the washroom and put on the switch. It took me forever to pee as if it was too scared of coming out. :) .

Anyway, I finished washing my hands and switched off the light, opened the door and what I saw next took my breath away. I wanted to scream but it was as if I was frozen for a second. My breathing stopped and I was almost having a heart attack.

Only after few seconds I realized that it was nothing but my partner, naked, making a really horrible face by pulling the corner of his eyes with two fingers and pulling his nose with other two fingers and pulling corners of his lips with two fingers.

I had never seen such a horrible guy ever in my life. I think my heart skipped hundreds of heart beats until it started pumping blood again. I just started hitting him with punches here and there and then I buried my face in his chest.

Naked and scared of nothing makes you feel really embarrassed after you take control of yourself.

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102. Which is more embarrassing, upskirt or cleavage?

So let me describe you a real life incident which answers this questions.

Indian Trains are bi**. Really. Specially for girls, never wear a skirt for traveling in train. Its a mistake which I made and hence I am advising you. Avoid clothes like skirt, tight leggings, kurti etc. Actually, I am not sure what to wear while travelling in trains if you are a girl especially when you have got a upper berth reservation

So I was once travelling by train in sleeper coach and my seat was reserved to an upper berth seat. It was summer time and due to vacations, trains were running full.

So this is how upper berth looks like. There is a side berth(side upper) too and if you climb on the upper birth, the person sitting on the side birth can look up to you and get a good view of everything on display - if you know what I mean.

Because it was summer, I was wearing a skirt. Though it looks quite simple to climb up the upper berth, trust me, its not that easy. It took me couple of attempts to climb up the berth and I was clearly able to hear the two guys laughing and ogling at what they got to see up my skirt. It was really embarrassing to expose your privates to such perverts. They talked about it all along the journey and I was so furious but was not able to do anything.

So upskirts are really embarrassing specially if you have not waxed your legs and for numerous other reasons I am not able to gather the courage to write here.

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103. Which is the most awkward moment of your college life?

College Life are full of incidents which you can remember throughout your life. Beginning from hostel ragging to getting through the convocation ceremony, this life teaches you a lot of things and shows you a lot of unseen faces of humanity.

It was difficult for me to go through the ragging part, but once that was over, the first few months were quiet boring. I joined hostel Gymm. Gymming was a great way to get distracted from two things. Books and my mom. Books was something I planned to get distracted from. But getting distracted from Mom's nagging was an added benefit. Mom was behind me to get married. Given the earlier incidents with me in my school, my Mom wanted to really get rid of me. Getting away to gym helped me get distracted for one and also get in shape. As you can see in my pics that I wasn't fat or anything. In fact I was an underweight. I stood at a good 5 feet 5 inches tall, more than the average height but one thing that I was not was "Fit". I could not walk for more than 10 minutes without giving up panting or climb a flight of stairs at a time without breaks.

So after the first year, the second year of engineering started with a bang. Lot of interesting new subjects, loads of books, new strange friends and lot of new things. Among all these new faces, I could see few old faces too. The culture of the college changed drastically from the first year to second year. One noticeable change was Smartphones. Everyone started having touch screen smartphones. It was new but it was quiet exciting.

Now the real incident started. I remember it was a Thursday. As I entered the class on thursday, the class was all silent and suddenly murmurs started across the class. There were a bunch of students at the back with their mobiles seeming distracted. I felt a bit awkward and I sat down in the class while everyone was staring at me. Soon the lecture started and I forgot about all of it.

At the end of that day, during the last lecture, a peon came to our class and said that principal wanted to see me. A bit surprised, I stood up as the whole class started murmuring again looking at me. As I entered the principals office, I saw the principal sir really angry on a boy. I wasn’t the only girl there though. Next thing I heard was a *Phat* - a slap on the face on a student. His name was Nikhil (Name Changed). The Principal had an expression that even gave me shudders. Nikhil was asked to unlock the phone in front of me but he pleaded that he would not do anything similar in the future. Down came another slap on the other cheek this time by the director of education. Nikhil unlocked the phone immediately and started sobbing that he was sorry. What I saw next made us all shocked. We (three girls) were shocked to see a lot of pictures of girls in the class morphed as naked photos and were shared in whatsapp to other students. On probing further, he admitted that the photos were also shared in porn websites. As we browsed the phone further, I came across a picture of mine, morphed and uploaded on whatsapp of his Phone. The picture was as dirty as it could have been. The girl in the pic was full nude and was with two other black guys. I cannot describe the pic any further.

I was shocked and tears started flowing down my cheeks. In Rage I hit him without any caution. I punched him in the stomach and slapped him again and again. I could not bear the humiliation. I was howling in the principal's cabin hitting nikhil.

I was held by some faculty and made to sit down. Nikhil was Rusticated from college. He was not to attend college from the very day. Principal came to me and told me that nothing had happened and asked me to take a leave for a week and come back fresh.

I was not in a position to think about anything else that day. I walked like a zombie to the parking and drove my activa to the hostel without knowing how I negotiated traffic.

I spent the next two days curled up in bed crying. I could not think of anything else but the fact some guy had taken a picture of mine and morphed it to look like I was nude and sent it across places. I could not trust anyone. I had narrated the entire episode to mom and she was supportive. She asked me to plunge into books and distract myself.
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104. If you were forced to relive one 10-minute block of your life again and again for all eternity, what 10 minutes of your life would you choose?

A lot of 10 minutes I can recall which I can live for eternity.

Like Having a good sex, eating a perfect meal, watching a good movie, having a good nights sleep, watching India win, earning good money in a good deal, etc etc.

But the best one, which is actually possible to do for eternity is - to sleep.

Sleep for eternity - it means “to die”.
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105. What is your best one night stand story?

So I am sitting alone at a Bar. A tall handsome guy politely offers to buy a drink for me and after I say yes, we started kissing and we go to his room and then we have good sex. Then in morning, I get up from the bed in a hurry, wearing the bed sheet, showing off my back to my one night partner and I wear my panties and clothes in front of him. I just kiss him good bye and that is it.

This is what you expect from a one night stand story. Right? I mean that is what we are used to see in Hollywood movies. But now we have started seeing such stories even in Bollywood as well (Check out Luv Ranjan’s movies).

But nothing of this BAR thing happens in real life in India. At least not with me.

I was a teenager when I had my first experience. That was not my one night stand as I had a great relationship with him before we broke up after 3 years. Then I had a dry phase of around 4 to 5 months. After this phase came the one night stand that I still remember as it was a Summer season - Seasons of Marriage. It was a marriage of my cousin. I have realized that most of my one night stands have happened during weddings of some distant relatives. I just love attending weddings as it gives me an excuse to get dressed to kill :).

Any ways back to this incident, I was attending a wedding and was staying in a hotel booked by the brides family. I had to attend this Music night before the wedding night and so I was dressed in full Indian ethnic wear.

The ground where the musical show was arranged, was glittering like a big disco pub. People were dressed to kill and guys and girls were dancing together enjoying the night. Elders were busy eating the delicious food and I was just staring at the amount of lights the ground was bathing in.

I noticed I was being stared at and followed by a man. I was getting irritated. I decided to give him a good dose of my anger. But when I tried to look who was the guy who was staring at me, I realized that he was not just another perv old man. He was in his mid thirties but was dressed to kill in his designer suite. I kept staring at him for few seconds and when I realized that I was staring, I looked in to his eyes from a distance and he just smiled and I just blushed. I wasn’t sure why I was blushing but I knew something inside me wanted him. He approached me and we chatted for a while.

He was a local guy over there invited by the brides family and knew the city in and out. He asked me if I wanted to go for a drive and I just said yes. But before the drive, I asked if we can have some food. On the way to our drive, he took me to a very strange building which was under construction. I was a bit scared as to why he bought me to such a place. But he told me to trust him and took me on the top floor. The view from the top floor was breath taking. The city was dimly lit and the street lights were creating a beautiful garland in and around the city. The pollution of the city was evident in some parts of the city as the visibility was not very good in those areas but still it gave the city a strangely perfect look. In the middle of our busy life, we hardly find time to enjoy such small things like going on top of the building and enjoying what a city look like, or a sunset or a sunrise.

We managed our way back to the hotel which we were staying and that’s where we had our kiss. One thing led to another and we spent around 4 hours together in a room. At around 1 AM, he announced that he will have to leave and thanked me. I am not sure why, but the “thanks” actually bothered me. He shouldn't have said thanks. But any ways, the satisfaction of spending a peaceful night stayed with me for a long long time. I tried many more one night stands just to get similar satisfaction but none compared to that. It wasn’t about the sex. It was about the peace and satisfaction.

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106. Which colour bra and panties do you prefer and wear?

Whats there in colour of undies? I prefer them white and black. Black is my fav. But I don’t think twice before buying any color of bra and panties.

Only thing I keep in mind is while wearing transparent clothes, the color of my bra or panties should not be in contrast of what I am wearing. In short, they should not be visible.

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107. Have you ever spent a night inside Asia's most haunted place?

Thanks for asking this question to me Som. Som have been a good friend of me and he has written a really awesome book called :

BHANGARH: Spending one night there


Its free on Kindle.

Search for “BHANGARH: Spending one night there” on google.

Coming back to your question Som:

No. I have not spent a night in Asia’s most haunted place. But I have spent a night in a haunted building once and By God, was it not scary? You tell me!!.

I will not name the building where this happened because the builder of the building is already facing a huge loss due to the rumors of his building being haunted.

This happened when I traveled to Surat Gujarat, with my live in boyfriend for purchasing some clothes for my cousins marriage. He also had some seminar to attend. So we decided to go in there together. His company had a flat in Surat where they usually accommodated their associates. It was a two day trip and though I was aware I will be really bored, I still decided to go with him.

We arrived at around 11 in morning. The weather was no different than it was in Mumbai. The humidity was less though. As our OLA stopped in front of the building in question, I couldn’t help but stare, with an open mouth, at the awesomeness of the design and location. The apartment was situated on one of the busiest road of Surat. The design of the front portion was something similar to what I have seen in European travel shows. Awesome was the word.

The building gave me a strange feeling as we entered the place with our bags. The apartment was mostly empty and most of the flats were locked.

I asked the watchman about the same and he told me that there is a rumor that the building has ghosts and so no one comes here to stay.

The word ghosts alone made me shiver. I can try and save myself defending against a mortal man but how do you fight the dead? I am already a fattu girl against ghosts. Spending two days and a night in a haunted building, scared the Sh*** out of me. I held my boyfriends hand tightly and gave him a deadly stare. He just smiled with a wide grin, as if he was trying to hide his laughter. I just rolled my eyes in way which gave out a signal to him that there will be no sex tonight. Actually we have developed a code language among us to talk without saying anything. He burst out laughing and I just smiled to stop being laughed at.

At around 1, we had lunch and his company's cab took him to the seminar and dropped me back to the building alone. I was really scared to go up the building. So I decided to talk to the watchman at the reception. He told me some stories about how someone died during construction of the building and how he/she turned in to a ghost. According to him, the ghost was seen only in Night. Though he has never heard or saw anything remotely close to a ghost, other than off course me, in his entire life, but he had heard a lot of stories about it. People have complained listening to sound of hammers hitting stones in night. Some guys even complained a ghost running behind them with the hammer to chase them out of the house.

Hammer alone is a scary thing to look at. Now imagine a hammer following your head. Now add a scary white ghost, flying in air, holding the hammer, following you, to kill you a gruesome death. I was clearly shivering.The watchman held my hand to calm me down. His touch was very unexpected and I was really upset. But I collected myself and made way to the lift. As I pressed the 7th button on the lift, there were thousands of questions running thru. my mind.

I decided to take a shower, for the second time in the day and get ready for shopping. We went out for shopping, at 6 after my bf arrived. We bought a lot of sarees and dresses from the huge huge huge textile market in Surat.

We returned to our flat at around 9, after the dinner. I was so tired, I thought I will just crash on the bed. But seeing the watchman, ruined my mood. First I was still not sure why he touched me the way he did. Second, the Ghost who was waiting inside the building to kill me with that bloody hammer. I was afraid and scared as I held his hand and followed him to bed.

As we were changing to our night wears, I told him about the stories and the ghost with the hammer. Needless to say, he again started laughing. That made me really angry and I went inside the washroom to change and locked the washroom and started changing. I realized that it was a crazy move. I was safe outside then alone inside. What if he was watching me? What if he was watching me undressing and was waiting for me to get nude after which he will strike me with the hammer? What will happen if people find my nude dead body and there will be a police investigation, as we see in CID tv show on Sony. Will it not be embarrassing? That night I realized that when you are scared, you become stupid too. You take really stupid decisions and think stupid.

When I came out of the washroom, my bf was waiting for me with his hungry eyes. But my soft signal was No Sex. He was disappointed and spent his time explaining that there are no ghost. Suddenly, we heard a thud. We saw each other with wide eyes. I started sweating as I thought that my end was near. I held him tightly and never realized that he was kissing me all over. Only when I was almost crying, he told me that he paid 50 rs to the watchmen to make that noise at night. My anger crossed all its limit and I started punching him left and right. He just overpowered me, calmed me down and kissed me on forehead. I hid my face in him to celebrate the scary night in the haunted flat.

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108. How would you feel if someone really hot comes up to you with intentions of having sex with you and may even pay you?

If someone very hot comes up to me with intentions of having sex, I will obviously feel flattered and excited. But the second part is a buzz kill. I mean why would he pay me? For Sex? So that will make me a prostitute. Right? Not that I have anything against them but I am not in this world to sell my body. I have other things to sell and they are doing very well. Like my skills and products. Not my body. So I would rather slap him if he offers to pay. Other wise… who knows :)

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109. What would you do if you were purposely trying to embarrass yourself?

I always had this strange obsession or liking to get my self in to really awkward position by doing really strange things in public that would be so embarrassing and bizarre that people would never forget that moment. I had no shame after the dark incident of me and my Teachers, In-fact, It bought me a real KICK kind of thing by doing such stupid things.

I will tell you about one such incident where I did this stupid stunt unknowingly or knowingly in my subconscious mind.

I went to this friends wedding and we all were like 300 guests staying at a hotel near Jaipur in Rajasthan.

This hotel was near to a hilly region. It was beautiful and clean and surrounded by beautiful forest and hills.

I was around 19. It was a beautiful chilling winter morning and at 9 in the morning when I decided its time I pickup my lazy bones and drag my beautiful a$$ to the washroom for a hot shower. I took my kit and clothes and went inside the washroom, dropped my clothes and started taking a shower. The water was warm and soothing. I just closed my eyes and decided to let the water wash off my laziness.With my eyes still closed I reached out for my soap.

The next moment, I heard my self screaming and running out of the washroom and my room, into the hall way, crying and scared shit.

With my heart beating at a rate of 140+, I realized I was stark naked and every one around was running towards me.

My cousin, she took a bed sheet and wrapped it around me, but not before everyone getting a eye full of me.

They all were actually concerned as to what went wrong and I was so embarrassed but still scared. I told them what happened and one of the teenage boy, from the other party (grooms Family) went in and came out with this green monster of the thing in his hand, teasing me.

I gave him a death stare and he ran away.Every one was laughing and I just ran right into where I belonged - in the washroom. I just closed the door and let the water again wash off my sweating body.

My heart resumed the normal beating and I realized what just happened. “Oh Shit”, I said to myself.

This time, I carefully examined the wall looking for any other such insect peeping on me. Satisfied that there were none, I resumed my shower. I took my towel, wrapped it around myself and just when I was about to wear my undies, I saw a giant of a Spider, hanging right in front of me.

I had never seen such a thing in my Life. With his ugly big legs he was about to eat me alive.

I just screamed again and ran out in to my room. This time I managed not to get out of my room in the hallway. I managed to have that small white towel around me but my scream was enough to gather attention and again a lot of people came running into my room.

I am a tall girl. The towel looks really small on me. (I realized it when I got some alone time and decided how much of me was exposed. It wasnt a good sight for me :()

The men in the crowd decided to go in to check what was it. The first one who went in came running back out as he was too scared of the shit. But one of the teenager, again went in and I heard a noise of his boot hitting the ground.“Its dead”, he announced and came back out.

The girls in the crowd were laughing at me. “At least she has a towel now!!!”, those and similar other words made me a laughing stock that day.

Well, everything went fine after that. I was planning to wear a beautiful chania choli that day to get the most of the attention. But I decided to stick with a simple jeans t-shirt that day.

Damn Bugs.
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110. What is the most embarrassing thing someone has found on your phone or computer?

Oh I am sure this has happened to a lot of you.

Its About Your entire porn collection or a part of it - got caught by some of your relatives!!!

So if you know what happens, you need not read further. Or else carry on.

BTW for some curious boys out there: Yes!!! We girls do watch p0rn and we also collect it and hide them inside some strange folder names in the Windows directory on C Drive.

So this one day, one of my Aunt visited my flat as she wanted to find a recipe of some dish she wanted to prepare. She wanted to use my computer because smart phones, in those days, were not very smart. She wasn’t sure how to use a computer so I helped her. As we searched for the article on Google, we saw a beautiful photo of the dish which she wanted to prepare. So I went ahead and saved the photo as tasty.jpg. But while saving the pic, I forgot the folder where I saved it. But I remembered the name. So guess what I did? Just searched for tasty*.jpg in the entire c drive.

It took a while, but the thumbnails of the search result just took my breath away. I panicked. There were a series of pics with names tasty001.jpg to tasty100.jpg and lot more tastyxxx.jpg. If you haven’t guessed it yet, the pics were of girls giving head to boys and enjoying the taste. Ewwww. I was stunned and freaked out. To elevate the level of embarrassment she started making noises as if she would puke then and there. The panic got me and while trying to close the search window, one of the pic got enlarged. For me, that was the dirtiest pic at that moment. She just covered her face with her Saree and left my house and I was still sitting there embarrassed.

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111. What are some embarrassing one night stand stories?

This was really embarrassing. This happened a while ago and I have never told about this incident to any one because it was really an irritating embarrassing incident which left me high and dry.

So I met this one guy around 2 years back. He was handsome, rich and had a really nice smell (Yeah weird…right?). We chatted for couple of hours and then went to a dinner where we first kissed.

After couple of weeks, we arranged one more date on one of the raining Friday nights. I remember the night clearly as I wasn’t drunk. He took me to his apartment and we ordered a pizza. I have had only one beer and I ate very less.

We decided to go to his balcony while it was still raining. We both were wet but it felt awesome. He took me to his bed after we dried our self and we started undressing each other slowly while kissing. The passion was high and he smelt really good.

But as I was getting undressed, I looked his face and realized his expression getting changed. As if he was expecting something else and he got something else. Suddenly something weird happened, which I never had even dreamed off.

Once we were fully naked, he started laughing manically. I covered myself with bed sheet and asked whats the matter. He said nothing and left the bed to go pee. I started getting dressed and when he returned, I asked him whats the matter. He, started preparing to sleep on his bed and uttered that your vagina resembles a vegetable. I was like “what the Fish”!!!

I just got dressed and slept my ass off on a sofa in the drawing room.

When I woke up, he was drinking a coffee and eating a big sandwich. He saw me awake and said “You won’t get any. Leave!!!”.

I, in my mind, recited the entire dictionary of slangs I knew and left the place immediately.

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112. Do you like being bottomless or naked?

No. Not really. It is not very comfortable if you think it is. Sometimes it hurts your naked bottom if a cold steel or pointed thing pokes at your bottom. Other than that, a hot pant or a nighty is way more comfortable than nothing. Plus its less Sexy to be bottomless or naked than tease your partner with a bit of peek a boo game.

Being bottomless or naked gives your mind a signal that you want sex but sometimes your body doesn’t need it and that plays a strange chemistry in my mind which than becomes depressed. So I never stay naked at home.

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113. What was your most awkward sex experience?

It inst the MOST AWKWARD sex experience in my life but it is one of those which we tend to remember throughout our life.

After a bad day of lonely Friday night, I was in a no mood to cook food. So I went to a restaurant to have some simple light weight dinner. The bad day continued with very bad food. I was so pissed off, I just ran out of the restaurant looking for a bar. They say that you should not take decisions when you are emotional. That’s the mistake I made. I went to the bar with tears rolling out of my eyes. I ordered a beer and sat in a corner near a family ( I usually sit near families when I am alone, just to be safe). I was half way through my drink when a stupid looking uncle, may be in his early forties, came to me and asked if he can join me. I just ignored him and continued with my drink. He too continued with his drink and with the look of it, he too was having a bad day.

I kept an eye on him. Specially to check if he was checking me out or not. Even though my face was a mess, but I believe (at least at that point), that my body was still irresistible. But he, never even once, looked at me. Just kept drinking his beer and thinking something. His, kind of, rejection towards me, fueled my anger and I became desperate to get his attention. Not that his looks were good or something. He wasn’t that bad looking either. But at that point, looks were of no concerns to me. I started to have a conversation with him. He kept on talking and talking and talking and cursing his life and all. I don’t think he was interested in listening to me.

Listening to him, I felt that I am at a better position than him and that made me feel a bit better. I know it was selfish to feel that way, but probably it was the beer or something. One thing led to another and we decided to leave the bar. We went to my place, as I was alone, and decided to have few more beers. I knew in my mind, as to why I have invited him to my house. He did too. So do you. Right? So cutting to the chase, we get into the act after around an hour of doing almost nothing other then watching TV and drinking beer. I had 3 cuz that’s my limit which I NEVER cross, come what may. He had a good built and was fit and so he was heavy. Too heavy for me. Plus, he was on top of me. I was getting crushed under his weight. Though it felt good but the weight was too much. He was in a missionary position and refused to change. I started feeling numb in my legs and after a while, I totally lost sensation in my legs. At that point, I told him that my legs are hurting and the blood circulation in my legs had stopped.

He regained his sense and pulled himself off of me. My legs were totally numb. Once he got off of me, I started getting the blood flow but it felt like thousands of needles poking in my legs. He was rubbing one of my legs and I was rubbing the other one. He and I both were worried as I never felt such a thing in life and I was kind of freaked out at it.

It took around 10 15 minutes for my legs to get back to normal. Till than both of us became normal too. I got dressed and so did he. He politely asked if he can sleep on the couch outside to which I said yes. We never FINISHED what we started but we both got rid of the BAD DAY feeling. We went to get a good cup of tea in the morning and then he left. We never met again.

PS: Upvotes are not needed but are appreciated. Every comment will be replied with love. :) So keep commenting.

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114. What does it feel like to be "upskirted" or have your underwear exposed when wearing a skirt?

Skirt is my fav. thing to wear. Its really comfortable and it makes me feel really cute. But that doesn’t mean I like being upskirted. I take extreme care to avoid any such situation. I find no reason why any one might like it. I am so terrified about being upskirted because its really embarrassing and you have to keep your legs always clean in case the accident happens. Now I am actually surprised that I do love wearing hot pants and shorts but I am still very scared of upskirts. Best way to avoid such situations are to wear skirts with inner shorts. Not sure what they are called but now a days many skirts and mini skirts comes with inbuilt ho pants or shorts

I remember one such incident which I still remember.

So let me describe you a real life incident .

Indian Trains are bi**. Really. Specially for girls, never wear a skirt for traveling in train. Its a mistake which I made and hence I am advising you. Avoid clothes like skirt, tight leggings, kurti etc. Actually, I am not sure what to wear while travelling in trains if you are a girl especially when you have got a upper berth reservation

So I was once travelling by train in sleeper coach and my seat was reserved to an upper berth seat. It was summer time and due to vacations, trains were running full.

So this is how upper berth looks like. There is a side berth (side upper) too and if you climb on the upper birth, the person sitting on the side birth can look up to you and get a good view of everything on display - if you know what I mean.

Because it was summer, I was wearing a skirt. Though it looks quite simple to climb up the upper berth, trust me, its not that easy. It took me couple of attempts to climb up the berth and I was clearly able to hear the two guys laughing and ogling at what they got to see up my skirt. It was really embarrassing to expose your privates to such perverts. They talked about it all along the journey and I was so furious but was not able to do anything.
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115. Has a hotel maid ever walked in on someone at an awkward moment?

Hotels are not for me. I always feel uncomfortable staying at the hotels. No matter how luxurious they are, I find it bit strange to sleep on a bed which have been slept upon by countless strangers. Also I do love swimming but I avoid swimming in pools with my friends because they cant be trusted with their loo habits (You know what I mean. Right?) So this was once I was in a hotel in Goa which had a swimming pool. The weather was pleasant and water was blue. It was 7 in the morning and there were quiet a few swimmers. Most of them were visitors from other countries. They were busy enjoying the sun and getting a tan. If you have seen me, I don’t really need a tan.

So back to the pool. I was having a good time alone as all my friends were still having the hangover form the last night tequila competition. There were very few Indians. The pool was a big one. So I had plenty of space to swim and enjoy the water. I was wearing a swimming costume which I had purchased from Goa.

Now the thing is, if you have seen me, you will realize that I am quiet thin. As I was swimming the ill fitted costume was giving me a lot of trouble as it was slipping down again and again and I was having a hard time keeping hold of it. I finally decided to stop my swim in few minutes and decided to get out of it. As I tried to climb out of the pool, the bottom of the swim suit, slipped down, like a lot down. And I was already half way out of the pool. That was really akward. I had to first climb out of the pool and then adjust my bottom. I was sure the visitors just ignored me but I am not sure about those few Indians :). Just kidding.

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116. Why does sex feel good? From an evolutionary point of view, is it to give incentive to reproduce?

Complex question with not an easy answer. I am not a PhD doctor or something who can really answer it in detail but Iwill try my logic here.

Body has needs. It needs food. It needs water. It needs exercise, sex, clothes, heat in winter, cool air in summer, it needs to pee, poo and what not.

Whenever you are hungry you eat. Eating may or may not feel good depending on your taste. Water will almost always feel good. For some, exercise will feel good. Wearing good appropriate clothes will make you feel good. Peeing when you need to, sometimes, is heavenly.

Basically all your needs can be fulfilled in a way you would love it, provided you have the means to.

So needs were designed to feel good. But they can be fulfilled in a way where you might not like it. Try eating a bitter gourd while you are hungry. It will fill your stomach but will upset your tongue.

Sex is a need which can be fulfilled by almost always feeling good.
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117. What is the weirdest thing someone has ever done to get into your pants?

Tolerated me, Lost his V to me, Cook for me and wash my laundry, Live in with me, Tolerate, accept and approve my OTHER relationships, Spent my money :)
Choose your pick.

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118. What was your first romantic mistake? Have you made it again?

First Romantic mistake : I think many of us had made the same mistake. Specially the girls in India. Give in it for his demands for Sex early in the relationship. Because once you cross that line with him, then, in most of the cases, for him the Romance revolved around getting into your pants. But for you, romance might be something else. So it depends.

That one thing, changes your life. When you cross that line, there is no turning back. I am not saying that its a good thing or bad thing. Its up to you to decide weather its good or bad. For me it was Okay. Neither good nor that Bad. I was okay with it and I was aware what I was walking into. Not that aware but I was confident enough that I can handle it even if it turns out to be a mistake.
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119. What was the strangest request you ever had while making love?

Sex is a strange pleasure. Especially in India. It is considered to be a taboo if you are caught talking about sex. People start judging you even if you say KISS. Such a strange country with such a huge population. It just proves that Indians are equally (or maybe more) hungry for sex than their counterparts in the west or elsewhere.

Huge population means a lot of different kind of men and women. Huge diversity in cultures, eating habits, sleeping habits and other preferences is considered as an identity of India as a nation. Behind a closed door, what a man wants from his wife on a regular day is nothing different. But given an odd day, few Indian men are really weird.

I have had my fair share of relationships and have seen really strange men. Every men I have met have at least one strange demand. Like once I met this really fair skinned tall man with dark black hairs and a really strange small beard. Almost like that of a goat. Other than that he was well built and looked straight from heaven. Spotless body and firm butt made him delicious. But in middle of the night, he asked me to pull him closer by pulling his goat beard as hard as I could while he was on top of me and then bite his lips and then lick his lips. Weird thing was, he wanted me to KNOW what to do without him telling it to me. If that wasn’t weird, his skin was so white that even a single spank made him red. But that wasn’t the strangest request I have had.

Once I met this really skinny guy from my office. He was obsessed with my armpit folds. That was what I thought. I have mentioned him once in my previous answer. I caught him a lot of times staring at my armpits. It made me disgusting so I decided to talk to him. He almost begged me to allow him to touch my armpits. Decency apart, this guy had no shame or fear whatsoever. Right in the middle of a restaurant, this guy was asking something which was, I thought, would make me puke. I said NO. But he was not going to back down. For a few next weeks, he kept on requesting and pleading me and slowly I started enjoying his pleadings. I enjoyed the feeling of having power over him and made him do some favors for me too and then I allowed him to touch him for many times. Once he offered me for dinner and took me to his place. I wasn’t very fond of him but it was almost a mercy sex which I was offering him. After he removed my top and touched my armpits his expression changed. He kissed me and started wearing his clothes. When, in utter shock, I asked what happened, he said that we will do IT after I have grown my hairs. Eww. This was the second time I was denied sex by a guy halfway through. Plus this was mercy sex. Not only it was strange but it left me stunned. How can he say no to mercy sex and that too by me?
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120. What has gone wrong with Indian TV advertisements?

I think nothing is wrong with Indian TV Ads. Yeah, I get it that there are few ads which are absolutely nonsense. For eg. the PEPSI and the Coke Ads.

But there are hundreds of quiet creative and entertaining ads on Indian television which can easily replace the crappy Indian TV shows. You can entertain yourself by watching really funny and creative Indian ads. The advertising sector in India has been showing several signs of having evolved for the better, these days. There has been a spurt of recent commercials that manage to sell the products they’re advertising while still delivering bold, social messages.

Unlike other countries, Indian ads have a fusion of everything - starting from Indian Culture and going to the extremes of sensuality, we have got it all. I have seen hours of USA TV and commercials but they really lack creativity. Most of them are selling Insurance. In India, we have ads to sell everything. Even elaichi.

Some of the epics of Indian Ads

Amul has, I think, surpassed everyone around the world for its creative ads cartoons
After the ban on Alcohol ads, the creative ways Indian companies have promoted alcohol is very clever.
Fevicol ads have made us laugh since the beginning of the ages.
Raymond has bought the best of the Men fashion and glamour to the Indian television.
Vodaphone gave life to those cute zoo zoos. Who can forget the cute dogs used for advertising a cell phone network?
Lux has been selling us how celebrities bath since the beginning of Ramayan
We all know hema rekha jaya aur sushma of Nirma
Thanks to Havells, we now believe that wires don't catch fires.
We all know what is the secret of Energy of Cricketers (Boost)
Men will be Men. Who taught us that?
MDH made a record with the eldest model working for Indian Ad.
Airtel made us make more friends with their every friend is important slogan in Hindi.
Now many of us are dimag se dhoni and dreaming 11 :)
Snickers showed us what we do when we are hungry
No one knows a culture better than a good marketer. But Ads like reunion by google, remarriage by Tanishq are ready to write new cultural statements.
These are only a few of the example of how creative Indian ads are.

The only thing I find wrong with Indian ads is that we see a lot of them and hence we don’t get a chance to acknowledge the creative genius of such ad makers.
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121. Why does mankind work so hard and even cheat on others to be successful when god already plans our future?

Brilliant question. I have been trying to find the answer for this question for ages and have made a small theory about it, which is not complete but is in a draft state. Before describing my theory, I would like to state few postulates based on which I created this theory.

My Postulates:

Nothing is free in life. NOTHING. Not even GOD, tears, love, smiles.
Death is the only truth.
Now lets start with the theory.

So the question has a very important word called “GOD”. Let us first try to understand our perspective on God. Ar kie you very sure that God is real? Does he really exist? If you believe that there is no God than you would have never asked the question. But for my theory, the first point says that its possible that there is no GOD and we create our own destiny.

But what if God exist? What is God is real? In that case what is God?

For some, God is a supernatural all powerful being which is the creator and sustainer of whole of the universe. For some, God is only the creator while for some others God is the universe itself. Some people believe that God is unknown or unknowable and some others believe God is greatest conceivable existent. This is lot of confusion over there. But everyone has a certain feeling or realization of God in his or her mind. The common thing here is that God can do anything. One other class of people are there who believe in the word “WORK IS GOD”.

So now that we have few theories about God, we now know that what God is. But we don’t know how it works. So let us assume that he maintains the universe by a predefined sets of rules and occurrences which ultimately destines the fate of every individual. So even if I am writing something, its been destined by God. Even if you are reading, its been decided by God.

But if you think practically, it might not be possible for God to decide each and every action of so many living and non living things. He may decide the outcome but the means by which the outcome is reached is in the hands of the participants of that particular event.

Many religious books like Geeta, Kuran etc talks about how we can change our fate. How we can change what is written in our destiny. Out of the various ways defined by different books and religion, the common things are prayer, belief, good deeds and hard work.

Here, I really liked the idea or should I say a principle proposed by “Mahatria Ra”. Now I don’t remember his exact words, but what he wanted to say, in short, was that for success in ones life, one should have following things: Absolute faith in God, Thrive to excel in your work, Hard Work.

According to him, one should have absolute faith in God. No questions in mind, pure dedication. Second thing he proposes if to excel in your work. If you are not good at something, work on it. Learn it. Attain knowledge, practice hard and attain near perfection. Its not possible to get perfection, but if you thrive to get it, you will surely reach somewhere which is better than where you were when you started. Third is work hard. No shortcut to hard work and work smart. No shortcut to that. You wont get anything without it. You can make the third point easier if you do the second point but again the second point requires hard work. God helps those who helps themselves. He even bends his rules for his dedicated followers.

So now its established that God may not decided how you do things and how you move your hands or legs but he may decide the outcome and by hard work and dedication, you can even change the outcome.

So if you agree to this theory, I would like to conclude that Work is God.

Draft version.
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122. What is your greatest/funniest/most stupid drunk story?

This is the most bizarre thing happened to me while I was under the influence of liquor. I felt as if I am the worst kind of stupid girl ever walked on the planet earth.

So this happened not so long ago during summer. It was night. I was drinking on terrace. (Warning Never ever do that). The dark sky was clear but my head wasn’t. I was alone. Yeah I was drinking alone.

Now summer season means marriage season. My flat is at 3rd floor and that day, there was some kind of a function going on, on 4th floor, probably a wedding. So the 4th floor had lot of guests. I started drinking at 10 and when I woke up, it was 6 in the morning. My head was hurting and I wasn’t very sure where I was. My head was still spinning and I could see three or 4 sun and wasn’t sure which one was real. I decided to go downstairs and take a bath.

I went to the elevator and pressed the down arrow key. But because the elevator was busy serving the lot of guests on floor third, it was taking a lot of time to move and I wasn’t ready to wait a while for that. So I started walking down the stairs. From 16th floor to the third floor. It wasn’t easy but I somehow managed to reach my flat. I just went to my room, took a towel, my inner wears and headed straight to the bathroom. I wanted to put on some music while I was in shower so I searched for my phone but I wasn’t able to find it anywhere in my home.

That’s when I recalled that I forgot the phone on the terrace. So now I had to go back up the 16 floor. It wasn’t easy to walk up the stairs so I waited for the elevator and luckily it came quick and within few seconds I was on terrace searching for my phone. It hardly took a minute when I saw it near where I was drinking. I quickly grabbed it and started taking stairs.

I reached my flat and went straight to the bathroom. All this time, my head was still spinning and the hangover was killing me. I went to the bathroom, locked the door, undressed myself and started the shower. Just when I went for my body wash, I realized it wasn’t there. Nor my shampoo or my soap was there. Everything was gone or should I say was replaced with some other brands which I never used. It felt weird. Why would someone do that? And Who? I took a long hot shower and cleared my head. That’s when I realized that even the color of the bathroom had changed.

I was a bit shocked. I thought I am still drunk. I just wore my bathrobe and got out. I saw a strange photo frame on the wall. That is not my family - I said to myself. That’s when I realized that I am on the wrong floor. I just grabbed my stuff and ran upstairs. But before I can get out of the house, I could realize a lot of surprised strange eyes looking at me.

The most weird part was that I was invited to the wedding and every one had a good laugh when I attended the marriage.
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123. What is the most memorable/ embarrassing moment of your life due to rain?

Mumbai Rain

Rainy days are awesome. I love rain. I love getting wet and playing in rain. I love the cold water on my face and shoulders. Yeah, try it. Try and pay attention to dropping rain water on shoulders. It feels awesome.

All the fun aside, getting your clothes dry in rainy season is bit of pain in you know where. So once I was a victim of this pain and it was totally unexpected. No one could have ever imagined that this will happen to her/him. But it did and I was totally embarrassed, angry and humiliated in front of a lot of crowd.

So this was once when I went to a trip which was planned for around 5 days and I packed my clothes accordingly. But due to heavy rain, we were not able to return home for 7 days. We reached home on the 8th day and till the time we reached, I had all my extra under wears exhausted. Specially my “TOP SUPPORT”. I was tired due to a long journey as I had to travel by road. So as soon as I reached my home, I just dropped myself dead on the bed. And I was dead for around 8 hours.

The Sun, in those 8 hours, traveled a lot of earth and was right on my head when I woke up. It was noon and I was in a hurry. But I had no top support to wear. What to do? Go without support. But what about protection? I cant wear a T-Shirt to my workplace. So I decided to wear a perfectly opaque White formal shirt and buttoned it up to the highest level possible. I also used two pasties for extra protection. After getting ready, I just took a quick look at myself to ensure that everything was at their respective place, ran to my 2 Wheeler and started driving in the afternoon sun. It was sunny and humid but wasn’t very hot. The weather was very cool. I enjoyed the ride but reached late.

In the evening, I decided to take an early leave to do my laundry and also cook some food. So at around 5, I took my bike and started riding towards my home which usually takes 30 minutes for me to reach. As I started driving, I heard a thunderous sound of dark scary clouds. Though I love getting wet in rain, but I hate driving in rain. The rain water on helmet glass makes it very difficult to get a clear vision plus the breaks don’t work and the roads are full of water.

As I reached the main road, which is like half my ride to home, it started raining heavily. Such was the force of rain, you know Mumbai rain, that it was difficult to control my bike. So as every one was doing, I tried to take shelter under a tree.

I was totally wet, from my shoulders down to my shoes. My socks were so wet and it made me feel so awkward to wear wet socks. My pasties were gone due to heavy rain and I could feel the rain water running down my chest from inside of my shirt which was now totally soaked in rain water with a lot of mud spots. It was a total disaster. My white formal shirt, soaking wet, cold air... I was scared my nipples were going to punch holes in that shirt! And it totally clung to my chest as if I was like naked.

Man, I felt so ashamed, all those eyes on me. Really everyone looking at me. Looking at my chest mostly of course. As if they had never seen any before. It was so embarrassing. Best I could do was to cover my chest with an arm as the other arm had a lot of groceries bags. I really felt ashamed but well then actually I got over it. I realized there was nothing I could do about it, just had to let them look. You know those guys all looking at me, they all tried to make it not so obvious. I just started looking back at them. And smile, showing them 'hey I know what you're looking at, dirty man!', and then they would all turn red and look away. Couples were even better, the woman would usually look angry at her man.

I am sure this might have happened to a lot of us. I have seen many guys and girls facing such embarrassing situations and I never bothered till that happened to me. Phew…. Never take risk in rain.
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124. What was your weirdest experience witnessing a festival?

Festivals are the lifeline of the social life in India. We have so many festivals that we have at least a dozen government holidays every year plus bonus at least 10 to 15 other kind of holidays just for festivals. We celebrate some of the most colorful and brightest of the festivals and also some of the most noisiest and most crowded festivals. We also have few very violent festivals and some very sweet festivals. We celebrate Holi, Diwali, Eid, rakhsabandhan, Christmas, Ganesh chaturthi, ramjan, navratri, moharram, teej tyohar etc.

Point is - we celebrate a lot. One of my fav festival is Holi. Masti of Holi is unparallel. The colours, the water, the bhang and what not.

But it's also a very risky festivak, specially for girls. It took me around 5 to 6 Holis to get dressed in a way that the chances of getting embarrassed were close to zero.

Come what may you wear on Holi, you are still not safe of some kind of embarrassing malfunctioning or incident.

Once I decided to wear a tight white jeans and ended up having imprints of two hand on my ass the whole time.

I remember this one time, when I was still a teenager full of energy, less brains, excitement for Holi and crazyy cruel friend circle.

I was confused as to what to wear on Holi. I decided to Google it and ended up founding a lot of filmstars wearing a cotton white loose kurta and shorts. So that was a clue to me. I decided to wear the same. But the problem was that I had no white small kurta. Also the shorts were too short as they were an year old. So I borrowed it from one of my friend. But the kurta was a couple of size larger then what I was comfortable with. And so was the short. I decided to add couple of extra holes in my belt and after wearing the kurta and shorts, was ready to play Holi.

Mom and dad didn't wanted to be colored or anything, so they went to one of our relatives and promissed to return till afternoon, locking the house behind. The lunch was arranged by our society, free, for everyone and so was the artificial rain and gulaal.

With some cool music, the sight of our ground was Scarry, chilling and still exciting. People were putting colors on each others, getting wet in rain, dancing on the peppy Bollywood numbers and enjoying themselves.

As soon as they saw someone new, they will attack him or her and colour him/her from top to bottom. Once she looks similar to the everyone in the crowd, they will again start dancing and waiting for their next prey.

It was almost like watching Walking dead. As if a group of zombies will attack a person and convert him into a zombie and then wait for their next prey.

My friends, as soon as they saw me, jumped on me. I screamed as they pour cold water on me. Within a blink of an eye, I was coloured from too to bottom. I felt hands everywhere. My poor belt was struggling to hold the weight of the wet shorts and the short was loosing it's grip. I tried hard to keep it up but I wasn't very successful as I felt hands roaming around my body. One of my friend, not sure if he was a he or she, found entry thru. my loose kurta and reached my bra, pressed it and coloured it all. I was shocked and was laughing because of the tickles, when suddenly I felt a hand entering my shorts from behind and colouring my butt.

I fought hard, tried to drop my weight to the ground, and curl myself up, but I am a very slim trim girl and it was so easy for them to colour EVERY part of my body. Even my teeths. My shirt was fully colored dirty blue black green. The cold water and cold breeze had a very embarasing effect on my nipples. I wish I could go back and undo it all. They tried hard to tear my shirt off but as it was wet, it became difficult for them to do it.

I saw a lot of people staring at my chest and my long legs and I ended up showing up a lot more skin then what I would have wanted. Walking around the party became embarrassing and whoever would see it would stare at me for a long time from the corner of their eyes. My house was locked and my parents were taking forever to come back.

The most difficult part was to get hold of my shorts as they were slipping all day and I am sure a lot of people saw what they were not supposed to see.

When my parents returned, a lot of my clothes were half dry. I decided to gather all of my strength and do the most difficult part of holi- getting rid of the colours in bath.

I was shocked at the amount of color my hairs were pouring out. My breasts were pink and I had a lot of colours under my breasts at the bottom. My butt was green and the crack had color too. My teeth were green and my head was silver. The most embarrassing part was my cleavages having pink color as they were visible for next court of days.
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125. Was Meerabai a devotee of Lord Krishna or a lover?

Let me answer this question with a comparison of a lover and devotee. I will compare Radha ji as a lover and Mira Ji as a devotee. Though comparison is futile. But still let's go ahead.

Krishna spent a lot of his love on Radha ji. He practically lived with her. Their love is known to everyone. Their love is eternal. They never got married. Radha ji suffered viyog of Krishna. Though Krishna was always inside Her heart, but for external world, Krishna left her.

After all the love she offered to Krishna, Krishna married Rukmaniji and others.

But all she wanted was Krishna's love. Their love was like - Krishna as a Body, Radha as a soulmate. Without Radha there is no meaning to Krishna and without Krishna there is no meaning to Radha. Thus they are referred to as Radha-Krishna. Krishna was Radha’s manmohan.

Here Radha was the object of desire for Krishna. When Krishna and Radha met in swarg, Krishna said that he missed her with tears in his eyes. But Radha said she never missed him nor shed a tear for him, as, for her, HE was always with her.

But in their destiny, they did not met each other and were separated.

Meera Bai on the other hand was a devotee who accepted Krishna as her husband. She faced numerous difficulties but never stopped chanting Giridhar Gopal. She believed that there is no one in the world except Krishna. She was addicted to see Krishna. And found him in her soulmate. In her life time She couldn’t meet Krishna yet she didn’t give up. She always sang “mere toh Girdhar Gopal Dusro na koye”.

She had lived in Vrindavan several days and at last went to Dwarika. When King Uday Singh of Jodhpur sent some Brahmins to get back Meerabai, she didn’t go with them. So all the Brahmins adecided that they will not return. At that time there was being arrangements of Krishna janmasthmi utsav in Dwarika. Devotees was merry in Bhajans. Meera dances and entered sanctum sanctorum of Shri Krishna’s temple.

When the door opened, people saw that Meera was not there. Her scarf wrapped on the statue and statue was being extremely lighted. Meera was contained in statue. She was meeting with her beloved.

So finally Meera met Gopal. It was her devotion which turned into love. While Radha was a lover and it was Krishna who was actually a devotee of Radha. Radha ji told to Krishna that he can go and seek out his Dwarkadheesh image but every home every temple will stand with me.

For Krishna, Radha was Superior to Meera ji. Though he never comapred them but that's just my interpretation. But for me, Meera ji is superior who gave everything to her love even without seeing him.

Wo to Radha Ka bhi shyam

Wo to Meera ka bhi shyam.

One other note here is the controversial view of Mr. Devdoot Patnaik. According to him

“The problem here is that Radha is a mythical character who comes to us from Jayadeva's Gita Govinda composed 800 years ago, and Meera is a historical princess and poet-saint who lived 400 years ago in Rajasthan who was very real.”

Strange but that's what he believes. According to him, no ancient scriptures mentioned Radha ji. According to him, due to myth of Radha, world completely ignores Krishna's legitimate wives, Rukmini and Satyabhama, Kalindi and Jambavat and other junior wives.

For me, Mr. Devdoot Patnaik is a No. 1 fool and you can't win an argument with a fool.

Please comment your thoughts in comment section. I am eagerly waiting for them.
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126. Does a girl's nipple size increase when it is being touched or sucked?

I can surely say, by personal experience, NO they don't.
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127. What is it like to see a friend's penis for the first time?

I laughed. Like a loud laughter and he was embarrassed. I told him what the f*** is this? It's not like what I have seen in movies. He said that all that in movies are due to drugs. I told him to cover-up as it smelt bad plus it had so much hairs. His reply was epic which really made me embarrassed and blush. He said “As if you don't have hairs there”. I just left the room without a word. Later I texted him a sorry. Our friendship changed from that day.

I was unable to look into his eyes and he too avoided me.
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128. Outside of sex, what's the greatest feeling ever?

Well nothing beats peeing after not able to pee for an hour or two of full bladder. Call me sick or anything but I really enjoy that. Longer the better. But this is one thing I don't want to happen to me ever again. It hurts
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HQ) What were the weapons of Kush and Luv?
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129. What is the most embarrassing thing that happened to you recently?

Recently we all have faced a huge life changing experience called lockdown due to covid 19.

We are now officially living in a AC era and we have fond memories of Bc (after covid and before covid).

Covid 19 has changed everything. Deserted roads, death tolls, uncertainty, fear, loss, pain and lot of emotions has changed humanity. People started getting less social physically due to social distancing. Now almost every one is on online social network. Even our grandparents.

One of the most famous online social app is TikTok. Frankly speaking, I was never interested in it but lockdown boredom got to me and I installed it. Addicted by the funny videos, I wasted a lot of my lockdown time with TikTok.

The urge to create a video started growing inside me. I thought of creating a dance video just for the sake of it. So I created a small video of few dance steps in my LOCKDOWN tshirt and jeans and posted on TikTok. But after couple of days I got very few views. I was disappointed. I created another one with same result. I said fck TikTok. Let's see some other app. I saw a new app called Kawai app which was equally famous. So I posted my video there.

Now my dance video was a very clean decent video and I tried my best to show my dancing skills but at one point in the video, it had a step where I had to bend down. You can now guess where I am going with this. My casual carefree LOCKDOWN TSHIRT gave no protection to my modesty and exposed a lot of something which put a lot of preassure on my CHEST.

Kawai crowd was quick to pick that up before I could. They not only commented degratory comments but also created lot of duets. Around 27 people created duets where they were lusting on my chest.

Before I could takedown my video, it had more the 45000 views and 100+ comments and tons of shares plus thousands of downloads.

I decided never to go to such dangerous place ever. Not even fb or insta.

Typing on my phone. Please help me correct spellings and grammer. Commets are appreciated and replied. Upvotes brings smile.
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130. Has anyone made you feel embarrassed in a train?

I travel through trains a lot. I can't afford flying every now and then. So that's my obvious choice. But sometimes, trains in India are crowded like hell. Travelling in local trains are not everyone's cup of tea. Especially for girls..

One day something happened to me which I always thought was a awful thing to happen to anyone. I was unable to board ladies compartment because the train was full. I had to enter general compartment for a 45 minutes journey of a packed train. My thoughts were cryong and I didn’t know what to do and where to turn. I always thought I am strong and I promised myself that when something like happened I would know what to do! I would fight and shout! I would get help! I would fight back hard. But I didn’t. I stood there cuz I was Frozen. I kept sayomg myself, “If he does one more thing I’m going to say shout.” But I couldn't. That encouraged him.

This started when I was trying to board the train. As soon as I crossed the yellow line, I could feel a hand pushing my back inside the door of the train. I was crammed between him and another man. I tried my best to reach to something to hold to keep myself still and I tried to reposition myself so I wouldn’t be touching anyone else.

Slowly I started to feel it. Something hard was touching and pushing my butt. I tried to see to back but I couldn't turn due to the crowd but from the corner of my eyes I could see a 40 something dark tall male was drooling over me. I thought and prayed it was his hand but I knew it was something else.

At next station, due to some movement I managed to get a bit away from him. But after few seconds it started digging my Butt again. I was scared. This time he made a move. I tried to shove my elbow and push him away but he started pushing harder. I started darting my eyes around the car, silently begging someone to help. No one helped me.

He started getting bolder as I can feel his hand started touching my skin. I was alarmed and I was panicking but I was not able to shout as he kept getting encouraged. I only thought all this can happen only in p0rn videos but never imagined it will happen to me. My jeans were not helping. I wanted to shout. I wanted to cry. I wanted to kill. But instead I was frozen.

His thing was making me uncomfortable and I was wondering in my mind that why am I not shouting? Am I liking this? Am I enjoying this embarassment and humiliation? Is my body reacting to it? That should not be possible!! Or was it? I could feel his hand where I should not have been touched. The next station arrived and that made a bit of space in front of me. But to my surprise I wasn't moving. My legs were tied by some thoughts. It felt that a ton of weight was tied to my legs. It made me cry. I could feel people watching me and it only made me sick to my guts.

It ended when after almost 45 minutes as my station arrived. I could here people whispering. Damn it.
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131. What is your most embarrassing moment with a tailor?

I dont remember the the time of the incident clearly but it was when I visited my home town, my home village a while ago. The village environment was much better then what my city has. The mornings were pleasant and evenings were way cooler. The voices of birds and wind gave a kind of speciall effect in the background. Only thing I hated was afternoons.

So I decided to get a traditional choli stitched for myself in the village. I had very few choices of the tailors there but I choose the best out of the available choices. The tailor guy was almost double of my age, around 50s and had few hairs left on his head. But the way his hands were working on the machine, I was sure that he is an artist in his own meassure. After talking to him, and fixing all the date of delivery and rates, he asked me to give meassurements for the blouse and the skirt. He called me in the afternoon as I had to go to temple that morning.

In the afternoon, I thought about the best dress to wear to get the meassurement done. As it was an afternoon, I chose a Cotton shirt which will give me some relief from the Sun god. The problem with the shirt was it was thin. Thinner then the standards of the village. I am not sure the villages were used to see a girl in a cotton shirt. But they all seemed decent so I just wen ahead with that shirt.

I was still confused when I reached near the tailor shop. I slowed down. I looked towards the shop. It was half closed. I could see the tailor sitting inside the shop. He wouldn't notice even if I walked by. Should I come back later? I was so confused. What should I do? He was reading some newspaper I guess. May be it was his rest time after the lunch. I said Hi. He looked up and I could see him directly looking to my chest. He was almost as same tall as me. And he had a big pot belly. He had a thick mustache also. He observed my body once again, couple of buttons of the shirt open and a slight view of my chest through the top. That made me a bit uncomfortable. So I asked him if he was sure he can't take the measurements from the churidar I gave him?

"Actually, the stitching will be different for a blouse and a churidar. Also, if you want to change the neck or sleeve measurements, we'll have to take it again", He explained.

I agreed and gave him an OK to take the meassurement. He invited me inside and took the measuring tape and stood closer to me. His gaze was going towards my chest most of the time. I realized he could see my chest deep down.

First, he started with the waist. He took the tape and wrapped it around my waist, took the measurement and wrote it in a notebook.

Then he went down to take the length of the skirt. He sat on his knees in front of me and asked how much length I wanted. When I saw him down, I realized that he was just bellow my breasts and watching me from there. His one hand was at my hips and the other hand was at my ankles and started moving his hands up and asked me to stop him at the length I wanted. Which I pormptly did.

Now the top.

He started by taking the measurements of sleeves.

He put one edge of the tape on my shoulder over the shirt.

And asked me how much.

I showed him around 3 inches length.

Now he started measuring the armpit area.

He was not able to properly take measurement because the sleeves of the shirt were quite large and it was hanging at the armpit area. So he kinda pulled my shirt a bit away exposing me more then what I would have wanted. I was shocked and was embarassed. But I wasnt able to move due to the shock. He took his time and wrote down the numbers in the notebook. I rememberd how, in between he slowly touched my breasts through the top. After taking that measurement, he moved to the neckline area. He started measuring from my neck, towards the chest. He made the neckline normal enough that it stopped just above the chest but he made sure that the shoulder area was wider.

He made sure to take the measurements of my breast area very carefully.

The tape was hugging my breats while he took the measurement. Also his hands were all over my breasts while adjusting the tape and checking the measurements. He didn't even ask, how tight the blouse should be, at the chest area. It looked like he wanted to craft this item and the breasts are gonna be the central attraction of his masterpiece. It was started getting uncomfortable for me and I was really embarssed. Once all the front measurements are done, he came around and stood behind me. Stood as close as possible. He stood there and took the neck measurement from back. I could feel his belly pressing on my back. He asked me how wide I wanted my back to be. I told him to do whatever looks good. So he started drawing on his bootbook. He stared from the shoulder, around 4 inches away from the neck. Then he used his finger to move downwards. It went down straight vertically. This was gonna be really wide I thought. The back side of the blouse was gonna look like a three times wider version of a lace bra. And it's gonna show a lot of back side of mine. "Done" he said. I sighed a relief and asked when can I have my clothes. He said couple of days. I said good. I adjusted my shirt proplerly and left the shop.

After reaching home, I realized that I had allowed him to touch me here and there. I asked myself, “WHY?”. I got no answer. Probably I enjoyed.
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